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My Love, My Valentine

January 28, 2025~ Blog hop, Everyday Living, Floral Arrangements, Sunshine Cottage, Valentines Day

Happy Tuesday, dear friends. Can you believe that January has raced by so quickly? This coming Saturday is the first day of February and that means plans are being made for that most charming of days, February 14th. Valentine’s Day is such a sweet treat tucked into the middle of winter.

“And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.”
‭‭Colossians‬ ‭3‬:‭14‬ ‭(ESV‬‬)

I am joining seventeen table stylists to bring you a Valentine’s Day Tablescape Blog Hop hosted by my talented friend, Rita from Panoply. You will find the links for all the beautiful table settings at the bottom of this post.

Welcome to Sunshine Cottage where I have been busy fluffing for Valentine’s Day! For many years we have celebrated Valentine’s Day at home. It is quiet, no reservations are required, and we always have a table by the window.

I have always loved Valentine’s Day…cards, candy, flowers, and I still hold dear the gold heart locket that ‘My Love’ gave me for Valentine’s the year we began dating. Our EM has asked if she can have it and I am planning on giving it to her soon as a surprise! Not only do we celebrate Valentine’s Day in February, but we also celebrate our anniversary! It will be number 52. We were mere children when we married. (Haha)

It would not be Valentine’s Day without the red velvet heart crowned in gold!

The angle of the sun’s rays in January and February, as it streams through the southwest window, creates magical dancing light!

Candy is a must for Valentine’s! A pink heart plate offers sweet treats…Cupid’s Blend M&M’s, Maggie Lyon Chocolatiers’ Chocolate Covered Valentine Pretzel Rods, and La Suissa Milk Chocolate Praline Hearts filled with cocoa cream!

Carnations were the only flowers I could find, but I happen to love their frilly appearance and spicy clove-like scent. Colors of red, white, and pink are perfect for the Staffordshire “Charlotte” English pitcher. 

Long-time readers may remember my tradition of saving our Valentine’s cards. I enjoy displaying them on the table and on the shelves in the cottage. We will reread them again and I will be teary-eyed as we share memories. Rather than buying cards, we now write letters. RM’s letters always tug at my heart strings. His unique writing style evokes all the cherished years of our marriage!

The Pottery Barn tablecloth has been in my linen closet for many years. I can’t remember the last time I brought it out and put it to use. It has a toile appearance but there isn’t a pastoral scene depicted on the fabric. It was the inspiration for my romantic table for two!

A plate stack of a Royal Stafford ‘Asiatic pheasant’ dinner plate, American Atelier ‘Baroque’ luncheon/salad plate, Johnson Brothers ‘Winchester’ salad plate, and a pierced Bavarian rose plate combine to compliment the tablecloth. The pitcher of flowers rest on a treasured Limoges plate. I am a huge fan of mixing colors, patterns, and textures for a collected look!

A pretty floral plate is always hard for me to resist. I found the set of twelve Winchester Pink rope-edged salad plates in an antique shop in Highlands, NC. The shop owner made me an offer that I could not pass up!

“In the Olympic Games of life, love will always be the gold medal winner.”
~ Butch Richardson

Heart napkin rings are Valentine appropriate!

“And suddenly all the love songs were about you.”
~Unknown

Some are blessed to be able to celebrate special occasions with the love of their life. If God allows, I will spend February 14th with my Love, my Valentine. Others may find themselves unable to see, talk to, or  feel the touch of their precious Love, their Valentine. I’ve had moments when I have asked myself, how could I ever find celebration in the midst of such unimaginable loneliness? Our dear friend Mary at Heritage Hall has captured the essence of the beauty of memories, and the strength of love that transcends absence. We cherish our time on Valentine’s Day when we read our letters to each other and look at all the cards I have saved. I wish to share with you how sweet Mary has not only provided an answer to my question, but has revealed in practice that true love will never die. Mary brings comfort and hope with these words…

…“Your wonderful idea of reading saved Valentine cards can be implemented even though the one you love is gone. I take out my “treasure” box of cards and sit at the Valentine “date” table to recapture those past
moments when words of love were exchanged.”

