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Garden Peonies & Memories Of My Beautiful Mother

May 1, 2023~ Monday Morning Blooms, Mothers Day, Spring, Tablescapes

Hello sweet friends and Happy May! Can you believe that one third of 2023 is now history?

“She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.”
‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭31‬:‭26‬ ‭

What a delightful way to celebrate the first day of May as I join my fellow flower enthusiasts and friends, Lidy and Mary for Monday Morning Blooms! We are excited to welcome a special first time guest that you are sure to enjoy! Just a little hint, she has joined Mary and me for a couple of Tea on Tuesdays!

Our common theme for this edition is Mother’s Day. Long-time readers know that I often share memories of my precious Mother!

The links for my friends’ beautiful floral inspiration are at the bottom of this post!

Joining us today is Jennifer who blogs at Celebrating Everyday Life. She is passionate about sharing recipes, decorating ideas, DIY projects, and lots of ideas for making your next celebration special and memorable! You will love her stunning table!

Once again I have set a table next to our woodlands due to the cooler and wetter April that has my garden falling a little behind schedule. My gorgeous peonies began opening up and blooming profusely a week ago. Their bloom time is very brief, so they take center stage on the table. Their blooms are so fabulous that I think they are proud and quite aware of their beauty. In order not to offend them, I only added a few sprigs of gold mound spirea that couldn’t possibly compete with them!

Left to right: stunning Sarah Bernhardt, gorgeous Karl Rosenfield, and ever so fragrant Festiva Maxima. I am estimating that I have had over one hundred blooms from my four peony bushes! I have been overwhelmed with their loveliness and performance this year.

I set a sweet table in memory of my beloved Mother. She was a Godly mother and a wonderful example of a Proverbs 31 woman!

Mother had the special gift of hospitality and loved serving others. As I have often mentioned, her delicious food is legendary to this day. She once had her infamous red velvet cake bring $1000.00 at a charity auction. Friends still ask me for her recipes and share with me how much they enjoyed invitations for dinner or her renowned Sunday lunches. She always set her table with a neatly pressed tablecloth, napkins, and china. I never remember a paper plate or paper napkin being used. Everyone was welcome at her table…whether a single mom with small children, a grieving widow, or a lonely young lady in need of encouragement and a hug. Her love reached far and wide. She said, “if there is room in the heart, there is room at the table”! All who ever entered her door or sat at her table knew they were loved. That is true hospitality!

There was a brief time frame in which to set my table with the rainy days and other things that needed my attention. I placed everything for the table, including a framed photo of Mother and me, on the counter in the Sunshine Cottage. Somehow, I missed grabbing the photo and didn’t notice that it was missing until I started reviewing my photos the next day. I was not happy with myself that I had not placed the photo on the table. Not to be outdone, I am sharing one of my favorite photos!

“She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.”
‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭31‬:‭26‬ ‭

“Charming”, an English-country style floral tablecloth by April Cornell lives up to its name. Woven placemats offer texture and a foundation for the plates. Blushing pink dinner plates are a Hobby Lobby find several years ago. The salad/luncheon plates are among my favorites…Crown Ducal from Nancy’s Daily Dish. Each plate is beautifully hand-painted with a different flower…camellias, hydrangeas, poppies, and chrysanthemums! Rachel Ashwell yellow fringed napkins, Noritake “Reverie” stemware, and wedding silver-plate flatware complete the place settings.

“Many women have done excellently, but you surpass them all.”
‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭31‬:‭29‬ ‭

This past Saturday (April 29) was the 16th anniversary of my dearly loved Mother’s home-going. Two years ago on April 29, our precious grandson was born. We celebrated his birthday Saturday with a fun party and I couldn’t help but think the day that had brought sadness each year was now a celebration. God is so merciful and gracious for redeeming the day. As much as she loved her three grandchildren, I can just imagine how she would have loved and spoiled her eight great-grands!

 

Flanking the large vase are small Tracy Porter bud vases, each with a fragrant Festiva Maxima peony. Their scent is heavenly!

I have often shared Mother’s handiwork, especially at Christmas. Not only was she a fabulous cook, but she made gorgeous quilts and ceramics. I wish I knew how many quilts she made and gave away or how many old world Santas and nativities that she made with the purpose of giving them away. She did not live to see her three grandchildren marry, but their handmade gifts were left to be given to them at the time of their marriage. At my son’s and daughter-in-love’s bridal shower, I had the honor to wrap and present them with the most gorgeous quilt that was cross-stitched and hand quilted by Mother, also known as Nanny. Needless to say there weren’t any dry eyes!

