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Taking Time For Tea

February 20, 2024~ Food & Entertaining, Tablescapes, Tea On Tuesdays

Happy Tuesday sweet friends. It seems that February is swiftly passing as I look forward to Springtime in our Appalachian Foothills!

“The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you; the Lord lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace.”
‭‭Numbers‬ ‭6‬:‭24‬-‭26‬ ‭(ESV‬‬)

It is a simple pleasure to share tea with you on the third Tuesday of each month!

Mary and I are always happy to welcome our friend and fellow Monday Morning Bloomer, Lidy from French Garden House as our special guest. She doesn’t need an introduction, as most of you have already discovered her amazing talents. You will find the links for teatime with Mary and Lidy at the bottom of this post.

“Tea time is a chance to slow down, pull back and appreciate our surroundings.”
~Letitia Baldrige

My sweet little Sunshine Cottage provides a place to slow down and appreciate my surroundings. Just thinking on my surroundings gives me pause to be thankful!

A very dear and long-time friend known as “Pearl” has a beautiful collection of teapots that she displays in her kitchen. We were recently invited for a delicious Valentine’s dinner and I borrowed her lovely Royal Albert ‘Old Country Roses, Ruby Celebration’ teapot. This particular pattern was introduced in 2001 and is discontinued. While I was writing this post, I sent Pearl a short question in a text message. Rather than texting, she called. We started reminiscing about the story of how she acquired the nickname of Pearl. This story was told to us when we met Tommy and Pearl in 1973. She had moved with her parents after high school graduation from Tennessee to NE Alabama and it is here that she met the love of her life. After a short courtship, they both knew they were meant to be together. The wedding was planned at Tommy’s home church to be officiated by his pastor who was just getting to know the bride-to-be. Throughout the entire ceremony the pastor called the bride Pearline, but her name is Merleene! From that moment on, all who know her well have called her Pearl! Amazing how things like that happen and stick for a lifetime. Just like my RM’s nickname, Butch, has stuck since childhood! To this day I find it hard to call him Donnie, and Merleene will always be Pearl. Who would think a teapot could stir up such wonderful memories!

I am serving my favorite black tea with a slight twist! Earl Grey Crème Tea with the soft warm flavor of vanilla and cream combine to lighten the citrus notes of a traditional Earl Grey.

Almost without fail when I set a table, there will be something on it that has a memory attached. The two-tiered stand belonged to my beloved Mother who used it often for her delicious baked goodies that everyone loved!

My Mother would have never served any dessert that was not made from scratch in her kitchen. I admit, in a pinch I often buy from a local bakery. A trip to Birmingham always requires a stop at Trader Joe’s to purchase flowers or just peruse the aisles for whatever looks good to eat. I scored some delicious sweet treats for today’s teatime!

On the top tier are glazed chocolate donut holes and madeleines, with vanilla bean scones and teeny tiny apple pies on the bottom. The miniature apple pies made with juicy apples and topped with brown sugar crumble was my favorite. All satisfied my sweet tooth!

Winter months provide dancing light and shadows across the table!

The lovely crocheted napkin rings that I treasure were made by a dear friend of my mother. She was called Aunt Ruby by all who knew her. She never had children of her own, but she had so many that loved her, as she genuinely loved all of them!

The Marc Jacobs china pattern by Waterford is called ‘David Scarlet’ and was discontinued in 2007. I found four each of the salad plates, bread/ butter plates, and cup/saucers at TJ Maxx around the time the pattern was discontinued. My friend who is a china, silver, and crystal collector found two dinner plates at an antique shop and added those to my other pieces. I now have two complete place settings. Replacements occasionally have a few dinner plates and I should purchase two so I would have four place settings. The pattern is very versatile, so maybe I will!

We recently received a letter from a couple who live in Central Asia. I was most interested in her Culture Corner that was written on the subject of Tea! She wrote, “If you are invited to someone’s house you cannot leave without a hot cup of fresh brewed tea. It is a symbol of goodwill and hospitality. You cannot drink it without a dessert of some sort and you cannot drink it standing up. The tea lasts at least 30 minutes and is always followed by a conversation. To say ‘No’ to tea is almost an insult.”

Sometimes I enjoy potted flowers rather than an arrangement. I thought the mini roses would be a perfect accompaniment for the ‘Old Country Roses’ teapot!

“Tea is best when enjoyed in pleasant surroundings, whether indoors or out, whether the atmosphere is tranquil, the setting harmonious.”
~John Blofeld

European linen tablecloth and exquisite napkins are from Crown Linen Designs. I highly recommend their products! Not a paid advertisement, I am just a very satisfied customer!

Please join my talented friends, Mary and Lidy at the links below.

Mary ~ Home Is Where the Boat Is

Lidy ~ French Garden House

Thank you for your visit and gracious comments. Wishing you a delightful week!