You are in for a fabulous treat by visiting the links below. Beautiful ideas and inspiration for your Valentine’s celebration are shared by these talented table stylists!

Panoply – Valentine’s Day: Birds of a Feather

Home is Where the Boat Is – Galentine’s Tea Party

Everyday Living – My Love, My Valentine

Celebrating Everyday Life – How to Style a Romantic French-Inspired Table for Two

Hyacinths for the Soul – Whispers of the Heart

Pandora’s Box – A Valentine Tea for Two

Me and My Captain – Cupid’s Arrow 2025

Life and Linda – Ooh la la! A Parisian Tablescape

The Bookish Dilettante – Conversation Hearts for Valentine’s Day

My Thrift Store Addiction – Vintage Style Galentine’s Gathering

The Cat’s Whiskerz – A Copper Inspired Valentine’s Day Tablescape

The Little Yellow Corner Store – Valentine’s Day and a Snowman’s Smile

Corner of Plaid and Paisley – For All the Roses in My Life

The Painted Apron – Love Talk 

Dinner at Eight – Artistry and Romance — A Valentine’s Table

Thrifting Wonderland – Creating a Romantic Thrifted Valentine’s Tablescape

Belle Bleu Interiors – A Celebration of Love

Mantel and Table – A Valentine’s Day Tablescape in Beautiful Blush and Peach

How do you celebrate Valentine’s Day?

Thank you for your visit and gracious comments. Wishing you a joy-filled week!
Linking with: Pieced Pastimes,  Between Naps on the Porch, Katherines Corner, Follow The Yellow Brick Home,
Life and Linda

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  1. Nancy says

    January 28, 2025 at 7:15 AM

    What a romantic table for two for the most loving couple in BlogLand.
    From the gorgeous linens to the pretty flowers and the exquisite plate stack, this table is a beautiful place to be on Valentine’s Day.
    I enjoyed seeing the votives lit for a candlelight dinner at the end. And I am always glad to read Butch’s quotes.
    Happy Valentine’s Day! 🩷❤️🩷

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      January 28, 2025 at 6:55 PM

      Thank you, Nancy! Your sweet comments warm my heart 🩷❤️🩷

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  2. Mary says

    January 28, 2025 at 7:16 AM

    Just beautiful Pam! Your Sunshine Cottage with its cozy atmosphere is the perfect spot for a celebration! I adore your table with the pretty plate layers, beautiful tablecloth and your ‘Charlotte’ pitcher, that makes a perfect vase for your bouquet of carnations! I love the sunlight highlighting all the ‘pretties’ on your table. Such a heartwarming tradition of bringing out your collection of Valentine’s cards, as is dear Mary’s response and the comfort they bring. Congratulations on almost 52 years, such a wonderful and celebratory milestone…you were babies! 😊 As always, it’s a treat to join you at the table and hop with you. Wishing you a wonderful week ahead. ♥

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  3. Patti @ Pandora's Box says

    January 28, 2025 at 8:11 AM

    What a sweet tradition to save your cards, as well as writing letters – what a special time it must be to look back and reflect! Your plate stack is quite pretty and I am drooling over your plate os sweets! Nice to see your sunshine as we have had lots of grey. and snowy days here! Enjoy Valentine’s day!

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  4. Ann Krucek says

    January 28, 2025 at 8:28 AM

    Pam, you have set such a romantic and lovely table, perfect to celebrate such a wonderful event as your 52nd Anniversary!! How fabulous!! Such a beautiful tribute that you have saved all your cards and letters to each other, what a great way to reminisce over your time together. I love the way you captured the sun shining over your gorgeous plate stack like rays of hope for many more years of happiness together. I hope you have a lovely Valentine’s Day ❤️

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  5. Cecilia says

    January 28, 2025 at 9:14 AM

    Pam, it’s always a pleasure to pull up a chair to your table and today is no exception–beautiful! You have outdone yourself with the gorgeous plate stacks, chocolate, and velvet hearts! Blessings, Cecilia @ My Thrift Store Addiction

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  6. Roxanne Bernard says

    January 28, 2025 at 9:27 AM

    Pam, you and Butch are the most romantic couple I know. Being married 52 years does not happen by accident. I hope we might have a peek of EK receiving the locket. Sunshine Cottage looks very romantic. The table is beautiful, and I especially love those votives.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      January 28, 2025 at 6:54 PM

      Thank you, Roxanne for your sweet comments. You are right behind us celebrating your 52nd!