“She looks well to the ways of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.”
‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭31‬:‭27‬ ‭

“Moms are like buttons, they hold it all together.”
~Unknown

 

You all know I am a collector. One collection is tiny jeweled boxes that sometimes come out of hiding and find a special spot on a table.

“Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.”
‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭31‬:‭30‬

For beautiful tables and Mother’s Day inspiration, be sure to click on the links below!

Lidy ~ French Garden House

Mary ~ Home Is Where The Boat Is

Jennifer ~ Celebrating Everyday Life

A couple of days later, the peonies had opened up more!

Thank you for your visit and gracious comments. Wishing you a joy filled week!

 Linking with:
 Pieced Pastimes,  Between Naps on the Porch, Katherines Corner, Follow The Yellow Brick Home,
 Imparting Grace,Life and Linda

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  1. Mary says

    May 1, 2023 at 6:24 AM

    Good Morning Pam, I’m swooning over your peonies at your table! Your garden is ahead of ours here in NC by a couple of weeks. You’re right, your peonies deserve to be celebrated and featured with their wonderful fragrance and brief bloom time. I adore your Crown Ducal plates and your April Cornell ‘Charming’ tablecloth sets them off beautifully. I love the petite Tracy Porter bud vases flanking your centerpiece vase and the shot of your table with the vivid green grass in the background. Last but not least, I love the photo of you and your sweet mom. We had another very wet and blustery week here and hope to enjoy some alfresco dining soon.
    As always, it’s a treat to have a virtual seat at your table and join you for some flower therapy. Happy May! ♥

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 1, 2023 at 9:49 PM

      Thank you, Mary. I cut 20 blooms today, all the Karl Rosenfield. I wish they would last longer, but will enjoy while I can!

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  2. Mrs. White says

    May 1, 2023 at 7:37 AM

    Your table setting and flowers are elegant and beautiful. I am inspired by the good works and kindness of your Mother. Thank you!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 1, 2023 at 9:35 PM

      Thank you so much. She is still inspiring me with the legacy she left behind!

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  3. marmeladegypsy says

    May 1, 2023 at 8:18 AM

    Those peonies and your setting are beautiful. So is that photo of you and your mom — who sounds like a tremendous, kind and creative woman. Don’t you wish you could just have her sitting at that table with you while you fill her in on all the lovely things that have happened in your life since she left? And thank her again for all she did to help make you the person you are? I love this post, Pam — not just for the beauty of the photos but the beauty of you and your mum.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 1, 2023 at 9:47 PM

      Thank you, Jeanie. It would be wonderful to just talk to her. I know you feel the same about your mom!

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  4. Alice Genzlinger says

    May 1, 2023 at 8:21 AM

    Your mom was a very pretty lady. She had pretty hands and beautiful white hair. And I believe good moms are like buttons as they hold everything together. My mom was a great cook. I have the one and only cookbook she ever owned along with a few of her handwritten receipts. She graduated to heaven at age 68 and never met my husband but I know she would have approved of our union. Your table in honor of your mom is outstanding. Love the color, the flowers, the bud vases and the pretty little boxes. Happy May Day!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 1, 2023 at 9:45 PM

      Thank you, dearest Alice. Your mom passed away young. I know you treasure her cookbook. Wishing you a blessed week!

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  5. Kris@Junkchiccottage says

    May 1, 2023 at 8:50 AM

    Good Morning. Your peonies are gorgeous and your table is beautiful in honor of your mother. What a beautiful soul she had to entertain and always welcome everyone to her table and her delicious food. Happy first of May. Hugs. Kris

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 1, 2023 at 9:43 PM

      Thank you, Kris! You are so sweet!

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  6. jencarrollva says

    May 1, 2023 at 11:21 AM

    Good morning, Pam, Your story of your mom is so sweet and lovely. What a wonderful woman she was. I love her heart for hospitality! She has certainly passed this gift on to you!! Your table is so beautiful and those Peonies!!! Oh my goodness, gracious!!! They are divine. I love that green linen too! I haven’t seen that one before. It’s so fresh and vibrant! Thank you for allowing me to celebrate Mother’s Day with you! What a joy!! Sending hugs ~ Jennifer @ Celebrating Everyday Life

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 1, 2023 at 9:43 PM

      You are a sweetheart, Jennifer. Sending hugs back to you!

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  7. Heritage Hall says

    May 1, 2023 at 11:57 AM

    What a beautiful role model your beloved Mother portrays for women who wish to
    fulfill Proverbs 31. She was, indeed, so very special and blessed you were to have her. Your table in tribute to her checks off all the boxes and the peonies top off the list of Mothers’ Day essentials. She would be proud of the beauty of it all from your hand and the Mother and Grandmother you have become.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 1, 2023 at 9:41 PM

      You are so sweet dear one. I was definitely blessed to have my sweet Mother. Sending love and hugs!