Linking with: Pieced Pastimes,  Between Naps on the Porch, Katherines Corner, Follow The Yellow Brick Home,
Life and Linda

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  1. Ruth Miller says

    February 20, 2024 at 6:35 AM

    I Love Aunt Ruby’s napkin rings and the story of how Pearl got her name. I hope that means she has lots of lovely pearls as well as teapots!.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 20, 2024 at 9:48 AM

      Thank you so much, Ruth ❤️

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  2. Mary says

    February 20, 2024 at 6:43 AM

    Pam, Your Sunshine Cottage is the perfect spot to enjoy a cup tea, surrounded by all your pretties and with the sunshine highlighting your table. Your friend’s Royal Albert ‘Old Country Roses, Ruby Celebration’ teapot is a beauty and what pretty potted rose to accompany it. ‘David Scarlet’ is such a handsome and versatile pattern. I love the bands of color and shape of the teacup and coupe-shaped saucer. What a delicious assortment of treats you found from Trader Joe’s. I always love to stop in when I have a chance and wish I had one that was closer to me. So interesting to read about the custom of taking tea from your friends in Asia. ‘You cannot drink it without a dessert of some sort’ is coincidentally my philosophy too. 😊 I had to chuckle over the paster calling her ‘Pearline’ instead of ‘Merleene’. Our last name is pronounced Mc’Catherine’ like the girl’s name, but not spelled that way. Our neighbors’ think my name is ‘Mary-Catherine’ and I don’t have the heart to correct them. 😊 As always, it’s a treat to join for a cuppa. Happy Tuesday. ☕ ❤️

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 20, 2024 at 10:20 AM

      Thank you, Mary. How funny that your neighbors think your name is Mary Catherine! That sounds quite regal! ❤️

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  3. Rita C at Panoply says

    February 20, 2024 at 7:15 AM

    What a lovely tea service to close out winter, Pam! I bet when Merleene was called Pearlene she felt slighted originally, but how wonderful it grew to an endearing name for her. My Mr. P is also known as Butch, and many still call him that. your teapot is the perfect choice with your Marc Jacobs china (I say buy the dishes!). sure wish we had a Trader Joe’s for flowers and treats, especially. Will you plant the small rose?

    It’s always a welcoming time to be invited into your cottage, but especially for tea time.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 20, 2024 at 9:47 AM

      Thank you, Rita. I don’t remember you sharing with me that Mr. P is also known as Butch. I do plan to plant the small rose. I missed an opportunity when Replacements emailed me when they had the dinner plates. I regret not purchasing two. I really don’t need one more piece of china! Have a lovely week!

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  4. jeanie says

    February 20, 2024 at 7:50 AM

    Pam, I think Pearl is lucky to be invited to tea! Her teapot is wonderful and I love the teatime treats you nabbed at TJs. We have one opening not far from my house –maybe by this summer. (It has been several years in the arrival, due to the first contractor ending up in jail!) Pearl’s name story made me smile. I think a lot of us (me included) end up with family names (and sometimes those are extended to friends or “forever” names) that came from similar situations!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 20, 2024 at 9:44 AM

      Thank you, Jeanie. How exciting to have a TJ’s coming near you. Enjoy your day, dear one ❤️

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  5. Nancy says

    February 20, 2024 at 7:55 AM

    Good Morning Pam. It is so lovely to sit with you in your Sunshine Cottage and enjoy a cup of tea and sweet treats. I could linger here all day and listen to your beautiful recollections of dear ones in your life. And how nice that precious items on your table bring those recollections to light.
    The Royal Albert teapot is quite lovely and matched beautifully with the potted roses.
    Thanks for having us… Happy Tuesday!
    PS Buy the plates!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 20, 2024 at 9:42 AM

      Thank you, Nancy! I missed the opportunity a few months ago when Replacements notified me they had dinner plates. I didn’t order them and I now regret my decision. Hopefully they will have at least 2 in the future! Wishing you a delightful Tuesday ❤️

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  6. Leslie Anne Tarabella says

    February 20, 2024 at 8:26 AM

    My mother came to my house yesterday for tea and biscuits. The “biscuits” were actually cranberry/almond shortbread cookies by KEEBLER (ha), but the tea was authentically made for the coronation of King Charles and carried in my suitcase back from Scotland. – so there! It made the Keeblers taste magnificently royal! Your table is lovely and I’m going to look into the King Linen line – happy sipping!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 20, 2024 at 9:40 AM

      A cup of royal tea can make a Keebler cookie taste magnificent! What a blessing to be able to share tea with your mother!

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  7. Alice Genzlinger says

    February 20, 2024 at 9:16 AM

    Where do I start. Well perhaps the scripture verse that you give us. Thank you. And then the tea setting with the dancing light over all. Everything tickles my fancy. Especially how “Pearl” got her nickname. Oh and I won’t forget Donnie’s nickname. One of my favorite places to shop is Replacements. My head just spins with all the loveliness there. Ask them to put you on their list to keep the Marc Jacob’s pattern for you. I wish America had the culture to always have tea for our guest. I think it would slow us down and there would be less anxiety. I noticed the beautiful chair in the background and the pretty pillow in it. The tiered plate that was your mothers will always hold a place in your heart and tea table. I love to hear of her love of all things pretty. We have a Traders Jo here. It is a small store and very busy so I don’t go often. I was at there original store once. It is huge and I stayed a long time taking in all they had. Happy te time❣️