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  7. Clara says

    January 28, 2025 at 10:10 AM

    Pam, Your table is beautiful. I love the new salad plates. They are really pretty! Valentine’s at home is always so much better than a crowded, noisy restaurant. Your etched stemmed drinking glasses are lovely. The carnations in the pitcher are just perfect as a centerpiece. Hope you have a wonderful week. Clara❤️

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      January 28, 2025 at 6:52 PM

      Thank you, Clara! You are so sweet ❤️

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  8. Linda Primmer says

    January 28, 2025 at 10:20 AM

    Pam, truly a table full of love.❤️ The tablecloth is a lovely with your beautiful plates stack. Your Staffordshire “Charlotte” English pitcher is gorgeous with your red carnations. The sun always seems to shine brightly in Sunshine Cottage. Happy anniversary to you and Butch. I love that you have kept your cards and also write love letters to each other. a beautiful celebration of love.

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  9. Kari Rogers-Miller says

    January 28, 2025 at 10:34 AM

    Pam, congratulations to you and Butch…52 years is amazing these days. I like to make a joke when told of a long union….I say “with the same man?” LOL. Seriously, congratulations on your sweet love and all your romantic Valentine’s Day rituals. I save all our cards to each other and the Captain is one of the most romantic husbands, so I am very Blessed.
    Your Sunshine Cottage is decked out in Valentine splendor and so cozy.
    We spend the day at home also after many years of dealing with crowds and sometimes disappointing meals. A cozy table for two set up by a crackling fire in the fireplace, and a special meal is perfect for us.
    How sweet EM asked for the gold heart locket Butch gave you so many years ago. That brings tears to my eyes.
    Hugs and Blessings to you and yours my dear friend. ❤️❌❌❌⭕️⭕️⭕️ ❤️‍🩹❤️🩷

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  10. Kris @ Junk Chic Cottage says

    January 28, 2025 at 10:47 AM

    All of you girls have made some of the sweetest tables capes for Valentine’s Day tea. Love all the pretty colors and your plates are so gorgeous. Love it all Pam. Hugs. Kris

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      January 28, 2025 at 6:51 PM

      You are a sweetheart! Thank you, Kris ❤️

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  11. Cindie Winquist says

    January 28, 2025 at 11:13 AM

    Simply stunning, warm and romantic. Have a wonderful Valentine’s Day with your longtime love.

    EM is going to treasure that locket. One of my grandgirls is enamored with a locket given to me by my sweet mother-in-love, Shirley. I wear it almost exclusive to other necklaces. I do plan to give that locket to my Noelle because I know she will treasure it too.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      January 28, 2025 at 6:51 PM

      Thank you, Cindie. How special to have a locket from your sweet mother-in-love and one day pass it to Noelle ❤️

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  12. Jenna says

    January 28, 2025 at 11:24 AM

    The dabbled sunlight with the pink and red flowers and the velvet valentine heart create magic from the first photo Pam! The Sunshine Cottage with a table for 2 is the perfect spot for a romantic dinner with your beloved Renaissance Man! I do love your tradition of saving your Valentine cards and re-reading them every year, and the shelves in your cottage are perfect for displaying them. I love your pattern mix and Butch’s quote about love and the gold medal. Mary is right, your love with always be with you~💕

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  13. Alice Genzlinger says

    January 28, 2025 at 1:12 PM

    “Butchs’ unique writing style” touched my heart. What a revealing statement of love snd your love for each other. This will be my first year without my love but for the past two years he didn’t respond to “it’s Valentine Day” . Memory’s are all we are left with. Only the good ones are allowed.
    All of your tables are picture book worthy but the Valentine one is the one to make lovely memories. Enjoy❤️

