“He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will abide in the shadow of the Almighty.”
Psalms 91:1
Merry Thursday dear friends! Are you all finished with your Christmas shopping? It is hard to believe that Christmas is less than two weeks away!
Today, I am so excited to welcome you into my family room, where you will find a whole lot of Christmas cheer! This summer, we made some changes in this room, and I had planned to share it with you before I decorated for Christmas, but I never got around to even taking photos! But today we are here, so grab a cup of coffee and let’s take a look!
It took me a few months to convince My Renaissance Man to let me paint the fireplace, but he finally gave in. We built our home in the country almost forty years ago, and it was to be our starter home. But, country living so agreed with us that we could never leave this twenty five acres of woods, pasture, and a view of Lookout Mountain. It is a small home by today’s standards but it is the perfect size for us.
My mantel and hearth are decorated almost the same from year to year!
This is a photo from last year with the brick unpainted. The decor is tweaked a little this year, but not much.
Our tree in the family room is filled with memories!
The large nativity sitting on the hearth is getting rather old, but it is one my favorites. If you look closely you might see a couple of broken fingers on the Wise Men.
You might notice that the natural cedar walls have changed. We had them pickled, but I like that the natural wood is still visible. I placed one of the many Santa’s made by my beloved Mother on the French chest with a little natural and faux greenery, keeping it simple.
You can see more of the wall detail.
I don’t think I have ever shown a view from the family room into our dining room. I am loving the blue walls that we painted this summer. I chose a lighter shade of blue from the fabric on the bergere chairs and window treatments in the family room.
You may have noticed that I use a mix of fabrics…plaids, florals, toile, leopard! I have always loved the English country style of decorating where rooms evolve over time and are filled with the things that are loved and well worn. I am not one to go with the current trends, but I stick to what I love. I don’t think there is anything wrong with being on trend, if that is what you prefer.
A sleigh with ornaments and a pitcher of faux tulips sit on the coffee table.
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Another cherished Santa from the hands of my precious Mother!
This shot allows you to see more detail of the nativity!
Thank you for visiting and for taking time to leave a comment. Wishing you a joy filled day!
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Diane says
Love the painted brick and picketed paneling. Your nativity is beautiful. Since I am older, I ,too, do what I like. I agree that if you want to be on trend that is fine,but I need to stick to what I like.
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you Diane. Merry Christmas to you and yours!
Anonymous says
Everything is so tasteful & so beautiful Pam & Butch. Thank you for sharing the beauty of your home during the Christmas holidays. So blessed to be your’s & Butch lifetime friend. Merry. Christmas & A Happy New Year. ✝️?
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thanks so much, your comment and email doesn’t let me know who you are. I would love to know, because lifetime friendships are the best!
Pamela Baker says
Thank you for sharing the beautiful Christmas decorations in your home. The white fireplace makes all the difference and really makes the Nativity Set stand out. I too, love “Old English” fabrics and furniture, having grown up with my English grandparents! Merry Christmas. Pam (my name also!)
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you Pamela for your visit. Wishing you a Merry Christmas!
Liz @ Home and Gardening With Liz says
Lovely Pam. The painted brick and pickled wall finish looks wonderful. Love the nativity scene especially since your mother made it. I have a few pieces my mom did in ceramics class years ago but haven’t set them out for a while. Your furnishings are lovely. That new blue color in the dining room is so pretty. I like how light and fresh it is. ?
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you dear Liz, have a wonderful day❤️
runn1n90nempty says
Well my favourite shot would have to be the current fireplace one, just beautiful. I’m a sucker for nativities. Always have to have one at Christmas. I like everything in that shot.
I know what happened. It was dangerous travelling in biblical days. The Wise men were set upon by brigands but would not give up their presents for baby Jesus, instead their fingers were cut off with scimitars. The end. (But not the end, as they were made saints by the church, really.)
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you Cath. I also love nativities and have them from several countries.
runn1n90nempty says
Wow, that would be great to see. Where we used to live, I could have bought one made in Bethlehem, but it was way outside my budget at that time. A pity, as the Christians there need all the help they can get.
Pam @ Everyday Living says
I have a nativity from Jerusalem, Uganda and South Africa plus some from Europe!
runn1n90nempty says
I don’t think my comment loaded, unless you have moderating now?