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  8. the Painted Apron says

    May 1, 2023 at 12:18 PM

    Oh how amazing to have those stunning peonies at the tips of your fingers in your garden! They are such stunning flowers and the simple arrangement shows off their beauty! The handpainted plates are indeed a treasure, and your vases and jeweled boxes are a lovely addition to your beautiful table in your woodland setting! Your mother sounds like such an amazing woman, and your memories and thoughts are so loving~ you are following right along in her footsteps with your love of your family and meals at your table. I hope your month of May is filled with many blessings!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 1, 2023 at 9:39 PM

      Thank you, Jenna. I have been amazed with the peonies this year. I cut at least twenty blooms today. Wishing you a wonderful week filled with sweet blessings!

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  9. inspiredbyjoydianne says

    May 1, 2023 at 1:19 PM

    Pam, a beautiful tribute to your Mother. This table is over the top with these beautiful peonies and hand painted plates and yes the AC tablecloth. I have counted 61 buds on my peonies. Can’t wait for them to bloom. Your Mother sounds so much like my mother. On Thanksgiving one year she presented my brother and me and our children handmade quilts. I treasure mine and often display them on my blog. Thank you for the beauty and the quotes from Proverbs. Happy May treasured friend.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 1, 2023 at 9:33 PM

      Thank you, Dianne. I know my Mother and your Mother would have been friends if they had ever met. You must do a table sharing your peonies when they bloom. I know you treasure the quilt, just as I do the ones my Mother made me. Wishing you a lovely week!

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  10. Rita C. says

    May 1, 2023 at 1:29 PM

    Pam, I hope you never feel like my comment is trite when I say gorgeous, beautiful on repeat. It just is. The peonies are spectacular. Your mother in that photo exudes a warm, loving soul, and the way you two are hugging is just full of the love you speak of. What a blessing to have WL on her home going day. This table is a beautiful tribute to the flowers and your love for your mother. The trinket boxes are such a sweet collection. Happy May, Pam!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 2, 2023 at 10:17 AM

      Rita, your comments are so gracious and kind. As you know so well the effort we put into our tablescapes, and it makes it worthwhile when people enjoy our hard work! I have been over the moon with my peonies this year, they have really put on a show. My Mother and I were very close. I went by almost every day and even though 16 years have passed, I think of her every day and will always miss her.

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  11. Lidy Baars says

    May 1, 2023 at 1:29 PM

    Good Morning Pam, oh those peonies! Your beautiful peonies deserve to be center stage, they never cease to delight me! Your table setting with the Crown Ducal plates, charming Tracy Porter vases and garden colors make for such a pretty table on your tablecloth.

    Thank you for sharing that darling picture of you and your Mom. My Mom has been gone for 10 years this May, and it seems I miss her more and more. What a legacy both our Moms left for their families, it’s my prayer to do so, myself too. As always, it’s a blessing to have a virtual seat at your table and join you for some flower therapy. Happy May! xo Lidy

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 1, 2023 at 9:17 PM

      Thank you, Lidy. We were blessed with wonderful mothers. I am so grateful for my Mother!

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  12. Bonnie Morgan says

    May 1, 2023 at 1:51 PM

    Sorry, I am late today! I am sitting in the Dallas airport on a layover to Colorado. It was an early 4am this morning to drive to Pensacola to catch the plane.
    I am so glad to see the beauty of your gorgeous peonies! They are stunning and how I wish I could smell their beautiful fragrance! You are indeed blessed! I would be ecstatic over that many blooms!
    Your china, tablecloth, crystal, silverware, and napkins are lovely. I especially love the sweet Tracey Porter vases and the gorgeous bird porcelain pieces.
    You honor your sweet and gracious mother so beautifully. I know she would be honored with your memories and beautiful table in her honor.
    Happy Mother’s Day to you soon.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 1, 2023 at 9:14 PM

      Your travel day sounds very long, Bonnie! Thank you for your sweet comments. They warm my heart!

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  13. creationsbycindyphotography.blogspot.com says

    May 1, 2023 at 3:30 PM

    I love your table Pam. So very pretty and your mom would be so honored! You apparently was a chip off the old block as they say. Or as I say, the apple doesn’t fall from the tree. I would have loved your mom! I loved reading what you have written about your mom. I can never EVER remember a time that my grandmother didn’t use REAL DISHES as she called them to serve my papa his meals! I do use paper plates a lot when having my tribe over for Sunday dinner as there are so many of us. However, I use my REAL DISHES throughout the week to serve Marty his meals and his dad when he eats with us on Tuesday nights. I love peonies. One of daughters recently gave me Peony candle and oh my! Happy May to you. Hugs and blessings, Cindy

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 1, 2023 at 9:13 PM

      Thank you for your sweet comments that are heartwarming, Cindy! I can imagine the peony candle’s scent is heavenly!