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      January 28, 2025 at 6:49 PM

      Thank you my dear Alice. Wonderful memories warm our hearts. Blessings sweet friend ❤️

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  14. Sarah Anderson says

    January 28, 2025 at 2:06 PM

    First let me just say, it is so gray and gloomy here, that seeing this sun kissed table has lifted my spirits. I’m loving all the red details from the crowned velvet heart (I have one too!) to the fabulous and elegant plate stack of charmers. Love the table linen, Pam. It’s fun to pull out “old friends” and give them the spotlight. It’s perfect for the vibe of this beautiful table.
    Monnie gave me valentine gifts, the occasional card if one caught his eye, but always prepared a lovely meal for the two of us. I, of course, set the table.
    You know I’m all about mixing colors, patterns, and textures as well for a collected look. I think that’s what keeps things interesting, and you definitely shared beautiful, interesting, inspiration for each of us. Now if we just had a touch of sunlight! I smile at your tradition of reading the valentines through the years. Happy Valentine’s Day!

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  15. Kim says

    January 28, 2025 at 2:24 PM

    Pam, what a beautifully romantic table you have set for the two of you. The sunlight on the table at this time of year truly is magic! The Charlotte pitcher filled with carnations is so pretty and I love the tablecloth you used. The plate stack is gorgeous and the gold crowned velvet heart and heart napkin rings are so sweet. I love your tradition of bringing out all the previous valentine’s day cards and sharing them with each other and displaying them around the Sunshine Cottage. Congratulations on your upcoming anniversary and wishing you both a glorious Valentine’s Day!

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  16. Lynne says

    January 28, 2025 at 2:39 PM

    What a wonderful tablecloth to act as the anchor for your table setting. I was excited to see the choices of china many of them favorites. The pinks and whites contribute to the vintage feel of the table. The napkin rings are lovely touches to the table. So many hearts bring out the message of love you and your husband share each year. The flowers in the floral pitcher bring the elements together for a lovely Valentine’s Day table. Happy Valentine’s Day.
    Lynne, thrifting Wonderland

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  17. Shannon@Belle Bleu Interiors says

    January 28, 2025 at 2:59 PM

    Pam, your table is absolutely stunning set in Sunshine Cottage. The sun’s rays dancing through the cottage is truly magical. You have so many pretties displayed on your lovely table. I adore carnations too. Their ruffled appearance is so pretty, and their fragrance is heavenly. Congratulations on 52 years of marriage! I hope that you have a Happy Valentine’s Day, sweet friend!

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  18. Rebecca Payne says

    January 28, 2025 at 3:25 PM

    Gorgeous

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      January 28, 2025 at 6:47 PM

      Thank you, Rebecca!

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  19. Karen (Back Road Journal) says

    January 28, 2025 at 4:06 PM

    What a wonderful collection of Valentine’s Tablescapes. Love the table and the lovely salad plates…lucky you to have discovered them and that the owner made you an offer that you couldn’t refuse.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      January 28, 2025 at 6:46 PM

      Thank you, Karen! I really didn’t need any more dishware, couldn’t refuse the offer!

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  20. Rita C at Panoply says

    January 28, 2025 at 4:36 PM

    Pam, your Sunshine Cottage for Valentine’s Day is simply breathtaking. I can see all the decor behind the table, and the table itself is just so beautiful with the pattern and color play. I love the dish stack on that tablecloth! The flowers are perfect. The obvious love you & Butch share is so wonderful. I so love reading both yours and his posts. The treats look so yummy – those pretzels are calling my name! The candlelight is gorgeous, but that sunshine [on my shoulders] in the winter in the cottage just cannot be beat. Happy Valentine’s Day! Thank you for participating in this blog hop. You are so appreciated.

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  21. Ricki Jill Treleaven says

    January 28, 2025 at 5:44 PM

    Pam, I enjoyed reading about your Valentine’s Day traditions. Its so nice that you display cards and mementos each year to celebrate. Your plate stacks are stunning, and my favorite things are the pierced Bavarian rose plates. They are so romantic! Everything on your table is pretty, and I want to congratulate you on fifty-two years of marriage. What an achievement and blessing! Happy Valentine’s Day!