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 20, 2024 at 9:38 AM

      Alice, I also love the scripture verses I shared. Thank you, Alice for faithfully reading and commenting. I am on Replacements list, they currently don’t have the dinner plates. They did several months ago and I let them get away. I wish we had a Trader Joe’s. Wishing you a lovely day dear one ❤️

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  8. bonnie morgan says

    February 20, 2024 at 9:20 AM

    Beautiful tea table and delightful stories. Lovely dancing light in your photos.
    I would love a cup of your Earl Grey Creme tea. Your china is striking and you must order right away or you will regret missing more pieces.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 20, 2024 at 9:34 AM

      Thank you, Bonnie. It would be a pleasure if you could join me!

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  9. Caron says

    February 20, 2024 at 9:36 AM

    Lovely monthly tea! What a wonderful way to meeting with friends!!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 20, 2024 at 9:48 AM

      Thanks so much, Caron ❤️

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  10. Jenna says

    February 20, 2024 at 9:58 AM

    Your table is just beautiful Pam! I love the sunshine coming in from the window and spilling over the pretty tea pot. The roses go perfectly with the teapot and beautiful china. I love the tulip pillow on the chair in the background, is it needlepoint? What a cozy spot to sit, sip, and enjoy special memories! The crocheted napkin rings look incredible with the Crown Linen napkins! I so enjoyed tea time with you!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 20, 2024 at 10:18 AM

      Thanks so much, Jenna. The pillow is needlepoint that I have had for many years. I don’t buy many new pillows, I just rotate what I have. Happy week to you ❤️

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  11. Clara says

    February 20, 2024 at 10:21 AM

    Pam, I loved this post with all the lovely sentimental pieces on the table along with Pearl’s story! The teapot is perfectly paired with your beautiful dishes. The napkin rings are so delicate. Your tiered serving piece has many memories for certain. Maybe you will get another chance to buy your two dinner plates to complete your collection and have a setting for 4 if you would like to do so. That pattern can be paired with so many other patterns as it’s so versatile. I have regrets about not completing a few sets even though I really don’t need another dish! Have a wonderful day! Clara ❤️

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 20, 2024 at 11:58 AM

      Thanks so much, Clara. I am like you, do I really need another plate? The china is versatile, perfect for Christmas! Wishing you a lovely day❤️

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  12. FrenchGardenHouse says

    February 20, 2024 at 10:57 AM

    What a delight it is, each time, dear friend, to visit you. Your tea table is delightful, with all the meaningful pieces like tiered stand and napkin rings. I love the story of Pearl! You share life’s best moments, and we all delight in reading them.

    Thank you so much for the invitation to join you and our sweet Mary today. xoxo Lidy

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 20, 2024 at 12:00 PM

      Thank you, Lidy. It is always a pleasure for you to join us for tea❤️

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  13. Linda Hovgaard says

    February 20, 2024 at 11:31 AM

    Your teatime arrangement is absolutely lovely! The way the light plays on your table is so enchanting. I can imagine myself sitting there enjoying that perfect cup of tea! I so love the leopard chair in the back ground with the beautiful tulip pillow. Is it possible to get a source for the pillow….most likely a one of a kind but a girl’s gotta try! Your “Pearline” story is the gem that is the perfect touch with a fairy wand! Love!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 20, 2024 at 12:03 PM

      Thank you, Linda. You are so sweet. The pillow has a mate and I found them at the Atlanta Gift Mart more than 20 years ago. I am glad you enjoyed the “Pearline” story ❤️

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  14. nonie hoffman says

    February 20, 2024 at 12:28 PM

    What a wonderful tea time. I jave a sweet tea pot that belonged to my aunt Elsie but it has no lid,I don’t know if it was broken or just got lost.
    We do not have a Trader Joe’s, do you think Crumble cookies would be a good replacement?

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 20, 2024 at 4:58 PM

      How special that you have a sweet teapot from your Aunt Elsie. Crumble cookies would work perfectly ❤️ Thank you Nonie!

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  15. K.L. Hale says

    February 20, 2024 at 12:34 PM

    Happy Tuesday and tea at the Cottage (and with Lidy and Mary, too–how beautiful, always). Pam, the story of Pearl made my heart and soul smile. And Butch (Donnie!). How wonderful! My soul was even happier seeing your Mom’s stand, Aunt Ruby’s napkin rings, and the dancing lights which pair perfectly with the verse you chose. Everything is exquisite, as always, sweet Pam. The delicious sweets (the mini apple pies and chocolate donut holes–yummy!) and a cup of good tea as a farewell and goodness round up such a beautiful blessing to my day. Pam, I made it back safe from K.C. visiting my son and family. So many memories were made. My heart is full. My schedule is jam-packed (I wish I was having jam-on biscuits sitting with you at your cottage). Tomorrow, I’ll have my BIG PET scan (to show this cancer head to toe- it’s been since Aug ’22 on this particular scan). Thursday, I’ll read to a class, and this weekend I’ll visit “Karla’s Cottage” –my little home I sold in my beloved former community last year to move to the “city” because of my cancer. Next week I’ll have my two treatments and participate in a study. Life is so full. And being here, at your place, and seeing all of the ways you bring so much of God’s love, beauty, and grace to our world, makes me a better person! If I’m “absent” for a while, you’ll know why. Please give Butch my regards and know that each morning I say all of your names out loud to our Heavenly Father.
    The weather is beautiful here–and I hope to get out and walk, too (If I get laundry and household responsibilities, accomplished, lol). I love you so much! God bless you all!! 💕❤️☕☕🎶🙏🙏