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  14. Roxanne Bernard says

    May 1, 2023 at 3:38 PM

    Pam, I truly love hearing stories about your beautiful mother. I know she is always close in your heart and that she would be so proud of you because you also are a Proverbs 31 woman. My Daddy’s birthday was also on April 29. We lost him to his 8th heart attack when I was 22 and he was only 58. Not a single day goes by that I don’t miss him.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 1, 2023 at 8:16 PM

      Your dad was so young and I know you must miss him terribly.

      Thank you, Roxanne 💕

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  15. Leslie Anne Tarabella says

    May 1, 2023 at 4:11 PM

    To plan gifts for grandchildren’s future marriages is truly thoughtful. What a joy your mother must have been. I love everything about this beautiful table.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 1, 2023 at 8:15 PM

      Thank you, Leslie Anne!

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  16. Shirley @Housepitality Designs says

    May 1, 2023 at 6:03 PM

    This Mother’s Day will be bittersweet for me too. I am sure that your grands would have wanted to spend so much time with your mom. She is their Guardian Angel. Beautiful table and flowers as always Pam!!! Happy May!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 1, 2023 at 8:14 PM

      Thinking of you, Shirley. Thank you and Happy May!

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  17. Awakening Wonders says

    May 1, 2023 at 7:13 PM

    A one-of-a-kind tribute to your beautiful mother! And the tablescapes and flowers just gorgeous!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 1, 2023 at 8:13 PM

      Thank you, Mary!

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  18. Maristella says

    May 1, 2023 at 8:25 PM

    How adorable your post is…Stunning tablescape and precious remembrances. Your post warmed my heart .

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 1, 2023 at 9:25 PM

      Thanks so much, sweet friend!

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  19. Pam @ Everyday Living says

    May 1, 2023 at 9:31 PM

    Rita, your comments are so gracious and kind. As you know so well the effort we put into our tablescapes, and it makes it worthwhile when people enjoy our hard work! I have been over the moon with my peonies this year, they have really put on a show. My Mother and I were very close. I went by almost every day and even though 16 years have passed, I think of her every day and will always miss her.

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  20. Clara says

    May 1, 2023 at 9:34 PM

    Pam, Your table is gorgeous! Love the tablecloth and the beautiful colors. Your peonies are magnificent! You have such a lovely woodland setting. Memories of our mothers sustain us throughout our lives. I love the pic of you and your Mom. You can see the love you have for her and vice versa. Enjoy your week! Clara❤️

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 1, 2023 at 9:50 PM

      Thank you, Clara. I always look forward to your comments ♥️

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  21. Tea With Jennifer says

    May 1, 2023 at 9:48 PM

    Beautiful post Pam & I love the photo of your Mum & you! I’m known as Nanny to my grandchildren too 🥰
    Blessings sweet friend, Jennifer ❤️

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 1, 2023 at 9:49 PM

      Thank you, my friend ♥️

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  22. Karen says

    May 2, 2023 at 8:12 AM

    I enjoy your posts and flowers! So thankful for your having a godly mother and special
    memories. Mine passed away when I was 12 so I do not have those memories. The date was
    always a sad one for me, then my special needs son was born on that day and so I relate to what you say! God bless and happy Mothers Day!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 2, 2023 at 2:01 PM

      Thank you, Karen for your sweet comments. I am so very sorry your Mom passed away when you were so young. How beautiful that your son was born on that day. Blessings and Happy Mother’s Day to you!

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  23. Aquietlife says

    May 2, 2023 at 8:14 AM

    So beautiful, but the shot of you and your mother just radiates!!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 2, 2023 at 1:58 PM

      Thank you so much, Jain!

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  24. Nancy says

    May 2, 2023 at 8:19 AM

    Good Morning Pam. I enjoyed hearing all about your Mom. She sounds like a wonderful woman. You wrote a beautiful tribute to her. The photo of you and your adoring Mother is so charming.💗
    I enjoyed the peonies on your table. They are quite stunning. I always enjoy seeing my neighbors in Pennsylvania come June. Your table setting with the pink flowered plates is lovely along with your bejeweled birds.
    Thank you for such lovely inspiration!
    Enjoy your week ahead!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 2, 2023 at 1:58 PM

      Thank you, Nancy. Wishing you a lovely week!