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  22. kitty says

    January 28, 2025 at 6:08 PM

    Your Valentine themed table just warms my heart, Pam. My beloved and I were engaged on Valentine’s Day and I treasure that memory. Your mixture of dishes is so charming and one of my favorite pieces is your pitcher that holding your carnations. Enjoy your beautiful love for each other ♥️

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      January 28, 2025 at 6:45 PM

      Thank you, Kitty for your sweet comments ❤️ Valentine’s Day will always hold that treasured memory for you❤️

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  23. The French Hutch says

    January 28, 2025 at 7:37 PM

    Pam, your valentine’s table is perfection for a romantic setting! I love all the pinks and the dish patterns are so pretty and all work together. I have some Pink Castles I need to unpack for the big day. I think it’s so romantic to save cards we received, I try to do that but I’m sure some have been lost over the years. Wishing you and Butch a very Happy Valentine’s Day and a very Happy Anniversary!…..

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      January 29, 2025 at 5:16 PM

      Thank you, Emily! Your comments are sweet and heartwarming!

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  24. jeanie says

    January 29, 2025 at 7:35 AM

    Oh Pam, another lovely! That pitcher on the table is — if not the same pattern — a dead ringer for my grandma’s transferware pattern (but I think hers might be Johnson Brothers). Nonetheless, a reminder to swap out my china for February! The carnations are so pretty in it. Love all the plates and pretty touches!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      January 31, 2025 at 10:16 PM

      Thanks you, Jeanie. I wish I had more pieces like the pitcher!

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  25. Marsha says

    January 29, 2025 at 12:42 PM

    Pam, your story is truly endearing. I love to hear just how much Valentine’s Day means to you and to your husband. You express your thoughts in such a way that allow others to feel the kind of loving relationship you have with your spouse. Remarkable and something to cherish for years to come. I love your table, especially your mixtures of patterns of all of your delicate plates. Your tablecloth is such a lovely backdrop to your floral plates. The dancing sunlight of the day plays into the romance and coziness of the table. The floral centerpiece conveys just as much beauty as the floral plates. Such charm. Happy Anniversary and Happy Valentine’s Day.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      January 31, 2025 at 10:15 PM

      Thank you, Marsha. It is a special day for us. Thank you for the well wishes!

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  26. Cindy Conner says

    January 29, 2025 at 3:43 PM

    Love the table setting so much and those napkin rings!!! LOVE! I also love your tradition of Valentine cards and reading them year to year. Makes me smile. Hugs and blessings, Cindy

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      January 29, 2025 at 5:17 PM

      Thank you, Cindy! Hugs and blessings to you, dear one!

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  27. Awakening Wonders says

    January 29, 2025 at 8:42 PM

    Love is in the air at your home and the sweet tablescape awaits! And I agree with you Valentine’s Day is “a sweet treat tucked into the middle of winter.”

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      January 31, 2025 at 10:13 PM

      Thank you, Mary for your warm comments!

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  28. Myrna says

    January 30, 2025 at 12:30 AM

    What a lovely meaningful table. You and Butch are so lucky to have found love so long ago. To keep the cards and still read them touched all of our hearts.
    There is a pretty plate under the pitcher I would have liked to see and the glasses are ever so beautiful.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      January 31, 2025 at 10:13 PM

      Thank you, Myrna. I should have shown the Limoges plate by itself. The glasses are vintage Fostoria!

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  29. MaryJo Materazo says

    January 30, 2025 at 5:37 PM

    Lovely table! The plate stack is fabulous. I love mixing and matching patterns too and there are some beautiful pieces here. I’m in love with your transferware pitcher too. It’s perfect with the carnations. Happy Valentine’s Day and anniversary. I love all your beautiful traditions. XO- MaryJo

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 2, 2025 at 7:00 AM

      Thank you, Mary Jo. Happy Valentine’s Day to you!