Pam @ Everyday Living says
It did load and you are always funny!
runn1n90nempty says
Tell that to Acerules, she doesn’t think so! Though sometimes I catch her in a grin.
Pam @ Everyday Living says
She thinks you are funny, she just doesn’t want you to know❤️
marmeladegypsy says
This is stunning, Pam. Absolutely breathtaking. Warm and elegant. I love the view of the living room into the dining room too — a good sense of perspective for when I see your tablescapes.
I remember your nativity on the mantle before. Why would you ever want to put it anyplace else? It’s perfect there. And I love your tree. It reminds me a bit of mine in that it is filled with all sorts of wonderful ornaments that express your memories. Beautiful in every single way!
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you dear Jeanie. I could never part with a memory tree. Have a wonder-filled Thursday!
Joan says
It is lovely Pam, everything is beautifully done. I love the English style. Merry Christmas to you and your family.
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you Joan and Merry Christmas to you and yours!
Katie Clooney says
Omg Pam, I don’t remember seeing your den before. The gorgeous combo of painted brick and lush paneling is the perfect backdrop for your stunning furnishings. You never let me down. Thanks for the eye candy, Pam!
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Katie, you are not only hilarious but you are so very sweet. Thank you!
S C Williams says
Pam, Your family room is so cozy & the pickled wood and painted fireplace are perfect. Your furniture is beautiful. I love your Mom’s ceramic pieces. She was very talented! The Santa sitting in the holly chair is just gorgeous! It looks as though it is an Andrea piece as it is so detailed. Isn’t it lovely to have memories to display? I love your large nativity set. Wishing your family a blessed Christmas! Clara ??⛄??
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Clara, you are so sweet. Christmas is about so many wonderful memories. Wishing you a blessed Christmas❤️
Penny at Enjoying The Simple Things says
First I love the painted bricks and the pickled walls. Your family rooms looks so warm and welcoming and your Christmas décor is beautiful. I have always loved the combo of your leopard rug and floral curtains.
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you Penny. Have a Merry, merry Thursday!
Bonnie Morgan says
Your room changes are beautiful! I loved the shot of your arched openings from the family room into the dining room. The fire place painted white makes all your lovely accessories and decorations shine. I wish my hearth was high enough to sit on.
Your nativity is gorgeous. I love how you display it!
You did have a busy summer with all the painting. Great selections.
Your mother would be so thrilled to see her hand painted pieces prominently displayed in your home.
Thanks Pam for your sweet comments about my Garden Club program. It went well.I had a few technology glitches at first and it was stressful but they were resolved in time.
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you so much Bonnie. We still are working in a couple of bedrooms. I am so glad your garden club program went well.
Anonymous says
Exquisite! Beautiful!
Karen
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you Karen!
Belle Bleu Interiors says
Oh Pam, I have so enjoyed my visit and tour this morning! Everything looks absolutely gorgeous! I love the painted fireplace…it creates such a lovely focal point. Your decorating style speaks to my heart, and we both share the same decorating philosophy. I adore English Country, and you have showcased this style beautifully. All of your Christmas vignettes are so pretty, and your home definitely is warm and welcoming for the Christmas season. Merry Christmas, sweet friend!!!
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you sweet friend and we do have a lot in common about our philosophy of decorating!
gisella says
I like your home, Pam. It is welcoming and warm. All your pieces and stunning objetcts make a place where to enjoy life and family. Love the changement, the brick wall and the color in the dining room are both perfect. Very good job, madam ???
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you dear Gisella. Merry Christmas!
Marina Brivio says
Bellissimi i tuoi decori, sembra di entrare in un mondo di fiabe?
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you so much for visiting! Merry Christmas!
ellen says
Pam, your home is stunning. I love the fireplace and especially the view into the dining room. The portrait of your handsome young man and your mother’s pieces are truly the things that make a home. I would much rather see personality in homes than Pottery Barn look-alikes! Thank you for sharing. And thank you for the bibles quotes that start your posts. Merry Christmas!
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Ellen, thank you for your sweet comments. Our home is made of many wonderful memories! Merry Christmas!
lulu says
Peeking inside is an absolute delight and reflects your warmth. Though our styles are quite different, there is commonality in what influences it.
