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Thanksgiving Traditions

November 8, 2022~ Autumn, Blog hop, Fall, Tablescapes, Thanksgiving

Hello dear friends and Happy Tuesday. Thanksgiving is a little over two weeks away. Have you finalized your plans?

“Enter his gates with thanksgiving, and his courts with praise! Give thanks to him; bless his name! For the Lord is good; his steadfast love endures forever, and his faithfulness to all generations.”
‭‭Psalm‬ ‭100‬:‭4‬-‭5‬ ‭

Today I am excited to join seventeen table stylists to bring you a Thanksgiving Tablescape Blog Hop hosted by my friend, Rita @ Panoply!

Thanksgiving has always been one of my favorite holidays because it is about gathering around our table laden with abundant food, and joining hands with family as we give thanks to our Heavenly Father for His gracious gifts and blessings.

You will find links for the creative stylists at the bottom of this post.

I love traditions that have been passed down and those that I have begun during our almost 50 years of marriage. From my very first memories up until my beloved mother passed away, every holiday was spent at the home of my parents. She never allowed my sister-in-love or me to prepare any of the food. Not only was every holiday spent around my Mother’s table, but also Sunday lunch every week. The only exception to the holidays began four years before my beloved Mother passed away, when I decided to start hosting Thanksgiving at our home. We had just completed a new kitchen addition and I was excited to have my family for Thanksgiving dinner. I wanted my sweet Mother to be served and not to be serving us. Of course, she wouldn’t have it any other way but to cook the turkey and make her famous dressing!

My Mother made every holiday special and I do my best to continue her traditions. The Thanksgiving menu rarely changes! There will be turkey or ham, but I don’t really care for the meat, just bring on the sides!

Mother’s recipe for dressing (not stuffing) was never written down, but fortunately I watched her make it many, many times. The first Thanksgiving after her passing, my Daddy gave me the highest compliment when he said my dressing tasted just like hers. Butch will make his famous rosemary mashed potatoes, they are amazing! Sweet potato casserole, green bean Caesar, baked 4-cheese macaroni, broccoli salad, cranberry sauce from the can (my Daddy’s request), and homemade rolls complete the menu. Desserts will be hummingbird cake (my personal favorite) and pecan pies!

The Spode Woodland dinner plates always grace our Thanksgiving table. It is a tradition!

The Royal Stafford turkey salad/dessert plates were added a few years ago. They are a newer tradition and I use them to serve dessert!

The feather placemats were purchased for the first Thanksgiving at our home as well as the acrylic tortoise flatware and are a part of our Thanksgiving traditions.

“Thanksgiving was never meant to be shut up in a single day.”
~Robert Caspar Lintner

The plaid chargers were added within the last three or four years. The plate depicting a mallard duck is one of my favorites!

Tablecloths change from year to year and sometimes I decide to allow the bare wood to show in order to give warmth to our Thanksgiving table!

Eight different game birds are depicted on my Spode dinner plates. Each bird is illustrated in great detail and framed by Spode’s British flowers border which dates back to 1831.

Left to Right – Mallard, Red Grouse
Bottom Row – Lapwing, Wood Duck

Quail, Pheasant
Pintail, Snipe

I am often asked about the amber stemware. It was purchased for the first Thanksgiving hosted at our house from a local department store that is sadly now closed.

One element that always changes is the centerpiece. The very large charcuterie board (that I found at Blackberry Farm) was crafted in Europe using antique wood. It normally resides on our kitchen island but I do love to use it as a base for the dining room table centerpiece!

Pumpkins, antler sheds, foraged leaves and acorns make up the simple centerpiece! For a floral centerpiece, check out yesterday’s post, Living Every Day With Thanks.

The center peachy/pink pumpkin on the wooden cake stand is one that RM and the girls grew in their pumpkin patch! It has a place of honor on the table.

Be sure to visit each of the talented ladies below for beautiful ideas and inspiration for your Thanksgiving table!

Me and My Captain – Those Were the Days and I Am Very Grateful

Pandora’s Box – Thanksgiving Brings Back Memories

Living With Thanksgiving – Thankful and Blessed

Everyday Living – Thanksgiving Traditions

My Hubbard Home – Pumpkins and Pears Thanksgiving Holiday Table

Thrifting Wonderland – Give Thanks…Thanksgiving Tablescape

Panoply – Homeland Merriment Thanksgiving

Home is Where the Boat Is – Porch Dining with Plaid & Proud Tom Turkey

Corner of Plaid and Paisley – Give Thanks

My Thrift Store Addiction – In Everything Give Thanks – Garden Tea for Two

Life and Linda – A Copper and Blue Pumpkin Table

Karins Kottage – Come set an outdoor Thanksgiving table with me

The Painted Apron – Grateful Gathering

Belle Bleu Interiors – A Time to Give Thanks

Dinner at Eight – Patterns in Blue for Thanksgiving

Red Cottage Chronicles – A Cozy Cottage Thanksgiving Tablescape

The Bookish Dilettante – Thanksgiving Table in the Breakfast Room

The Little Yellow Corner Store – A Northwoods Thanksgiving

Thank you for your visit and gracious comments. Wishing you a wonderful Thanksgiving season!