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  30. Maristella says

    January 31, 2025 at 6:30 AM

    Awwww… Awesome and breathtaking Valentine’s post! Gorgeous dishes! That wonderful pitcher has caught my eye… Absolutely stunning with carnations! Thank you for such beauty and inspiration.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      January 31, 2025 at 10:12 PM

      Maristella, thank you for your lovely comments, my friend!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 2, 2025 at 6:59 AM

      Thank you, my friend!

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  31. Sandra @ Dinner at Eight says

    January 31, 2025 at 5:46 PM

    Pam, your pretty table is utterly charming! Layering all the patterns in various shades of red bring interest and depth to the display, and entice one to unlock each layer for study. I especially love the Royal Stafford and Johnson Bros plates with their intricate designs, different yet compatible. The pitcher is beautiful and is a perfect vessel for the mass of carnations with their frilly loveliness. (Carnations are severely underrated I think!) As long as we remember, loved ones live on in our hearts. Happy Valentine’s Day

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  32. Tea Wih Jennifer says

    January 31, 2025 at 6:26 PM

    What a beautiful post Pam! Especially sharing Mary’s story at the end, I remember after my late hubby, Ed, died doing similar in reading his notes of love that he had left for me. Sweet, sweet memories. 😊

    By the way, I particularly liked your heart napkin holder.
    Blessings sweet friend, Jennifer

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      January 31, 2025 at 10:11 PM

      Thank you, Jennifer. So precious that you had notes from Ed that you could read.
      Blessings, my friend
      Pam

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 2, 2025 at 6:58 AM

      Thank you, Jennifer. Blessings❤️

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  33. Barbara at Mantel and Table says

    February 1, 2025 at 8:14 PM

    Your table is so lovely Pam, and the candlelit one is extra lovely! You have such a way! Thanks for sharing the idea of rereading the letters and cards, whether the writer is here or not. That’s such a wonderful thing to do. It’s always wonderful to share a hop with you – Happy Valentines Day to both of you!

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  34. Jennifer Martin says

    February 3, 2025 at 5:11 PM

    Oh Pam, Your Valentine’s Day tablescape is absolutely enchanting! And I really love your Pottery Barn tablecloth! The flowers, the plates, it’s all so sweet! You have created such a romantic and inviting setting.

    Your tradition of saving and rereading Valentine’s cards is so sweet. It’s a beautiful way to cherish and relive the precious moments you’ve shared over the years. Congratulations on your upcoming anniversary! Wishing you and your Renaissance Man a joyous Valentine’s Day filled with love and cherished memories.

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  35. Barbara says

    February 14, 2025 at 10:53 AM

    Pam & Butch,

    Happy Valentine’s Day to you!!! I am excited that you’ve shared so many Valentine’s Days together. Charles and I are at 38 VD’s this year. And actually 39 since we started dating right before Valentine’s Day. That first year, I made him a large heart-shaped cookie and wore pink and white with white high-top aerobic dance sneakers. 😉 Guess it worked!

    Love your cottage tablescape and thank you for sharing the names of all of the plates. It is fun to stack different plates together. <3

    To many more!
    Hugs,
    Barb 🙂

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 15, 2025 at 8:02 PM

      Thanks so much, Barbara. Your sweet comments warm my heart!

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  36. Cheryl says

    February 16, 2025 at 4:22 PM

    Happy Belated Valentine’s Day! I hope yours was special. Ours sure was. We went to Olive Garden, one of our favorite places and also is the restaurant we went to for our first date over 36 years ago. God has been so good, and I can’t thank Him enough to still have my precious, lifetime valentine and soul mate. I cherish every second He gives us together and pray He will give us many, many more years, in Jesus’ name. May He bless you and your RM and your family always.

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With glorious weather, the table next to our woodl With glorious weather, the table next to our woodlands was perfect for teatime! It is Tea on Tuesdays with blogging friends Mary and Kitty. The table is enhanced by views toward the mountain, woodlands, and the large Snowball Viburnum. The verdant rye grass appears as a green carpet that has been spread for Easter! Vintage Fitz and Floyd ‘Herb Garden’ teapots, sugar and creamer, and oval tray are suited for springtime with their embossed bows, vegetables, and words. A bouquet of Kwanzan Cherry blossoms add more spring color to the setting. 