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  25. Kari says

    May 2, 2023 at 10:23 AM

    thank you Pam for sharing your mother with us as well as the beautiful, peonies. It is no wonder you are such a good friend when you had your dear Godly mother as a teacher. What wonderful memories you have. hugs and blessings always,
    Kari

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 2, 2023 at 1:57 PM

      Thank you, Kari. Hugs and blessing to you my friend!

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  26. barefootlilylady says

    May 2, 2023 at 11:59 AM

    So, SO beautiful. I loved getting a glimpse of the beautiful mother who served as your mentor and inspiration for life and all things lovely. That photo of the two of you is priceless! Thank you for sharing.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 2, 2023 at 1:56 PM

      Thank you so much, Cindie!

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  27. Shannon@Belle Bleu Interiors says

    May 3, 2023 at 10:00 AM

    Oh Pam, what a stunning table you have set in honor of your dear mother. I always enjoy reading about your precious memories of her. By reading about her grace and love, I know she must have left such a lasting impression on so many hearts. Your peonies are absolutely breathtaking! What a beautiful centerpiece they make! I always admire those pretty floral plates when you use them. They are perfect for this occasion. The AC tablecloth adds the perfect finishing touch. Happy May, dear friend!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 6, 2023 at 9:08 PM

      Thanks so much, Shannon. Wishing you a wonderful weekend!

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  28. Marion says

    May 3, 2023 at 3:48 PM

    Pam your tablescape is breath taking. Love the photo of your mom. The plates with flowers on them are lovely. The flowers are a burst of loveliness and beauty. Thank you for sharing.
    Marilyn,Joan and Marion

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 6, 2023 at 7:18 PM

      Thanks so much sweet friends!

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  29. Liz@Home and Gardening With Liz says

    May 3, 2023 at 11:26 PM

    Such a beautiful table. Love the brilliant green tablecloth and the dishes. I adore peonies and can’t wait for them to bloom here! That’s a beautiful picture of you and your mom, she sounds like she was a wonderful person!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 6, 2023 at 7:18 PM

      Thank you, Liz. I hope you are enjoying a beautiful weekend!

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  30. Michele Morin says

    May 4, 2023 at 9:40 AM

    What a sweet remembrance of your mum! And wouldn’t it be wonderful if all of us could be remembered with peonies!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 6, 2023 at 2:51 PM

      Thank you so much, Michele!

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  31. EsmeSalon says

    May 4, 2023 at 11:48 AM

    WOW so many awesome peonies and arrangements and all in remembrance of your mom. Love the pic of the two of you.
    I visited you via TFT ( Thursday Favorite Things) number 607
    If you are not already part of SSPS, this is a personal invite to hop over and come and share your posts with us at Senior Salon Pit Stop, every Monday to Saturday.
    See my entries: 51+52 and then navigate to the bottom of my page for the Senior Salon Pit Stop linkup, we hope to meet you there virtually.

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  32. nonie says

    May 4, 2023 at 12:00 PM

    Your tablescapes are always so beautiful, I could spend hours looking at them and every little detail so perfect. No wonder you are such a loving person, you had a great example to follow.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 6, 2023 at 2:50 PM

      I had the best example. Thank you, Nonie!

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  33. Kim says

    May 4, 2023 at 8:01 PM

    What a beautiful table Pam and such a lovely tribute to your mother! Those peonies – oh my – I can just imagine their gorgeous smell. The AC tablecloth is so pretty with the yellow napkins and the salad plates are just beautiful. I can see why that photo is a favorite of yours – so very special and what a lovely picture of you both. She sounds like an amazing woman. Wishing you a very happy Mother’s day!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 6, 2023 at 2:50 PM

      Thank you sweet Kim!

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  34. Cheryl says

    May 8, 2023 at 10:01 PM

    Your mom sounds like such a lovely lady, and so much of her lives on in you, sweet friend. I can only imagine how proud of you she was, and I believe she is looking down smiling at seeing how many of us you bless with your blog and stories of her. I think it is just astounding that God sent little Wyatt to you on the very day of the anniversary of your mom’s homegoing. He has turned your weeping into joy. That is just like our God! As you said, He redeems the day. God bless you always!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      May 9, 2023 at 10:51 PM

      You are so sweet, Cheryl. Thank you my friend!