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    • Roxanne Bernard says

      February 20, 2024 at 12:49 PM

      I always enjoy reading everyone’s comments and just read about your cancer tests and treatments. If it is alright, I will pray for you and for all those involved in your care. You have a great attitude and joie de vivre! God bless, Roxanne

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      • K.L. Hale says

        February 20, 2024 at 2:02 PM

        Roxanne, that is so precious! Thank you. I humbly receive this blessing and prayer. Like you, I enjoy reading the comments. You’re so kind! And know, that when someone is praying for me, I, in turn, pray for that person. YOU! Thank you, Roxanne. God bless you, Karla

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      • Pam @ Everyday Living says

        February 20, 2024 at 2:23 PM

        Karla, Roxanne will definitely pray. She has been praying for Butch. Butch and I were able to meet Roxanne in Highlands, NC for lunch about a year and half ago. She is a sweetheart, just like you❤️

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      • Pam @ Everyday Living says

        February 20, 2024 at 2:25 PM

        Roxanne, thank you for praying for our dear friend, Karla. She is precious, and I just know you two could be friends! You are a sweetheart, dear one ❤️

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 20, 2024 at 5:24 PM

      Thanks so much, Karla. I love that you could join me for tea in the cottage. I am happiest that you were able to visit your son and family. It must have filled your heart with joy. Praying for the PET scan tomorrow that it will show a great report. Happy you are reading to a class on Thursday! I remember Karla’s Cottage that you sold in order to move closer to family. Praying for the treatments sweet friend that you won’t have reactions🙏🏻I love you sweet friend and you are always in our prayers ❤️🎶🙏🏻🙏🏻

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  16. Roxanne Bernard says

    February 20, 2024 at 12:45 PM

    Pam, your opening scripture is a favorite and always gives me a sense of peace.
    Wait…Butch’s real name is Donnie?!? I love Pearl’s story, she sounds like such a lovely, gracious person. Your table is beautiful, and you have reminded me to get out my Highlands Earl Grey Creme tea. I am also admiring the backdrop behind your table…the beautiful tulip pillow and curtains and the sampler. I would love to see a closeup of that! I believe I have mentioned the Afghan family my church “adopted”…he worked for our government, and the family had to flee on a military plane or be killed when the airport fell in Kabul. Every time I took them to doctor appointments, etc. a full tea was served when we returned home. And it lasted at least 30 minutes too. At first I was a little impatient to get on with my day, but then I came to appreciate being in the moment with my new friends.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 20, 2024 at 4:56 PM

      Thank you, dear one! I am so happy you shared about the Afghan family and their sharing of tea with you. I remember you mentioned your church “adopted” them. Your church I am sure has made an impact on them! Yes, make yourself a cup of Earl Grey Crème tea❤️

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  17. Cindie Winquist says

    February 20, 2024 at 3:06 PM

    Such a lovely table, gorgeous borrowed teapot, and sweet story behind how Pearl got her name. Your Sunshine cottage is the perfect venue. I love being invited to your tea parties. Your posts are always a highlight.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 20, 2024 at 5:03 PM

      Thank you so much, Cindie! You are so sweet ❤️

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  18. Marion says

    February 20, 2024 at 4:45 PM

    Thank you Pam for inviting us to your Sunshine Cottage for a tea party. We loved the beautiful setting and the warmth of your hospitality.
    Happy Tea time
    Marilyn,Joan and Marion

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 20, 2024 at 5:02 PM

      I am so happy that you sweet ladies could join me ❤️

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  19. Linda Primmer says

    February 20, 2024 at 8:25 PM

    A delight for our eyes. Treasures such as your mother’s tiered stand and Aunt Ruby’s napkin rings. Love your friend’s Royal Albert ‘Old Country Roses‘ teapot. By all means, do buy those china pieces when you find them. The needlepoint pillow is gorgeous. Gotta love Trader Joe’s for some wonderful desserts and fresh flowers. A lovely tea to enjoy with friends.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 20, 2024 at 10:25 PM

      Thanks so much, Linda. I love using things that have a memory attached!