Linking with:
 Pieced Pastimes,  Between Naps on the Porch, Katherines Corner, Follow The Yellow Brick Home,
 Imparting Grace,Life and Linda

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  1. Mary says

    November 8, 2022 at 6:22 AM

    Pam, Not only is your table beautiful but your menu sounds mouth-watering! I can pass on the turkey and ham too, but pass the mash potatoes, dressing, mac ‘n cheese and broccoli salad my way. The green bean Caesar sounds divine and like a nice light departure from green bean casserole. I’ve always admired your Spode Woodland plates with the variety of images. I love them paired with the feather placemats and plaid chargers. Love your handsome board and harvest of natural elements for your centerpiece. Blackberry Farm is on my bucket list. As always, it’s a treat to join you at the table and hop with you. Happy Tuesday. ♥

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 11:17 AM

      Thanks so much, Mary. I highly recommend Blackberry Farm. Have a lovely Thursday!

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  2. Bonnie Morgan says

    November 8, 2022 at 6:34 AM

    Pam, how pretty and meaningful your Thanksgiving table is! I love hearing about your family traditions for Thanksgiving. Your menu sounds fabulous!
    I know it is special this year to have your very own homegrown pumpkin as the center of attention in your centerpiece. How exciting for the kids to have had a part in planting and harvesting their pumpkins from their granddad and to learn about setting a table from their grandmother.
    Your plate stack is very pretty. I love all the plate patterns and the plaid and feathered placemat.
    All your quotes are meaningful.
    Wishing your family the happiest of Thanksgivings. I enjoyed your post.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 11:19 AM

      Thank you, Bonnie. The girls were excited to see their pumpkin at the center of the table!

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  3. Roxanne Bernard says

    November 8, 2022 at 7:25 AM

    Pam, I love hearing about your family traditions. My mama was such a wonderful cook and hostess too. The last few years she let Kelley and me take over the cooking also (under her very close supervision!). To this day I miss picking up the phone to ask her how to make something. We have dressing too! I love your charcuterie board on the table and the girls’ magnificent pumpkin!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 11:25 AM

      Thanks so much, Roxanne. I think our mothers would have been wonderful friends!

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  4. Alice Genzlinger says

    November 8, 2022 at 7:38 AM

    Thanksgiving indeed! The bounty on your table and those gathered around it are blessings from above. “We gather together to ask the Lords blessings” That’s a song I love to play on Thanksgiving.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 11:26 AM

      Thank you, Alice. I love that song and seem to hum it every day during this season of Thanksgiving!

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  5. K.L. Hale says

    November 8, 2022 at 7:44 AM

    This made me tear, Pam. I can “see” your precious Momma sitting at this amazing table. Undoubtedly, she’s smiling from above. There’s so much to love here I don’t know where to begin. The amber colors, the charcuterie board, the honored pumpkin, plaid and gorgeous plates…it all speaks of the precious love you have for traditions and your family. The menu made me hungry! I don’t have my Mom’s dressing recipe, but I help her tear the bread and could do my best to make it! I grew up with Sunday meals and Thanksgiving at Mom’s. You’re an honorary “Momma” to me! Thank you for sharing your traditions and beauty with us. I love you dearly! 💛 🦃 🍁🍂🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 11:29 AM

      Karla, what a blessing to be an honorary Momma to you. That made me tear up. I just know our mothers would have been friends if they had ever met. Treasure every moment with your precious mom and family, and I know that you do. I love you, sweet friend 🧡🦃🍁🎶🙏🏻🧡

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      • K.L. Hale says

        November 10, 2022 at 3:37 PM

        Finley and I love you and agree. 💛🧡 🎶 🙏🏻🤗

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      • K.L. Hale says

        November 10, 2022 at 7:09 PM

        I sure will, Pam. Finn and I love you! 🧡💛💚

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  6. Rita C. says

    November 8, 2022 at 7:53 AM

    I love the Thanksgiving traditions, Pam, and your furthering those for your family is a true gift in and of itself. The meal alone (my mother’s stuffing was one never written down either, but we sisters have all managed to replicate it well) is a gift well received, but plating it all so beautifully really makes it something to anticipate. Your girls’ first pumpkin is stellar! What a beauty, and how special to elevate its position on the table. They will be so excited with that! I love those Spode dinner plates and the feather placemats especially, but the stems and flatware make it even more special. I can imagine the chatter, the oohs, ahhs, and mmms as everyone is seated and having their meal. Thanks so much for sharing your family traditions and beautiful home and table.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 11:33 AM

      I love sharing family traditions in hopes that those who read will begin their own if they haven’t. I love having my family seated around my table. Blessings to you and your family during this Thanksgiving season. Thank you for all you do to make the hops successful. I appreciate and applaud you, dearest Rita!