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  35. MaryJo Materazo says

    May 9, 2024 at 1:31 PM

    This is truly lovely in so many ways. I love all the sentiments about your mom and she sounds like a fabulous soul. You honored her wonderfully. The table is stunning and those peonies are everything. The tablecloth, the plates, and all the great details. Thanks for the inspiration and Happy Mother’s Day. XO- MaryJo

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Happy Wednesday! I set a table next to our woodlan Happy Wednesday! I set a table next to our woodlands in memory of my beautiful Mother who was a lovely example of a Proverbs 31 woman. Mother had the gift of hospitality and shared it with everyone. Karl Rosenfield peonies from my garden fill a treasured keepsake pitcher handed down from my grandmother! A beautiful floral April Cornell ‘Lillianna’ tablecloth and Famille Rose salad plates elevate the status of the old picnic table next to our woodlands. I have collected bejeweled enamel trinket boxes for many years and shared a few on the table for whimsy and fun. For memories of my Mother, click the link in my profile. 

“Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” Proverbs 31:30

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Wishing you a joy-filled day 🌼🤍🌺🤍

#mygarden #gardening #gardener #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #southernlivingmag #cottagegarden #gardeninglife #gardendesignmag #ladybanksrose #snowballviburnum #bridalwreathspirea #kwanzancherry #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
With glorious weather, the table next to our woodl With glorious weather, the table next to our woodlands was perfect for teatime! It is Tea on Tuesdays with blogging friends Mary and Kitty. The table is enhanced by views toward the mountain, woodlands, and the large Snowball Viburnum. The verdant rye grass appears as a green carpet that has been spread for Easter! Vintage Fitz and Floyd ‘Herb Garden’ teapots, sugar and creamer, and oval tray are suited for springtime with their embossed bows, vegetables, and words. A bouquet of Kwanzan Cherry blossoms add more spring color to the setting. 

I am serving a simple teatime with Earl Grey tea, savory egg salad filled phyllo cups, and sweet vanilla cupcakes with cream cheese icing, and macarons! A favorite cottage rose tablecloth and Essential napkins are by April Cornell.

We are most blessed to celebrate the resurrection of Christ, being the source of new life, yet new life that is eternal. The beauty of this spring will again give way to another autumn in a few months, but the significance of His empty tomb will never change! Wishing you a blessed Holy Week ✝️ Click the link in my bio to view the blog!

#eastertable #aprilcornellbrandambassador  #aprilcornell #fitzandfloyd #teatime #teatimemagazine #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #teaontuesdays #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #alfresco
Happy Thursday! I love setting a table next to our Happy Thursday! I love setting a table next to our woodlands and this is the first one of the season, an Easter/Spring table! I love all the sweet bunny decorations, but Easter is so much more. We celebrate Easter because of the resurrection of Jesus Christ.  His bodily resurrection enables all those who choose to follow Him to have assured victory over our greatest enemy…death!

 I look forward each year when some of my favorite blooms display their amazing beauty in our garden. Snowball viburnum in its full glory with large creamy white blooms. Climbing Lady Banks Rose is covered in hundreds of miniature yellow blooms cascading to the ground. An old-fashioned Bridal Wreath Spirea with its branches arching to the ground in a fountain-like growth habit is loaded with showy double white flowers in clusters of three to six that resemble a bride’s wreath. I still claim the Kwanzan Cherry tree even though it is now on our son’s property. Its ruffled pink double pink blossoms are some of my favorite blooms. All four of these blooms make up an arrangement with a few tulips from the grocery store. 

A fluffle of moss bunnies hopped up to the picnic table. A ‘Charming’ tablecloth with  Mary Lake-Thompson napkins and Williams Sonoma enchanting ‘Famille Rose’ bunny plates!

#eastertablescape #springtablescape #alfresco #springtime #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #aprilcornell #aprilcornellbrandambassador #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #williamssonoma
I often shared my sweet Daddy and his stories on m I often shared my sweet Daddy and his stories on my blog. My precious Daddy passed away peacefully on March 26th at the age of 94, surrounded by his beloved family! He was born during the depths of the Great Depression. That may have been part of the reason he was always content and loved the simple things. 

“A good name is to be chosen rather than great riches, and favor is better than silver or gold.” Proverbs 22:1

After high school graduation he signed to play professional baseball with the Cleveland Indians Organization. His baseball career was cut short when he was drafted in the army. He was seriously wounded in the Korean War and was awarded a Purple Heart and two bronze stars. Upon returning home, he married my beautiful Mother and they shared 54 wonderful years together before she passed away suddenly. 

My brother and I grew up in a Christian home, bathed in love, calm, security, and contentment, under the care of the two finest parents anyone could have. Daddy was known as Pawpaw to his three grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren. 

My heart is broken, he was the best Daddy a girl could have. I know he is present with the Lord and I rejoice in that promise, knowing too, that my Mother is also in the eternal presence of our Heavenly Father. 