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  20. Sarah says

    February 20, 2024 at 8:31 PM

    Pam, you know I love tea time, especially in the Sunshine Cottage! Your sun dappled table is the perfect setting. I love reading about your mother’s and Aunt Ruby’s tea time tuches. My mom rarely bought anything from a bakery. It was all handmade at home: bread, cookies, cakes, pies, icecream, meals. It was also always delicious! Mother also always set a pretty table, and our family of six had our meals around the table together. Life was pretty simple in the 50s and 60s, though I know none of this was simple for my mom! Your friend, Pearl’s teapot collection must be lovely.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 20, 2024 at 10:23 PM

      Thank you, Sarah. I think our Mothers could have been friends. My mother always set a lovely table. She never ever used paper. Life was simple, but our mothers didn’t have all the conveniences we have today. Have a wonderful week, my friend!

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  21. Kris @ Junk Chic Cottage says

    February 20, 2024 at 9:36 PM

    Hi Pam,
    Your tea setting at the Sunshine cottage is so pretty. I bet your friends collection is just gorgeous of all the teapots. Have a great week. Hugs. Kris

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 20, 2024 at 10:19 PM

      Thanks so much, Kris. Wishing you a wonderful week ❤️

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  22. kitty says

    February 21, 2024 at 8:16 PM

    I so enjoyed all the wonderful memories that you shared at your tea party, Pam. The idea of sharing a cup of tea before you leave someone’s house, along with a sweet, was such a lovely thought. Your dappled sunlight makes for such a pretty ambiance and the china pieces are so pretty. Using a potted plant as your centerpiece looks especially beautiful. I can understand why those crocheted napkin rings are treasures, along with your mom’s tired stand. Thank you for the delightful teatime!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 22, 2024 at 3:54 PM

      Thank you so kindly, Kitty! I thought the lady from Central Asia’s description of teatime there was quite lovely.

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  23. Linda Stoll says

    February 22, 2024 at 9:50 AM

    Oh everything looks so warm, cozy, and delicious around here … as always, Pam. I love the use of the tiered serving dish … it makes everything and anything look elegant and taste-worthy.

    I hope you guys are staying cozy and well. Happy end of February.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 24, 2024 at 4:37 PM

      Thank you dearest Linda! We are staying cozy and celebrated our 51st anniversary yesterday!

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  24. Linda Johnston says

    February 22, 2024 at 9:59 AM

    Beautiful tea table I love that you use those items that are memory ones. I do that too. Also, I need to get one of my many tea pots out for my frequent after noon cup of tea!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 24, 2024 at 4:35 PM

      Linda, pull out the beautiful teapots and use them for afternoon tea. Treat yourself!

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  25. Maristella says

    February 22, 2024 at 3:34 PM

    Adorable remembrances and beautiful Tea time. How inviting! Wonderful teapot. Hugs and blessings.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 22, 2024 at 3:52 PM

      Thank you sweet Maristella! Hugs 🥰

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  26. Awakening Wonders says

    February 22, 2024 at 6:28 PM

    Pam, teatime with you is the very best and I love the stories too! Simple beautiful tablescape!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 24, 2024 at 4:34 PM

      Mary, your comments warm my heart. Thank you!

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  27. Barbara at Mantel and Table says

    February 22, 2024 at 7:46 PM

    Absolutely beautiful Pam! I love your little cottage and your tea table! We do have so much to be thankful for, including friends with stories to share, and fellow tablescapers we meet on the internet! 🙂 Hope you’re having a lovely week – thanks so much for sharing!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 24, 2024 at 4:33 PM

      Thank you, my friend for your sweet comments. Wishing you a lovely weekend!

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  28. Kari Rogers-Miller says

    February 22, 2024 at 8:12 PM

    Oh Pam, as you know I do love my cuppa tea and what a perfect setting in the Sunshine Cottage. The teapot is perfect and I adore the rose plant. I, too like to purchase a plant in place of cut flowers sometimes. I also like the way the sunbeams play with your table and the story of Pearl’s name is so sweet. Your supply of dishes and linens are endless and always so perfect with your planned setting. How sweet you think of your Mom with the tiered serving trays and your purchased treats are delightful and your Mom is smiling on you I’m sure. Best wishes my sweet friend and I would love to pull up a chair and sip tea and enjoy the solitude and small talk that I know we would share with each other.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 24, 2024 at 4:32 PM

      Thank you, Kari! It would be delightful for you to pull up a chair and sip tea with me. I am sure we would enjoy sweet conversation ❤️

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  29. Kim says

    February 22, 2024 at 8:56 PM

    Pam, this is such a beautiful and serene table in the Sunshine Cottage. I love the sunlight dancing on the table! I’m sure that the Old Country Roses was the china that my mom had, although I don’t think it was her wedding china, just some china that she had picked out. It was always so pretty. The Marc Jacobs china is lovely – so unique in color and design. I agree with Rita – buy the dishes lol. The CL linens are gorgeous and the crocheted napkin rings are treasures. I hope you enjoyed your cuppa with all the goodies and wishing you a lovely week!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 24, 2024 at 4:28 PM

      As always, your comments are encouraging and sweet. Thank you my sweet friend!

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  30. Heritage Hall says

    February 22, 2024 at 9:12 PM

    What a blessing to sit at your beautifully appointed table with kindred spirits, Karla, Alice, Roxanne, et al, and share in the memories attached to the treasured family heirlooms. If everyone stopped at 3:30 and followed that Central Asian routine for tea together, what a serene world this could be. You can never have enough of the perfect setting of china… Knowing you, the set of four will be completed. Thank you for the graciousness that you, Mary and Lidy provide to sip away any weariness of the day. Your consummate hostess Mother’s tiered server is perfect for tea sandwiches… she was such a role model…..