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  7. Carole @ From My Carolina Home says

    November 8, 2022 at 8:04 AM

    Beautiful rich color on your table. Your menu does sound scrumptious, so great to have the memories of your mom. I have the same as we loved to cook together, and no holiday was as fun to do that as Thanksgiving.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 11:33 AM

      Thank you, Carole for sharing your memories of your mom!

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  8. marmeladegypsy says

    November 8, 2022 at 8:05 AM

    I loved reading about your beautiful family traditions and your mom. I have the strongest memories of my mom at the holidays and all the cooking and such! And, like you, I make her stuffing (dressing, now!) and never had a written recipe — just eyes and helping hands for many years. How I would love to be in the kitchen to cook with her again! Your setting is gorgeous and I especially love your centerpiece (as always) and of course your beautiful china.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 11:34 AM

      Thank you, Jeanie for sharing precious memories of your mom. Memories and food go together!

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  9. Kris@Junkchiccottage says

    November 8, 2022 at 8:14 AM

    Pam I love your Spode dishes. I always make my mom’s dressing and they all love it. It is a must at our Thanksgiving table. Your table is gorgeous. Hugs. Kris

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 11:37 AM

      Thank you, Kris. Hugs!

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  10. Cecilia says

    November 8, 2022 at 8:48 AM

    Pam, I so love passing down family traditions, so I really enjoyed reading about yours. Your table setting and Spode dishes are charming! Blessings, Cecilia @My Thrift Store Addiction

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 11:37 AM

      Thanks so much, Cecilia!

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  11. Linda Primmer says

    November 8, 2022 at 9:59 AM

    Pam, your family traditions sounds wonderful. How we miss our parents. The plate stack with the feather placemats, plaid chargers, and Spode plates is lovely. I love Spode and their different versions. How special to have the girl’s pink pumpkin as a centerpiece. Using the charcuterie board is perfect with your warm, cozy table. The menu sounds so yummy. Wishing you and your family a blessed Thanksgiving. Always a pleasure joining you.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 11:39 AM

      Thanks so much, Linda. I am so grateful to still have my 92 year old dad. Blessings during this season of Thanksgiving!

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  12. Clara says

    November 8, 2022 at 10:13 AM

    Pam, Love your table and traditions! My family would take turns hosting but my Mom’s dressing was usually front and center at the gatherings along with fried pork chops as I had an uncle not fond of chicken or turkey. I’m with you, the meat is okay, but the sides are what I prefer! Butch and the girls did a great job on their pumpkin patch. That’s a pretty pumpkin.The centerpiece is beautiful. I’m with your Dad on the cranberry sauce! I’ve had different kinds but still prefer the canned. Happy Tuesday! Clara❤️

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 11:41 AM

      Clara, thank you for your heartwarming comments. I will have to tell my dad that someone else loves the canned cranberry sauce. Blessings during this Thanksgiving season!

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  13. Maureen says

    November 8, 2022 at 10:21 AM

    What lovely memories of your precious mother Pam! There is nothing like family gathered around the table together. Your menu has my mouth watering! Our Thanksgiving was weeks ago, but I would relish to thought of enjoying such a feast! My eyes danced around your table taking it all in. Your plates are gorgeous, and those feather placemats! Oh my….love those! Your display of pumpkins, leaves and branches is so pretty. Happy Thanksgiving 🙂

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 12:40 PM

      Maureen, thanks so much for your sweet comments. It is always fun to hop with you!

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  14. marybtreaster says

    November 8, 2022 at 11:30 AM

    Love your table! And your menu sounds yummy. Not familiar with green beans Caesar,and wondering if you would be willing to pass along the recipe. Have a blessed day.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 12:41 PM

      Thank you, Mary. I will email you the recipe!

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  15. Debbee says

    November 8, 2022 at 11:43 AM

    Such a warm and festive table Pam! Love all the rich details and family history built in.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 12:42 PM

      Thanks so much, Debbee. I missed you hopping with us!

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  16. Barbara at Mantel and Table says

    November 8, 2022 at 11:47 AM

    This is beautiful Pam! Thanks for the lovely moment and the inspiration for tables, and living, I always find from you! xx

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 12:42 PM

      Thank you, Barbara!

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  17. Ricki Treleaven says

    November 8, 2022 at 1:44 PM

    Pam, your table is gorgeous! I love the plates. I have a fondness for mallards, too, and we are blessed to see them everyday during our morning walks. I enjoyed reading about your mother and your Thanksgiving traditions. Your menu sounds heavenly, especially the hummingbird cake. I’ve never baked one, but I do know that there are many ingredients. I also like your charcuterie board used as your centerpiece. Is Blackberry Farm a local business? Happy Thanksgiving!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 12:48 PM

      Thank you, Ricki Jill. Hummingbird cake has a lot of ingredients, but easy to make. Blackberry Farm is in TN in the Great Smoky Mountains. It is a fabulous property with beautiful accommodations, gorgeous spa, and food that is prepared by their stellar chef. You must check out their website!