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you so much Linda, I love peeking inside both of your homes!
Kari says
Pam the painted fireplace brick is stunning and of course I love your nativity on the hearth and the lovely memory that goes with it. The pickling of the wood walls was brilliant as well as beautiful. I especially love your Christmas Tree as it makes me all nostalgic of family Christmases. Your tree and fireplace could be on a Christmas card. Thank you for sharing. Blessings dear friend.
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Kari, thank you for your sweet comment and for your friendship! Merry Friday!
Roxanne says
Pam, this is so gorgeous! My best friend is trying to decide whether to paint her fireplace, I will be sure she sees this. Your dear mother was so talented, and you certainly inherited that talent. The portrait of your son is lovely. Your style of decor is definitely to my taste! I love my smaller house on 20 acres too…even if I won the lottery, I would stay right here!
One other comment on the step down from your dining room, a cautionary tale. My own dear mother went to see a new neighbor’s house. The house was a vast expanse of beautiful, shiny hardwood with a step down. The neighbor didn’t warn Mom about it, and there was an optical illusion that the floor was level. Mom fell off and badly shattered her wrist. She also had a step down in her home and after her fall, kept a small dark rug to break up that optical illusion in her own house.
Kathy Jensen says
I absolutely love your home. Thank you for sharing your Christmas decor. A couple of thoughts…you can disguise the broken finger by painting the white with a matching color of acrylic craft paint. You may have to mix a couple to get a match. If the finish is glazed use a shiny clear fingernail polish after the paint dries. If it is not a shiny glaze, just dab the clear polish a bit before it dries and that will dull it some and still take away the flat look of the paint.
The other idea comes from a friend who had a step down problem. He removed the board nearest the edge of the step, drilled tiny holes just smaller then the tiny LED lightbulbs in a string of clear Christmas lights. He attached the string securing a bulb in each hole to the underside of the board and hardwired the string to a switch in the home. After reinstalling the board it is beautiful, subtle and effective.
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you Kathy, I appreciate your suggestions. My thoughts are the Nativity is old and well loved, I may repair someday. Our home is forty years old and we have had the step down since it was built, hopefully no one will fall. My biggest issue is my little granddaughter wants to ride her little car off of it! Wishing you a Merry Christmas!
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you dear Roxanne. It is home sweet home!
Pam @ Everyday Living says
My comment disappeared. Thank you dear Roxanne, it is home sweet home to us. I always warn anyone who has never been here about the step down. My biggest problem is Ella Mae wants to ride her little car off. She thinks that would be fun. Merry Friday!
How terrible that your mom fell. I wear progressive lens and I have to be careful with all steps.
Roxanne says
That is the key, Pam, my neighbor didn’t warn Mom. She was young and Mom was about 80, so she didn’t think about it. You have your beautiful rugs that show the level change too. Maybe Ella Mae thinks she is the Dukes of Hazard! Or would that be Duchess?!?
Pam @ Everyday Living says
My sweet 88 year old daddy has trouble with any steps. I am always fearful of him falling. Ella Mae was so funny this week. She has already figured out how to tease me. We are making a gingerbread house on Monday. That should be a treat!
Marty@A Stroll Thru LifeMarty says
Oh wow, everything is amazing. I especially love your Nativity. BSOLUTELY STUNNING
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you so much Marty! Wishing you a wonderful-filled day!
Sandra at Maison De Jardin says
Pam, I am at a total loss for words. Your home is beautiful. I am in love, as I have said before, with your new paint color. And the shot from your family room into your dining room is gorgeous. I especially love the step down into the family room and the arched entry into the dining room. Beautiful details. Decorated for Christmas it is truly magical. I imagine Ella Mae’s eyes just pop every time she visits. Your Nativity is beautiful, I remember loving the photos of it last year. Also love your fireplace painted white, it is so pretty.
Thank you, Pam for sharing your home with us, it was a lovely – just like you.❤
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Sandra, thank you so much. It is home sweet home. Have a wander-filled day my friend❤️
Maristella says
Magnificent home!Stunning Christmas ornaments…Thanks for sharing!Merry Christmas!
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you dearest Maristella!
