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Gratitude Changes Attitude

November 10, 2014~ Decorating, Food & Entertaining

Looking through the lens of gratitude can refocus our thoughts and brighten our outlook. Since everyday living can often be very difficult, Paul reminded us how important it is to give thanks in all things.  Today’s setting serves as a reminder of a bountiful harvest of blessings. The two figures that are central to the scene remind me of all those who have gone before us, paving the way with sacrificial giving. We are all pilgrims on a journey. Traveling with gratefulness as a companion can certainly make a very bumpy ride a little smoother.
 
Two final thoughts:
Tomorrow is Veterans Day – find a way to say thank you to a veteran.
Thanksgiving is a few days away. We love this holiday, but hopefully we can make every day- a day of thanks giving.
 
“Let them thank the Lord for his steadfast love,
for his wondrous works to the children of man!”
Psalm 107:8
 
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The kitchen is “Our Refuge“.  Most of our everyday living takes place here!  We have an eight foot island that serves for casual dining, buffet, prepping station, etc!  The changing seasons are always reflected on the island!

I gathered a mixture of pumpkins, gourds, pods, and my collection of ceramic pumpkins

The pilgrims are the centerpiece–found these at Tuesday Morning a few years ago!

Close up of some of the ceramic pumpkins–I like the juxtaposition of the real and the ceramic!

I layered a leopard table square topped with a burlap square

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Love the acorns that V.V. (sister-in-law) gave me!

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The leopard square just adds the “wow”!  I love a leopard print and I do consider it a neutral in decorating and fashion!  The popcorn provides a seasonal nest for a pillar candle, and it is also seen here: Bon Voyage to Bon Appetit!

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Gold ceramic pumpkin and the real one!

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This autumnal display is warm & inviting–and serves as a reminder to us as to why we celebrate Thanksgiving!

“…give thanks in all circumstances;
for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you”
‭1 Thessalonians‬ ‭5‬:‭18‬

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  1. Jill Roberts says

    November 10, 2014 at 11:59 AM

    So wonderful.. I needed this in every way today! The reminder to enter in with thanksgiving just turned my day around! And THOSE PILGRIMS… gah!!!

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    • Pam Richardson says

      November 10, 2014 at 12:13 PM

      Love you, Jill!!!

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  2. Martina says

    November 10, 2014 at 5:03 PM

    Beautiful display!!

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    • Pam Richardson says

      November 10, 2014 at 10:42 PM

      Thank you, Martina for reading. Hope you will visit our blog often!
      Blessings,
      Pam

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  3. Michelle Mortensen says

    November 11, 2014 at 11:17 AM

    Pam, Your tablescape is really lovely! The blue chargers, in particular, caught my eye. They are unusual and really pretty ( I may have to go over to Horshow for a look around). I think it is wonderful that you were able to host Thanksgiving after your mother’s passing – as a great tribute to her memory. That is love.
    Best,
    Michelle from simplysantabarbara.blogspot.com

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    • Pam Richardson says

      November 12, 2014 at 3:03 PM

      Thanks so much, Michelle. Horchow has 25-30% off site wide through today. I will be hosting Thanksgiving again this year and I so enjoy having my family!
      Blessings,
      Pam

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  4. Nancy Roberts says

    November 12, 2014 at 12:00 PM

    Beautiful table. The pilgrims are so cute. I had a pair that I sold a few years back and I have regretted it since. LOVE the plates around the painting too!

    Nancy

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    • Pam Richardson says

      November 12, 2014 at 2:59 PM

      Thank you for reading and commenting, Nancy! I have enjoyed the pilgrims through the years! Have a blessed Thanksgiving!
      Pam

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  5. Susan says

    November 14, 2014 at 9:53 AM

    Such beautiful decor! Great job. You are right that an attitude of gratitude is where it’s at. It is life-changing. One’s attitude determines their altitude! Susan

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    • Pam Richardson says

      November 14, 2014 at 9:56 AM

      Thank you Susan for reading! Have a joy-filled Thanksgiving!
      Blessings,
      Pam

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  6. Bev says

    November 14, 2014 at 4:25 PM

    Love the way this looks…so rich and full. Your pilgrims are wonderful with all the ceramic pumpkins and fall elements. Gorgeous!

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    • Pam Richardson says

      November 15, 2014 at 7:22 AM

      Thank you, Bev! Autumn is such a beautiful time and I love its warm colors!
      Blessings,
      Pam

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  7. Barbara (WA) says

    November 15, 2014 at 8:27 AM

    Popped over here from BNOTP only to discover my favorite fall thing ~ pumpkins!! I love the ceramic & real pumpkin mix!

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    • Pam Richardson says

      November 15, 2014 at 11:16 AM

      Thank you, Barbara for stopping by! Please come often!
      Blessings,
      Pam

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  8. Elaine says

    November 15, 2014 at 3:32 PM

    A beautiful reminder of what the season is suppose to be……..
    Blessings My Friend,

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    • Pam Richardson says

      November 15, 2014 at 9:07 PM

      Thank you so much, Elaine! May your Thanksgiving be joy-filled!
      Blessings,
      Pam

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  9. Jann Olson says

    November 15, 2014 at 10:04 PM

    Gorgeous Pam! I love the mixture of the real with the ceramic pumpkins. You have such a pretty collection! Thanks for sharing with SYC.
    hugs,
    Jann

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    • Pam Richardson says

      November 16, 2014 at 8:09 PM

      Thanks, Jann!!!

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  10. the Painted Apron says

    November 17, 2014 at 2:16 PM

    Very Thanksgiving! I LOVE the leopard square fabric, such fun!
    Jenna

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    • Pam Richardson says

      November 17, 2014 at 8:05 PM

      Thank you Jenna! Hoping you have a wonder-filled Thanksgiving!
      Blessings,
      Pam

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  11. Sherry says

    November 18, 2014 at 10:53 AM

    Beautiful spread! Thanks for sharing!

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    • Pam Richardson says

      November 18, 2014 at 12:26 PM

      Thank you, Sherry!!
      Blessings,
      Pam

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  12. Haley Lillibridge says

    November 18, 2014 at 2:29 PM

    This is a beautiful table-scape and important reminder for this coming holiday…and everyday! Thanks for sharing it!

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    • Pam Richardson says

      November 18, 2014 at 7:42 PM

      Thank you so much, Haley for reading and commenting! Wishing you a joy-filled Thanksgiving!
      Blessings,
      Pam

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  13. Christine @ Rustic & Refined says

    November 23, 2014 at 9:51 AM

    Beautiful Thanksgiving vignette…love those statues you used. They are adorable!

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    • Pam Richardson says

      November 23, 2014 at 7:39 PM

      Thanks so much, Christine!

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My precious family enjoying a rare snowfall in Ala My precious family enjoying a rare snowfall in Alabama!
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On this cold, gray, and wintry day I am sharing fl On this cold, gray, and wintry day I am sharing flower therapy to hopefully brighten your day! On the blog today is a review of my 2024 Monday Morning Blooms! Joining me are my friends, Lidy @frenchgardenhouse and Mary homeiswheretheboatis.net 

CLICK LINK IN BIO for blog post! I hope everyone stays safe and warm!

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