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  18. Patti Fralix says

    November 8, 2022 at 2:37 PM

    Pam, your table is beautiful. You have certainly taken up the mantle for holiday meals now that Shirshee has passed. She taught you well, dear friend. As you know, I too enjoy setting beautiful tables, and Thanksgiving has been my favorite holiday. This year will be different at the beach and using disposables! But the family that gathers will still make it a wonderful holiday, so I will get past the lack of turkey plates and all of the decorations! I will also make Shirshee’s dressing, and only hope to come close to it being almost as good as hers. She was a wonderful cook, and set such a high standard. I wonder if our grandchildren will remember our meals and tables?

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 12:50 PM

      Thank you dear friend. Your attention to detail and beauty is legendary with your Thanksgiving dinners for 60+ people. I think our grandchildren will remember ♥️

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  19. Sandra @ Dinner at Eight says

    November 8, 2022 at 2:46 PM

    Pam, your Thanksgiving table is so welcoming! I love that it’s built on layers of tradition! The centerpiece, the natural fall elements, the amber glassware, the plaids, colors, textures are so well choreographed for an enchanting table. The design of the tablecloth is lovely and pairs well with those fabulous feather placemats! I have the Woodland plates as well and it’s always interesting to see how others style them. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 12:51 PM

      Thank you, Sandra. I like your idea of layers of tradition. Blessings on your season of Thanksgiving!

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  20. Thrifting Wonderland says

    November 8, 2022 at 2:56 PM

    Pam, I think you should invite all of us over for thanksgiving. Your menu sounds delicious and similar to our own. Those traditions are so special especially when preserved for years. there is something comforting in knowing some things will be repeated from one year to the next. Loved the Spode plates and the feathered placemats. A lovely table. Happy Thanksgiving!
    Lynne

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 12:53 PM

      Lynne, what a lovely idea to have all my table stylists friends for Thanksgiving. Thank you for your sweet comments!

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  21. Nancy says

    November 8, 2022 at 2:58 PM

    Just like last year I’ll be in the kitchen hiding… no one will ever know I came over to partake in all the Thanksgiving yumminess at your house! 😁
    All kidding aside… Your table is quite stunning… from the Spode Woodland plates to the tablecloth, the feather placemats and the silverware! And your very own pumpkins for your centerpiece. The Littles are going to love that!
    I’m so glad you have your family traditions still going strong!
    Thanks so much for sharing this beautiful tablescape with us.
    Have a beautiful Tuesday dear friend. And please save me some of those Mash Potatoes… they sound heavenly!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 12:55 PM

      Nancy, you don’t have to hide in the kitchen 😂 We would be honored for you to join us at the table! Thank you sweet friend for your visits. I always look forward to you dropping by!

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  22. Kari says

    November 8, 2022 at 5:55 PM

    So pretty Pam and steeped in tradition which I love. what sweet memories of your mom and this wonderful Holiday. So glad you are able to carry on in her stead. Spode Woodland dinnerware is one of my favorites too and when I have used mine, I smile at the wonderful birds…(I love the mallard too, and the pheasant…and the quail, oh gosh, I guess I just love them all) Using your large cutting board as a centerpiece holding Butch and the grands pumpkins make your table even more special. Your table is so overall special it should be in a magazine, perhaps along side Norman Rockwell…oh goodness, I am dating myself now. Happy Thanksgiving my dear friend.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 7:18 PM

      Thanks so much, Kari. Traditions and memories always are a big part of our family celebrations. Kari, I don’t ever remember seeing you use your woodland Spode. I love using it in the fall and especially for Thanksgiving. Wishing you blessing during the season of Thanksgiving ♥️

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  23. Shannon@Belle Bleu Interiors says

    November 8, 2022 at 8:26 PM

    Pam, I loved reading about your Thanksgiving traditions. Our family also loves to keep our traditions. The menu never changes. Your Thanksgiving table is beautiful, warm, and inviting. I have always loved the Spode Woodland pattern. The plates look so pretty with your plaid chargers. The centerpiece of pumpkins is a lovely finishing touch. Dear friend. I hope your family and you have a blessed Thanksgiving.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 12:56 PM

      Thanks so much, Shannon! I know you and family cherish your traditions. Blessings, sweet friend!

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  24. Penny at Enjoying The Simple Things says

    November 9, 2022 at 10:05 AM

    What a beautiful table! Have a wonderful thanksgiving.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 12:59 PM

      Thanks so much, Penny!

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  25. Marsha says

    November 9, 2022 at 1:46 PM

    Pam, what a lovely tradition and tribute to your mom. It warmed my heart and I am sure your mom would be thrilled to know you carry on all that she valued and by sharing the story, it has lifted so many spirits of others. Your table is stunning. I love the Spode and Stafford plates that are such a classic. They go beautifully with the feather placemats and gorgeous flatware and exquisite amber stemware. Most of all, I love the use of the heart-warming pumpkin that was grown by family to take the center of the table. Such love really shows at this beautiful Thanksgiving table. Happy Thanksgiving.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 1:00 PM

      Marsha, thank you for you heartwarming sentiments. Wishing you a beautiful Thanksgiving!