Marion says
So lovely. Wishing you and yours a Blessed Christmas and a Happy ,Healthy and peaceful 2019.
Marion
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you Marion, and wishing you a beautiful Christmas!
Anonymous says
I love everything about your style! And I am especially interested in what kind of paint you used for the fireplace. I’ve been thinking about painting over mine. After 39 years of the red brick in my den, I’m looking forward to a change. Lucky me to have the solution right on your blog. Blessings to you and your family.
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you so much. Since we no longer burn wood and only use our gas logs occasionally we were able to use a regular paint. If you burn wood, you have to use the paint that your paint store would recommend. I researched the internet. It was time consuming painting over the rough brick and mortar, but well worth it!
Marilyn says
Your family room is beautiful. Have a Blessed and Merry Christmas and a Happy 2019.
Marilyn
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you so much Marilyn! Wishing you a beautiful Christmas season!
Lea says
What a beautiful and warm and welcoming room. Thanks for sharing these gorgeous photos with us. Happy day!
Nancy says
Your family room is stunning! I love how the fireplace came out! It shows off the Nativity Set!
Beautiful my friend!
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you dear Nancy!
Patti Fralix says
Beautiful, Pam! I love love love the dining room color and the painted fireplace and pickled paneling. I loved these rooms before, and they are even more beautiful now. This is a great example of how wonderful change can be. Even when we are comfortable with what we have, we can create something even better, which you truly did. You are so talented, my friend.
Pam @ Everyday Living says
You are such a gift to me, thank you my friend!
Vivian Brossman says
Merry Christmas Pam, Butch and family! I have been anxious to see your updated reveal. It is stunning! I love the color and everything you did. You are so talented.
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you sweet Vivian and Merry Christmas to you and yours!
Dolores Velasco says
dear friend, I had passed this post and I really was not seeing this so beautiful.
I love the house with its new color, it looks very bright, beautiful and elegant.
The ornaments are very beautiful …
I congratulate you
Dolores
the Painted Apron says
Your home looks gorgeous Pam! I love your brick painted white it really makes your beautiful stockings and nativity stand out! I’ve never seen the view of your dining room from the living room, the arches and columns are soo pretty and I love how open it is! I love the way you have a lot of colors, textures and patterns all so beautifully mixed. I think the neutral decorating style is beautiful but I think I would get tired of living in a white world, I am a color person! I agree, decorate your home with what you love and let it evolve over time! Thanks for the peek!
Jenna
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you Jenna. It is home sweet home❤️
Tea With Jennifer says
I so enjoyed visiting you at Christmas Pam, my heart sang as we walked around your home together, I like the painted fireplace…Thank you for such a delightful time! ♥
Blessings,
Jennifer
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you Jennifer and blessings!
Alice Genzlinger says
What fun to make gingerbread houses with Miss Ella Mae! I have loved every second of this Christtmas season, decorating and baking, in fact I have tennis elbow from stirring cookie dough. Ouch! I laughed when the doc told me. I still wouldn’t change a thing as I so love making and gifting the cookies.
Thank you for showing your beautiful rooms. I love it all.
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Alice, I would love your favorite cookie recipe when you have time to send it to me!
Cheryl says
Oh, my goodness, Pam! If I lived in your house, I would never want to leave! LOL! It is BREATHTAKINGLY gorgeous. Oh, my, I could just sit and stare at these pictures for hours!! You are such a precious blessing to me and all who come here. You can just feel the warmth and love of Jesus in every post and in all of your decorating and all of the gifts God has given that you so lavishly share with us. Your comment this morning brought tears to my eyes, as I felt the shared sorrow both of us feel in missing our dear mothers who have gone to be with Jesus. I trust your time with your dear Daddy will be extra-special this Christmas. Sending much love and gratitude and many hugs your way this Lord’s Day!
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Cheryl, you are a treasured gift. Thank you dear friend!
Trish says
Your rug is beautiful. Any info on the rug would be appreciated. Love the style of your home.
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you so much Trish. The wool rug was purchased about 15 years ago, I don’t think you would be able to find it now. Happy New Year!
Linda says
Pam, Your home is absolutely gorgeous! I love how you decorated it for the holidays.
Pam @ Everyday Living says
Thank you so much Linda. Happy New Year!