For more of my Daddy’s story, click the link in my bio.
Happy first day of Spring! One of my favorite bloo Happy first day of Spring! One of my favorite blooming trees of springtime is the Kwanzan Cherry! I love pairing them with my Snowball Viburnum blooms to make a lovely flower arrangement!

Wishing you a most beautiful day!

#cherryblossom #springtime #springinthesouth #kwanzancherry #mygarden #southerngarden #victoriamagazine #southernladymag #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Welcome to Sunshine Cottage and the March edition Welcome to Sunshine Cottage and the March edition of Tea on Tuesdays. My inspiration for teatime is the beautiful linens from @april.cornell With the celebration of their 50th anniversary, many Heritage Prints from the archives have returned. Eden is one of the beautiful patterns that has returned. It is a soft purple paradise where butterflies float, roses bloom, and soft sage leaves levitate. As an April Cornell Brand Ambassador, I was gifted these gorgeous linens! I have been a collector of @april.cornell linens for many years…the floral patterns resonate with my love of English Country. 

I am serving my favorite, Earl Gray tea, from an Eileen’s Reserve teapot. Teacups by Grace Teaware and vintage Rose Chintz salad plates by Johnson Brothers add more floral patterns to the mix. Japanese Magnolia blooms were cut from my garden and placed in a lilypad teapot!

Mary @ homeiswheretheboatis.net and I welcome Nancy @nance_endless_summer as our special guest! LINK in bio for the blog posts. Have a wonderful day!

#teaontuesdays #teatime #aprilcornell #southernladymagazine #teatimemagazine #teatimepoetry_ #homeiswheretheboatis #victoriamagazine #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #englishcountrystyle #aprilcornellbrandambassador
Happy St. Patrick’s Day ☘️ A few photos from Happy St. Patrick’s Day ☘️ A few photos from our visit to ☘️ Ireland, The Emerald Isle and a tablescape in our Appalachian Foothills ☘️

“May the raindrops fall lightly on your brow.
 May the soft winds freshen your spirit.
 May the sunshine brighten your heart.
 May the burdens of the day rest lightly 
 upon you.
 And may God enfold you in His love.”

#everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #stpatricksday
It felt like spring today with a high in the upper It felt like spring today with a high in the upper 70’s. Do you ever forget what you have? I do, so I compiled a partial catalog of my teapots. I have included some here and more on my blog. Click the LINK in my profile to see more! 

#teapot #teapotcollector #teapots #teaontuesdays #teatime #teatimemagazine #teatimepoetry_ #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy Monday! With March bringing the promise of s Happy Monday! With March bringing the promise of spring and looking forward to our garden awakening, I planted a blooming bulb garden in my Sunshine Cottage! The butcher block countertop under a window, was a perfect place for a mini garden. Muscari, hyacinths, tulips, and daffodils danced in the sunlight and filled the cottage with an amazing fragrance! 

It is Monday Morning Blooms with friends Lidy @frenchgardenhouse Shannon @bellebleuinteriors and Mary homeiswheretheboatis.net

LINK in bio to view blog posts

#southernladymag #victoriamagazine #bulbgarden  #springbulbs #indoorgardening #muscari #hyacinths #pjssunshinecottage #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #thecottagejournal #portmeirion
Hello friends, I don’t know about you, but I am Hello friends, I don’t know about you, but I am ready for spring. Meteorological Spring begins this Saturday, March 1 and I am going with it. I have pulled spring flower arrangements from my blog archives. I hope you enjoy the flower therapy! You can see all of them by clicking on the  LINK in bio.

#springflowers #springflowerarrangement #springtime #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #flowermagazine #aprilcornell #gardener #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy Tuesday! Welcome to the Sunshine Cottage whe Happy Tuesday! Welcome to the Sunshine Cottage where it is warm and cozy on this cold February day. It is Tea on Tuesdays and I have set a tea table with the “Blue Roses” collection that was a collaboration between @victoriamagazine and @april.cornell The exclusive porcelain pattern and matching linens have been used many times and I still enjoy their blue and white beauty. Instead of fresh flowers, porcelain ones require no arranging. Sweet treats pair perfectly with a traditional English Breakfast tea. I am joining friends Sarah @sjpa48 and Mary homeiswheretheboatis.net

#teaontuesdays #teatime #victoriamagazine #aprilcornell #southernladymag #teatimemagazine #thecottagejournal #teatimepoetry #porcelainflowers #pjssunshinecottage #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy Thursday and Valentine’s Eve! In celebrati Happy Thursday and Valentine’s Eve! In celebration of the day, I pulled images from my blog archives for inspiration❤️💗❤️