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  26. Nancy Ruegg says

    November 9, 2022 at 4:37 PM

    I ADORE your tablescapes, Pam! Such beautiful colors, patterns, and textures you bring together. Our Thanksgiving menu has varied from year to year since our older son (amateur-but-superb chef that he is) often creates exotic-but-sumptuous sides. This year, however we’ll be fixing many of the traditional dishes, similar to yours, Pam. One will be my mother-in-law’s dressing that nearly everyone agrees is the best dressing they’ve ever tasted. Thankfully, she did write down the recipe!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 1:30 PM

      Thanks so much, Nancy! Happy Thanksgiving season!

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  27. Kim says

    November 9, 2022 at 8:57 PM

    Good evening Pam. i’m commenting from beautiful Victoria, b.c. where we are visiting for a short stay. and I’m sorry i’m so late in commenting and that this font is so weird and I can’t seem to fix it. Your table is just beautiful and its so lovely that you are keeping your mother’s traditions! the AC tablecloth is such a pretty background for the feather placemats, plaid chargers, and the gorgeous spode plates. Love the charcuterie board turned centerpiece with the pumpkins, antler sheds, leaves and acorns – what a great idea! and how cool is it that the peachy pumpkin is from your own pumpkin patch! I hope you and your family have a wonderful thanksgiving!

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    • Kim says

      November 9, 2022 at 8:59 PM

      Oh, it didn’t post in the weird font after all. Yay!

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      • Pam @ Everyday Living says

        November 10, 2022 at 1:32 PM

        Posted perfectly 😊

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 1:32 PM

      Thanks so much, Kim! The girls are excited that their pumpkin is the star of the centerpiece!

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  28. Liz says

    November 9, 2022 at 10:32 PM

    Beautiful Pam! I Love the dishes and pretty stemware. I like the way you made the centerpiece! Your traditions have a familiar ring and I love them! Have a great Thanksgiving!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 1:33 PM

      Thanks so much, Liz and Happy Thanksgiving!

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  29. heritage hall says

    November 9, 2022 at 10:34 PM

    The highlight of your Thanksgiving post has got to be the memories of that beloved lady who
    graced her table with her culinary skills and surrounded it with her grateful family….what a gracious role model she was. Would love to have known her. Leave it to our Pam to create another unforgettable memory in making the Children’s first pumpkins the focus of the setting. All the china is holiday festive and assembled to perfection. and the food… Momma taught you well in the art of making family gatherings mouth-watering and meaningful. Thank you for sharing those blessed memories and psalm 100.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 1:35 PM

      I will never celebrate a holiday or Sunday dinner that I don’t think of my beloved Mother. I keep a small picture of her in my kitchen. I am so thankful that I am her daughter! Thank you dearest, Mary!

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  30. Karins Kottage says

    November 10, 2022 at 1:37 AM

    Gorgeous table! Love your mallard duck dinner plate mixed with the plaid chargers. What sweet memories you have of spending all the holidays at your moms house. Thanksgiving is the time to be with family and making sweet memories! Great post!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 10, 2022 at 6:57 AM

      Thanks so much, Karin. It is definitely a time for family memories!

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  31. FrenchGardenHouse says

    November 10, 2022 at 10:20 AM

    Such a beautiful table, Pam! It’s your memories that make this post warm our hearts, but your talent at creating beauty that really stands out. Your tables always feel so welcoming, just like you, dear friend. The colors, the styling, the care and thought you put into everything you do truly shows. Thank you for the inspiration. Wishing you a blessed Th! xo Lidy

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 11, 2022 at 3:07 PM

      Thank you so much, Lidy. Your sentiments warm my heart. Blessings on your family at Thanksgiving!

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  32. Marion says

    November 10, 2022 at 3:27 PM

    Pam, what a beautiful tablescape,. You always have the perfect things to display.
    Joan,Marilyn and Marion

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 11, 2022 at 3:05 PM

      Thanks so much sweet ladies!

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  33. elle says

    November 11, 2022 at 9:40 AM

    Your table is beautiful. The menu sounds amazing — now I want your recipes for dressing and green beans!!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 11, 2022 at 3:05 PM

      Thanks so much for your visit! Wishing you a blessed Thanksgiving season!

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  34. Katie Clooney says

    November 11, 2022 at 10:46 AM

    as always, MAGNIFICENT, Pam! Have a great weekend!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 11, 2022 at 3:04 PM

      Thank you, Katie!

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  35. Linda Stoll says

    November 11, 2022 at 2:58 PM

    Pam, hi! Those bird plates are really striking, stunning with the pumpkins and glassware and festive linens.

    No one sets a table like you do, friend. No one!

    happy weekend to you and yours at the Sunshine cottage!
    xo

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 11, 2022 at 3:03 PM

      Thanks so much for your sweet encouragement, Linda!