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 24, 2024 at 4:27 PM

      Thank you, my friend! Yes, my beloved Mother was a role model! I hope you are doing well!

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  31. Janice Stowe says

    February 22, 2024 at 10:52 PM

    All three teas were exceptional ❤️

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 22, 2024 at 11:06 PM

      Thank you, Janice! It is so good to hear from you ❤️

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  32. Beverly says

    February 26, 2024 at 8:45 PM

    Pam,
    I loved that story about how Pearl got her name. Those crocheted napkin rings are beautiful. What a lovely table you set. I tea lover.am an Earl Gray
    Hugs,
    Bev

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 26, 2024 at 10:11 PM

      Thanks so much, Bev!

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  33. Cheryl says

    March 10, 2024 at 2:51 PM

    As I read this, I was thinking of your friend, Shirley, who used to join in with you and Mary and Lidy. I miss seeing her name in your posts. I pray all is well with her and with you and your family. God bless you, sweet friend.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      March 11, 2024 at 10:14 AM

      Cheryl, thank you for your concern about Shirley. We do miss her, but she is doing well. She gave up blogging but has a huge following on Instagram. She and I stay in touch! Blessings dear one!

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Happy Thursday! It has rained for days and the sun Happy Thursday! It has rained for days and the sun has rarely been seen! But the rain has certainly been great for the weeds in the garden. Looking back on 16 summer tables from my blog. Link in bio!

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Happy Tuesday, I invite you to join me for Tea on Happy Tuesday, I invite you to join me for Tea on Tuesdays! A 🍓strawberry🍓 themed tea was set under the arbor where the Lady Banks roses have climbed up and over. The roses bloomed in early spring and they were gorgeous, but now they provide a green canopy of shade, perfect for afternoon tea! A delicious strawberry and vanilla green tea is served along with strawberry trifles in vintage ice cream sundae glasses. Precious memories are always shared with my tables! 

I am joining Jennifer @jen_carroll_martin and Mary @homeiswheretheboatis.net for tea. Click the link in my profile to view all 3 blogs!

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Happy Monday! We have had a lot of rain which shor Happy Monday! We have had a lot of rain which shortened our peony season! Peony Karl Rosenfield was absolutely stunning this year. Sarah Bernhardt was relocated last year and gave us some gorgeous blooms in spite of being moved. Several Spirea are in bloom as well as Clematis Jackmanii! What is blooming in your garden?

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Happy Wednesday! I set a table next to our woodlan Happy Wednesday! I set a table next to our woodlands in memory of my beautiful Mother who was a lovely example of a Proverbs 31 woman. Mother had the gift of hospitality and shared it with everyone. Karl Rosenfield peonies from my garden fill a treasured keepsake pitcher handed down from my grandmother! A beautiful floral April Cornell ‘Lillianna’ tablecloth and Famille Rose salad plates elevate the status of the old picnic table next to our woodlands. I have collected bejeweled enamel trinket boxes for many years and shared a few on the table for whimsy and fun. For memories of my Mother, click the link in my profile. 

“Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” Proverbs 31:30

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Happy Thursday! I am behind in posting spring flow Happy Thursday! I am behind in posting spring flowers from my garden. Lady Banks Rose in bloom on the arbor 1-3 Snowball Viburnum with its showy blooms 4-5 Gorgeous Kwanzan Cherry blossoms 6-7 Old-fashioned Bridal Wreath Spirea 8-9 10 Lady Banks Rose 

Click link in bio to visit the blog post.

Wishing you a joy-filled day 🌼🤍🌺🤍

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With glorious weather, the table next to our woodl With glorious weather, the table next to our woodlands was perfect for teatime! It is Tea on Tuesdays with blogging friends Mary and Kitty. The table is enhanced by views toward the mountain, woodlands, and the large Snowball Viburnum. The verdant rye grass appears as a green carpet that has been spread for Easter! Vintage Fitz and Floyd ‘Herb Garden’ teapots, sugar and creamer, and oval tray are suited for springtime with their embossed bows, vegetables, and words. A bouquet of Kwanzan Cherry blossoms add more spring color to the setting. 

I am serving a simple teatime with Earl Grey tea, savory egg salad filled phyllo cups, and sweet vanilla cupcakes with cream cheese icing, and macarons! A favorite cottage rose tablecloth and Essential napkins are by April Cornell.

We are most blessed to celebrate the resurrection of Christ, being the source of new life, yet new life that is eternal. The beauty of this spring will again give way to another autumn in a few months, but the significance of His empty tomb will never change! Wishing you a blessed Holy Week ✝️ Click the link in my bio to view the blog!

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Happy Thursday! I love setting a table next to our Happy Thursday! I love setting a table next to our woodlands and this is the first one of the season, an Easter/Spring table! I love all the sweet bunny decorations, but Easter is so much more. We celebrate Easter because of the resurrection of Jesus Christ.  His bodily resurrection enables all those who choose to follow Him to have assured victory over our greatest enemy…death!