Wishing everyone a lovely Valentine’s Day ❤️

#valentinesday #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #traditionalstyle #grandmillenial #valentinestablescape #valentinedecor #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy first Monday of February! After so many cold Happy first Monday of February! After so many cold days, we are experiencing a tease of spring with a 73 degree day that is forecast. After the gray and cloudy days, I needed a dose of color and decided to set a colorful citrus themed brunch! Using a bird gold and pewter stand, I mixed a citrus medley of lemons, oranges, and limes with pink and white carnations as the centerpiece. The table is highlighted with blue and white dishware. Fresh squeezed orange juice, French-pressed coffee and sweet treats of lemon poppyseed muffins, lemon cake with lemon icing, and lemon pastries are perfect for a small brunch. A faux lemon topiary belonged to my beloved Mother and seemed a perfect addition to a citrus-themed table! You are invited to join me and my Monday Morning Blooms friends, Lidy @frenchgardenhouse Sarah @sjpa48 and Mary homeiswheretheboatsis.net by clicking the LINK in my bio!

#mondaymorningblooms🌻 #citrus #floraldesign #brunch #southernladymagazine #victoriamagazine #thecottagejournal #grandmillennial #traditionaldecor #lemons #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Welcome to Sunshine Cottage where I have been fluf Welcome to Sunshine Cottage where I have been fluffing for Valentine’s Day! For many years my Sweetheart and I have celebrated February 14th at home where it is quiet, no reservations are required, and we always have a table by the window! 

I love the traditional colors of red and pink! Frilly carnations fill a vintage Staffordshire, ‘Charlotte’ pitcher which rests on an antique Limoges plate with a velvet gold-crowned heart. The plate stack consists of a Royal Stafford ‘Asiatic pheasant’ dinner plate, American Atelier ‘Baroque’ luncheon/salad plate, Johnson Brothers, ‘Winchester’ salad plate, and a vintage pierced Bavarian rose plate! I am a huge fan of mixing colors, patterns, and textures for a collected look. 

I have joined 17 table stylists for a Valentine’s Day Blog Hop. Click the LINK in my bio to see all of the Valentine inspiration!

#southernladymag #valentineday #valentinestablescape #valentinesday #victoriamagazine #romanticdecor #traditionalstyle #replacementsltd #flowermagazine #thecottagejournal #pjssunshinecottage #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy Tuesday! On this very cold winter’s day, I Happy Tuesday! On this very cold winter’s day, I am serving my favorite tea, Earl Grey, in the Sunshine Cottage where it is warm and cozy! The magic of dancing sunlight enhances the table that is dressed with a warm tartan plaid throw repurposed as a tablecloth! ‘Winter Fauna’ bird salad plates from Pottery Barn (many years ago and now discontinued) remind me of the birds I watch from my kitchen window during the winter season. The Grace Teaware set adds more blue and white to the Spode ‘Blue Room’ dinner plates. Sweet treats were placed on a stack of Bordallo Pinheiro plates! A darling Hummel ‘Icy Adventure’ depicts a scene of an outdoor frozen pond with a pair of sweet ice skaters, a rosy cheeked boy and girl who have fallen down on the ice. I am sharing Tea on Tuesdays with Shannon @bellebleuinteriors and Mary homeiswheretheboatis.net Link in my Bio will take you to my blog post! Stay warm and safe!

#teaontuesdays #teatime #teatimemagazine #teatimepoetry #victoriamagazine #southernladymag #pjssunshinecottage #tea #graceteaware #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy Thursday! Mid January with cold weather and Happy Thursday! Mid January with cold weather and I am thinking about my spring and summer garden! I have ordered seeds that are to arrive tomorrow…zinnias, sunflowers, and giant marigolds! On today’s blog post (LINK IN BIO) I am sharing my photo journal from 2024’s garden! Grab a cup of coffee, tea, or hot chocolate and join me.

#mygarden #gardening #cottagegarden #gardendesignmag #gardengatemagazine #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #gardener #gardeninglife #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
My precious family enjoying a rare snowfall in Ala My precious family enjoying a rare snowfall in Alabama!
Rare scenes in our Northeast Alabama Foothills! # Rare scenes in our Northeast Alabama Foothills!

#snowday #winterwonderland #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
On this cold, gray, and wintry day I am sharing fl On this cold, gray, and wintry day I am sharing flower therapy to hopefully brighten your day! On the blog today is a review of my 2024 Monday Morning Blooms! Joining me are my friends, Lidy @frenchgardenhouse and Mary homeiswheretheboatis.net 

CLICK LINK IN BIO for blog post! I hope everyone stays safe and warm!

#mondaymorningblooms🌻 #floralarrangement #flowerarrangement #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #flowertherapy #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #tablesetting #tablescapes
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