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  36. Tea With Jennifer says

    November 11, 2022 at 6:37 PM

    Such a delightful post pam. ☺️
    Blessings my sweet friend, Jennifer 💖

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 13, 2022 at 8:37 AM

      Thank you, Jennifer.

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  37. Sarah says

    November 11, 2022 at 10:52 PM

    Pam, Thanksgiving is a favorite holiday for me as well. A time of gratefulness to be celebrated with others. I love the Spode Woodland series and have the pheasant plates. I used them for our Thanksgiving table last year. Have to say, it was one of my favorite tables ever. Thanks for sharing all the inspiration. Your menu and the table are most inviting.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 13, 2022 at 8:37 AM

      Thank you Sarah. Thoughts and prayers for you dear friend.

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  38. Ann Krucek says

    November 12, 2022 at 8:39 PM

    Pam, your table is picture perfect thanksgiving!! So welcoming, so warm, and so filled with tradition! I love the feather chargers against the beautiful tablecloth and topped with your gorgeous place settings right down to the perfect flatware. You have some wonderful memories of your family members and of ThanksGivings past. I hope you have a happy Thanksgiving making many more wonderful memories!! It is always a pleasure to hop with you 🧡🦃🍗

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 13, 2022 at 8:36 AM

      Thanks so much, Ann. Wishing you a Happy Thanksgiving!

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  39. mhhwarmcozy says

    November 15, 2022 at 2:47 PM

    Pam, it is so sweet to read about your family traditions. And that includes the menu. I have been facing many problems due to my husbands cancer. But through it all, I’m still going to praise God. Thanksgiving this year will be different. But I have so much to be thankful for.
    Your table is lovely! I adore the plates with so much history, and the pink/peach pumpkin. I’m wondering if you can tell me the name of it? I might try to grow it for 2323.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      November 17, 2022 at 11:39 AM

      Prayers for your husband. It is easy to praise God when everything is going well. Choosing to praise Him in difficulties shows our trust in Him. I am sorry I don’t remember the type of pumpkin.

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  40. Cheryl says

    November 16, 2022 at 1:38 AM

    This is so beautiful! I love that your family is so close and always joins together to continue your Mom’s traditions. It is such a blessing that your dear Daddy can be with you again this year. God is so good.

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      November 17, 2022 at 11:34 AM

      Yes, God is good and we are so thankful to have my Daddy.

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Happy Wednesday! I set a table next to our woodlan Happy Wednesday! I set a table next to our woodlands in memory of my beautiful Mother who was a lovely example of a Proverbs 31 woman. Mother had the gift of hospitality and shared it with everyone. Karl Rosenfield peonies from my garden fill a treasured keepsake pitcher handed down from my grandmother! A beautiful floral April Cornell ‘Lillianna’ tablecloth and Famille Rose salad plates elevate the status of the old picnic table next to our woodlands. I have collected bejeweled enamel trinket boxes for many years and shared a few on the table for whimsy and fun. For memories of my Mother, click the link in my profile. 

“Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” Proverbs 31:30

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Happy Thursday! I am behind in posting spring flow Happy Thursday! I am behind in posting spring flowers from my garden. Lady Banks Rose in bloom on the arbor 1-3 Snowball Viburnum with its showy blooms 4-5 Gorgeous Kwanzan Cherry blossoms 6-7 Old-fashioned Bridal Wreath Spirea 8-9 10 Lady Banks Rose 

Click link in bio to visit the blog post.

Wishing you a joy-filled day 🌼🤍🌺🤍

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With glorious weather, the table next to our woodl With glorious weather, the table next to our woodlands was perfect for teatime! It is Tea on Tuesdays with blogging friends Mary and Kitty. The table is enhanced by views toward the mountain, woodlands, and the large Snowball Viburnum. The verdant rye grass appears as a green carpet that has been spread for Easter! Vintage Fitz and Floyd ‘Herb Garden’ teapots, sugar and creamer, and oval tray are suited for springtime with their embossed bows, vegetables, and words. A bouquet of Kwanzan Cherry blossoms add more spring color to the setting. 

I am serving a simple teatime with Earl Grey tea, savory egg salad filled phyllo cups, and sweet vanilla cupcakes with cream cheese icing, and macarons! A favorite cottage rose tablecloth and Essential napkins are by April Cornell.

We are most blessed to celebrate the resurrection of Christ, being the source of new life, yet new life that is eternal. The beauty of this spring will again give way to another autumn in a few months, but the significance of His empty tomb will never change! Wishing you a blessed Holy Week ✝️ Click the link in my bio to view the blog!

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Happy Thursday! I love setting a table next to our Happy Thursday! I love setting a table next to our woodlands and this is the first one of the season, an Easter/Spring table! I love all the sweet bunny decorations, but Easter is so much more. We celebrate Easter because of the resurrection of Jesus Christ.  His bodily resurrection enables all those who choose to follow Him to have assured victory over our greatest enemy…death!