 I look forward each year when some of my favorite blooms display their amazing beauty in our garden. Snowball viburnum in its full glory with large creamy white blooms. Climbing Lady Banks Rose is covered in hundreds of miniature yellow blooms cascading to the ground. An old-fashioned Bridal Wreath Spirea with its branches arching to the ground in a fountain-like growth habit is loaded with showy double white flowers in clusters of three to six that resemble a bride’s wreath. I still claim the Kwanzan Cherry tree even though it is now on our son’s property. Its ruffled pink double pink blossoms are some of my favorite blooms. All four of these blooms make up an arrangement with a few tulips from the grocery store. 

A fluffle of moss bunnies hopped up to the picnic table. A ‘Charming’ tablecloth with  Mary Lake-Thompson napkins and Williams Sonoma enchanting ‘Famille Rose’ bunny plates!

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I often shared my sweet Daddy and his stories on m I often shared my sweet Daddy and his stories on my blog. My precious Daddy passed away peacefully on March 26th at the age of 94, surrounded by his beloved family! He was born during the depths of the Great Depression. That may have been part of the reason he was always content and loved the simple things. 

“A good name is to be chosen rather than great riches, and favor is better than silver or gold.” Proverbs 22:1

After high school graduation he signed to play professional baseball with the Cleveland Indians Organization. His baseball career was cut short when he was drafted in the army. He was seriously wounded in the Korean War and was awarded a Purple Heart and two bronze stars. Upon returning home, he married my beautiful Mother and they shared 54 wonderful years together before she passed away suddenly. 

My brother and I grew up in a Christian home, bathed in love, calm, security, and contentment, under the care of the two finest parents anyone could have. Daddy was known as Pawpaw to his three grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren. 

My heart is broken, he was the best Daddy a girl could have. I know he is present with the Lord and I rejoice in that promise, knowing too, that my Mother is also in the eternal presence of our Heavenly Father. 

For more of my Daddy’s story, click the link in my bio.
Happy first day of Spring! One of my favorite bloo Happy first day of Spring! One of my favorite blooming trees of springtime is the Kwanzan Cherry! I love pairing them with my Snowball Viburnum blooms to make a lovely flower arrangement!

Wishing you a most beautiful day!

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Welcome to Sunshine Cottage and the March edition Welcome to Sunshine Cottage and the March edition of Tea on Tuesdays. My inspiration for teatime is the beautiful linens from @april.cornell With the celebration of their 50th anniversary, many Heritage Prints from the archives have returned. Eden is one of the beautiful patterns that has returned. It is a soft purple paradise where butterflies float, roses bloom, and soft sage leaves levitate. As an April Cornell Brand Ambassador, I was gifted these gorgeous linens! I have been a collector of @april.cornell linens for many years…the floral patterns resonate with my love of English Country. 

I am serving my favorite, Earl Gray tea, from an Eileen’s Reserve teapot. Teacups by Grace Teaware and vintage Rose Chintz salad plates by Johnson Brothers add more floral patterns to the mix. Japanese Magnolia blooms were cut from my garden and placed in a lilypad teapot!

Mary @ homeiswheretheboatis.net and I welcome Nancy @nance_endless_summer as our special guest! LINK in bio for the blog posts. Have a wonderful day!

#teaontuesdays #teatime #aprilcornell #southernladymagazine #teatimemagazine #teatimepoetry_ #homeiswheretheboatis #victoriamagazine #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #englishcountrystyle #aprilcornellbrandambassador
Happy St. Patrick’s Day ☘️ A few photos from Happy St. Patrick’s Day ☘️ A few photos from our visit to ☘️ Ireland, The Emerald Isle and a tablescape in our Appalachian Foothills ☘️

“May the raindrops fall lightly on your brow.
 May the soft winds freshen your spirit.
 May the sunshine brighten your heart.
 May the burdens of the day rest lightly 
 upon you.
 And may God enfold you in His love.”

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It felt like spring today with a high in the upper It felt like spring today with a high in the upper 70’s. Do you ever forget what you have? I do, so I compiled a partial catalog of my teapots. I have included some here and more on my blog. Click the LINK in my profile to see more! 

#teapot #teapotcollector #teapots #teaontuesdays #teatime #teatimemagazine #teatimepoetry_ #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy Monday! With March bringing the promise of s Happy Monday! With March bringing the promise of spring and looking forward to our garden awakening, I planted a blooming bulb garden in my Sunshine Cottage! The butcher block countertop under a window, was a perfect place for a mini garden. Muscari, hyacinths, tulips, and daffodils danced in the sunlight and filled the cottage with an amazing fragrance! 