 I look forward each year when some of my favorite blooms display their amazing beauty in our garden. Snowball viburnum in its full glory with large creamy white blooms. Climbing Lady Banks Rose is covered in hundreds of miniature yellow blooms cascading to the ground. An old-fashioned Bridal Wreath Spirea with its branches arching to the ground in a fountain-like growth habit is loaded with showy double white flowers in clusters of three to six that resemble a bride’s wreath. I still claim the Kwanzan Cherry tree even though it is now on our son’s property. Its ruffled pink double pink blossoms are some of my favorite blooms. All four of these blooms make up an arrangement with a few tulips from the grocery store. 

A fluffle of moss bunnies hopped up to the picnic table. A ‘Charming’ tablecloth with  Mary Lake-Thompson napkins and Williams Sonoma enchanting ‘Famille Rose’ bunny plates!

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I often shared my sweet Daddy and his stories on m I often shared my sweet Daddy and his stories on my blog. My precious Daddy passed away peacefully on March 26th at the age of 94, surrounded by his beloved family! He was born during the depths of the Great Depression. That may have been part of the reason he was always content and loved the simple things. 

“A good name is to be chosen rather than great riches, and favor is better than silver or gold.” Proverbs 22:1

After high school graduation he signed to play professional baseball with the Cleveland Indians Organization. His baseball career was cut short when he was drafted in the army. He was seriously wounded in the Korean War and was awarded a Purple Heart and two bronze stars. Upon returning home, he married my beautiful Mother and they shared 54 wonderful years together before she passed away suddenly. 

My brother and I grew up in a Christian home, bathed in love, calm, security, and contentment, under the care of the two finest parents anyone could have. Daddy was known as Pawpaw to his three grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren. 

My heart is broken, he was the best Daddy a girl could have. I know he is present with the Lord and I rejoice in that promise, knowing too, that my Mother is also in the eternal presence of our Heavenly Father. 

For more of my Daddy’s story, click the link in my bio.
Happy first day of Spring! One of my favorite bloo Happy first day of Spring! One of my favorite blooming trees of springtime is the Kwanzan Cherry! I love pairing them with my Snowball Viburnum blooms to make a lovely flower arrangement!

Wishing you a most beautiful day!

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Welcome to Sunshine Cottage and the March edition Welcome to Sunshine Cottage and the March edition of Tea on Tuesdays. My inspiration for teatime is the beautiful linens from @april.cornell With the celebration of their 50th anniversary, many Heritage Prints from the archives have returned. Eden is one of the beautiful patterns that has returned. It is a soft purple paradise where butterflies float, roses bloom, and soft sage leaves levitate. As an April Cornell Brand Ambassador, I was gifted these gorgeous linens! I have been a collector of @april.cornell linens for many years…the floral patterns resonate with my love of English Country. 

I am serving my favorite, Earl Gray tea, from an Eileen’s Reserve teapot. Teacups by Grace Teaware and vintage Rose Chintz salad plates by Johnson Brothers add more floral patterns to the mix. Japanese Magnolia blooms were cut from my garden and placed in a lilypad teapot!

Mary @ homeiswheretheboatis.net and I welcome Nancy @nance_endless_summer as our special guest! LINK in bio for the blog posts. Have a wonderful day!

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Happy St. Patrick’s Day ☘️ A few photos from Happy St. Patrick’s Day ☘️ A few photos from our visit to ☘️ Ireland, The Emerald Isle and a tablescape in our Appalachian Foothills ☘️

“May the raindrops fall lightly on your brow.
 May the soft winds freshen your spirit.
 May the sunshine brighten your heart.
 May the burdens of the day rest lightly 
 upon you.
 And may God enfold you in His love.”

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It felt like spring today with a high in the upper It felt like spring today with a high in the upper 70’s. Do you ever forget what you have? I do, so I compiled a partial catalog of my teapots. I have included some here and more on my blog. Click the LINK in my profile to see more! 

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Happy Monday! With March bringing the promise of s Happy Monday! With March bringing the promise of spring and looking forward to our garden awakening, I planted a blooming bulb garden in my Sunshine Cottage! The butcher block countertop under a window, was a perfect place for a mini garden. Muscari, hyacinths, tulips, and daffodils danced in the sunlight and filled the cottage with an amazing fragrance! 

It is Monday Morning Blooms with friends Lidy @frenchgardenhouse Shannon @bellebleuinteriors and Mary homeiswheretheboatis.net

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Hello friends, I don’t know about you, but I am Hello friends, I don’t know about you, but I am ready for spring. Meteorological Spring begins this Saturday, March 1 and I am going with it. I have pulled spring flower arrangements from my blog archives. I hope you enjoy the flower therapy! You can see all of them by clicking on the  LINK in bio.