It is Monday Morning Blooms with friends Lidy @frenchgardenhouse Shannon @bellebleuinteriors and Mary homeiswheretheboatis.net

LINK in bio to view blog posts

#southernladymag #victoriamagazine #bulbgarden  #springbulbs #indoorgardening #muscari #hyacinths #pjssunshinecottage #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #thecottagejournal #portmeirion
Hello friends, I don’t know about you, but I am Hello friends, I don’t know about you, but I am ready for spring. Meteorological Spring begins this Saturday, March 1 and I am going with it. I have pulled spring flower arrangements from my blog archives. I hope you enjoy the flower therapy! You can see all of them by clicking on the  LINK in bio.

#springflowers #springflowerarrangement #springtime #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #flowermagazine #aprilcornell #gardener #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy Tuesday! Welcome to the Sunshine Cottage whe Happy Tuesday! Welcome to the Sunshine Cottage where it is warm and cozy on this cold February day. It is Tea on Tuesdays and I have set a tea table with the “Blue Roses” collection that was a collaboration between @victoriamagazine and @april.cornell The exclusive porcelain pattern and matching linens have been used many times and I still enjoy their blue and white beauty. Instead of fresh flowers, porcelain ones require no arranging. Sweet treats pair perfectly with a traditional English Breakfast tea. I am joining friends Sarah @sjpa48 and Mary homeiswheretheboatis.net

#teaontuesdays #teatime #victoriamagazine #aprilcornell #southernladymag #teatimemagazine #thecottagejournal #teatimepoetry #porcelainflowers #pjssunshinecottage #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy Thursday and Valentine’s Eve! In celebrati Happy Thursday and Valentine’s Eve! In celebration of the day, I pulled images from my blog archives for inspiration❤️💗❤️

Wishing everyone a lovely Valentine’s Day ❤️

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Happy first Monday of February! After so many cold Happy first Monday of February! After so many cold days, we are experiencing a tease of spring with a 73 degree day that is forecast. After the gray and cloudy days, I needed a dose of color and decided to set a colorful citrus themed brunch! Using a bird gold and pewter stand, I mixed a citrus medley of lemons, oranges, and limes with pink and white carnations as the centerpiece. The table is highlighted with blue and white dishware. Fresh squeezed orange juice, French-pressed coffee and sweet treats of lemon poppyseed muffins, lemon cake with lemon icing, and lemon pastries are perfect for a small brunch. A faux lemon topiary belonged to my beloved Mother and seemed a perfect addition to a citrus-themed table! You are invited to join me and my Monday Morning Blooms friends, Lidy @frenchgardenhouse Sarah @sjpa48 and Mary homeiswheretheboatsis.net by clicking the LINK in my bio!

#mondaymorningblooms🌻 #citrus #floraldesign #brunch #southernladymagazine #victoriamagazine #thecottagejournal #grandmillennial #traditionaldecor #lemons #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Welcome to Sunshine Cottage where I have been fluf Welcome to Sunshine Cottage where I have been fluffing for Valentine’s Day! For many years my Sweetheart and I have celebrated February 14th at home where it is quiet, no reservations are required, and we always have a table by the window! 

I love the traditional colors of red and pink! Frilly carnations fill a vintage Staffordshire, ‘Charlotte’ pitcher which rests on an antique Limoges plate with a velvet gold-crowned heart. The plate stack consists of a Royal Stafford ‘Asiatic pheasant’ dinner plate, American Atelier ‘Baroque’ luncheon/salad plate, Johnson Brothers, ‘Winchester’ salad plate, and a vintage pierced Bavarian rose plate! I am a huge fan of mixing colors, patterns, and textures for a collected look. 

I have joined 17 table stylists for a Valentine’s Day Blog Hop. Click the LINK in my bio to see all of the Valentine inspiration!

#southernladymag #valentineday #valentinestablescape #valentinesday #victoriamagazine #romanticdecor #traditionalstyle #replacementsltd #flowermagazine #thecottagejournal #pjssunshinecottage #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy Tuesday! On this very cold winter’s day, I Happy Tuesday! On this very cold winter’s day, I am serving my favorite tea, Earl Grey, in the Sunshine Cottage where it is warm and cozy! The magic of dancing sunlight enhances the table that is dressed with a warm tartan plaid throw repurposed as a tablecloth! ‘Winter Fauna’ bird salad plates from Pottery Barn (many years ago and now discontinued) remind me of the birds I watch from my kitchen window during the winter season. The Grace Teaware set adds more blue and white to the Spode ‘Blue Room’ dinner plates. Sweet treats were placed on a stack of Bordallo Pinheiro plates! A darling Hummel ‘Icy Adventure’ depicts a scene of an outdoor frozen pond with a pair of sweet ice skaters, a rosy cheeked boy and girl who have fallen down on the ice. I am sharing Tea on Tuesdays with Shannon @bellebleuinteriors and Mary homeiswheretheboatis.net Link in my Bio will take you to my blog post! Stay warm and safe!

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Happy Thursday! Mid January with cold weather and Happy Thursday! Mid January with cold weather and I am thinking about my spring and summer garden! I have ordered seeds that are to arrive tomorrow…zinnias, sunflowers, and giant marigolds! On today’s blog post (LINK IN BIO) I am sharing my photo journal from 2024’s garden! Grab a cup of coffee, tea, or hot chocolate and join me.

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