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Happy Tuesday! Welcome to the Sunshine Cottage whe Happy Tuesday! Welcome to the Sunshine Cottage where it is warm and cozy on this cold February day. It is Tea on Tuesdays and I have set a tea table with the “Blue Roses” collection that was a collaboration between @victoriamagazine and @april.cornell The exclusive porcelain pattern and matching linens have been used many times and I still enjoy their blue and white beauty. Instead of fresh flowers, porcelain ones require no arranging. Sweet treats pair perfectly with a traditional English Breakfast tea. I am joining friends Sarah @sjpa48 and Mary homeiswheretheboatis.net

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Happy Thursday and Valentine’s Eve! In celebrati Happy Thursday and Valentine’s Eve! In celebration of the day, I pulled images from my blog archives for inspiration❤️💗❤️

Wishing everyone a lovely Valentine’s Day ❤️

#valentinesday #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #traditionalstyle #grandmillenial #valentinestablescape #valentinedecor #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy first Monday of February! After so many cold Happy first Monday of February! After so many cold days, we are experiencing a tease of spring with a 73 degree day that is forecast. After the gray and cloudy days, I needed a dose of color and decided to set a colorful citrus themed brunch! Using a bird gold and pewter stand, I mixed a citrus medley of lemons, oranges, and limes with pink and white carnations as the centerpiece. The table is highlighted with blue and white dishware. Fresh squeezed orange juice, French-pressed coffee and sweet treats of lemon poppyseed muffins, lemon cake with lemon icing, and lemon pastries are perfect for a small brunch. A faux lemon topiary belonged to my beloved Mother and seemed a perfect addition to a citrus-themed table! You are invited to join me and my Monday Morning Blooms friends, Lidy @frenchgardenhouse Sarah @sjpa48 and Mary homeiswheretheboatsis.net by clicking the LINK in my bio!

#mondaymorningblooms🌻 #citrus #floraldesign #brunch #southernladymagazine #victoriamagazine #thecottagejournal #grandmillennial #traditionaldecor #lemons #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Welcome to Sunshine Cottage where I have been fluf Welcome to Sunshine Cottage where I have been fluffing for Valentine’s Day! For many years my Sweetheart and I have celebrated February 14th at home where it is quiet, no reservations are required, and we always have a table by the window! 

I love the traditional colors of red and pink! Frilly carnations fill a vintage Staffordshire, ‘Charlotte’ pitcher which rests on an antique Limoges plate with a velvet gold-crowned heart. The plate stack consists of a Royal Stafford ‘Asiatic pheasant’ dinner plate, American Atelier ‘Baroque’ luncheon/salad plate, Johnson Brothers, ‘Winchester’ salad plate, and a vintage pierced Bavarian rose plate! I am a huge fan of mixing colors, patterns, and textures for a collected look. 

I have joined 17 table stylists for a Valentine’s Day Blog Hop. Click the LINK in my bio to see all of the Valentine inspiration!

#southernladymag #valentineday #valentinestablescape #valentinesday #victoriamagazine #romanticdecor #traditionalstyle #replacementsltd #flowermagazine #thecottagejournal #pjssunshinecottage #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy Tuesday! On this very cold winter’s day, I Happy Tuesday! On this very cold winter’s day, I am serving my favorite tea, Earl Grey, in the Sunshine Cottage where it is warm and cozy! The magic of dancing sunlight enhances the table that is dressed with a warm tartan plaid throw repurposed as a tablecloth! ‘Winter Fauna’ bird salad plates from Pottery Barn (many years ago and now discontinued) remind me of the birds I watch from my kitchen window during the winter season. The Grace Teaware set adds more blue and white to the Spode ‘Blue Room’ dinner plates. Sweet treats were placed on a stack of Bordallo Pinheiro plates! A darling Hummel ‘Icy Adventure’ depicts a scene of an outdoor frozen pond with a pair of sweet ice skaters, a rosy cheeked boy and girl who have fallen down on the ice. I am sharing Tea on Tuesdays with Shannon @bellebleuinteriors and Mary homeiswheretheboatis.net Link in my Bio will take you to my blog post! Stay warm and safe!

#teaontuesdays #teatime #teatimemagazine #teatimepoetry #victoriamagazine #southernladymag #pjssunshinecottage #tea #graceteaware #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy Thursday! Mid January with cold weather and Happy Thursday! Mid January with cold weather and I am thinking about my spring and summer garden! I have ordered seeds that are to arrive tomorrow…zinnias, sunflowers, and giant marigolds! On today’s blog post (LINK IN BIO) I am sharing my photo journal from 2024’s garden! Grab a cup of coffee, tea, or hot chocolate and join me.

#mygarden #gardening #cottagegarden #gardendesignmag #gardengatemagazine #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #gardener #gardeninglife #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
My precious family enjoying a rare snowfall in Ala My precious family enjoying a rare snowfall in Alabama!
Rare scenes in our Northeast Alabama Foothills! # Rare scenes in our Northeast Alabama Foothills!

#snowday #winterwonderland #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
On this cold, gray, and wintry day I am sharing fl On this cold, gray, and wintry day I am sharing flower therapy to hopefully brighten your day! On the blog today is a review of my 2024 Monday Morning Blooms! Joining me are my friends, Lidy @frenchgardenhouse and Mary homeiswheretheboatis.net 

CLICK LINK IN BIO for blog post! I hope everyone stays safe and warm!

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