I am serving a simple teatime with Earl Grey tea, savory egg salad filled phyllo cups, and sweet vanilla cupcakes with cream cheese icing, and macarons! A favorite cottage rose tablecloth and Essential napkins are by April Cornell.

We are most blessed to celebrate the resurrection of Christ, being the source of new life, yet new life that is eternal. The beauty of this spring will again give way to another autumn in a few months, but the significance of His empty tomb will never change! Wishing you a blessed Holy Week ✝️ Click the link in my bio to view the blog!

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Happy Thursday! I love setting a table next to our Happy Thursday! I love setting a table next to our woodlands and this is the first one of the season, an Easter/Spring table! I love all the sweet bunny decorations, but Easter is so much more. We celebrate Easter because of the resurrection of Jesus Christ.  His bodily resurrection enables all those who choose to follow Him to have assured victory over our greatest enemy…death!

 I look forward each year when some of my favorite blooms display their amazing beauty in our garden. Snowball viburnum in its full glory with large creamy white blooms. Climbing Lady Banks Rose is covered in hundreds of miniature yellow blooms cascading to the ground. An old-fashioned Bridal Wreath Spirea with its branches arching to the ground in a fountain-like growth habit is loaded with showy double white flowers in clusters of three to six that resemble a bride’s wreath. I still claim the Kwanzan Cherry tree even though it is now on our son’s property. Its ruffled pink double pink blossoms are some of my favorite blooms. All four of these blooms make up an arrangement with a few tulips from the grocery store. 

A fluffle of moss bunnies hopped up to the picnic table. A ‘Charming’ tablecloth with  Mary Lake-Thompson napkins and Williams Sonoma enchanting ‘Famille Rose’ bunny plates!

#eastertablescape #springtablescape #alfresco #springtime #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #aprilcornell #aprilcornellbrandambassador #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #williamssonoma
I often shared my sweet Daddy and his stories on m I often shared my sweet Daddy and his stories on my blog. My precious Daddy passed away peacefully on March 26th at the age of 94, surrounded by his beloved family! He was born during the depths of the Great Depression. That may have been part of the reason he was always content and loved the simple things. 

“A good name is to be chosen rather than great riches, and favor is better than silver or gold.” Proverbs 22:1

After high school graduation he signed to play professional baseball with the Cleveland Indians Organization. His baseball career was cut short when he was drafted in the army. He was seriously wounded in the Korean War and was awarded a Purple Heart and two bronze stars. Upon returning home, he married my beautiful Mother and they shared 54 wonderful years together before she passed away suddenly. 

My brother and I grew up in a Christian home, bathed in love, calm, security, and contentment, under the care of the two finest parents anyone could have. Daddy was known as Pawpaw to his three grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren. 

My heart is broken, he was the best Daddy a girl could have. I know he is present with the Lord and I rejoice in that promise, knowing too, that my Mother is also in the eternal presence of our Heavenly Father. 

For more of my Daddy’s story, click the link in my bio.
Happy first day of Spring! One of my favorite bloo Happy first day of Spring! One of my favorite blooming trees of springtime is the Kwanzan Cherry! I love pairing them with my Snowball Viburnum blooms to make a lovely flower arrangement!

Wishing you a most beautiful day!

#cherryblossom #springtime #springinthesouth #kwanzancherry #mygarden #southerngarden #victoriamagazine #southernladymag #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Welcome to Sunshine Cottage and the March edition Welcome to Sunshine Cottage and the March edition of Tea on Tuesdays. My inspiration for teatime is the beautiful linens from @april.cornell With the celebration of their 50th anniversary, many Heritage Prints from the archives have returned. Eden is one of the beautiful patterns that has returned. It is a soft purple paradise where butterflies float, roses bloom, and soft sage leaves levitate. As an April Cornell Brand Ambassador, I was gifted these gorgeous linens! I have been a collector of @april.cornell linens for many years…the floral patterns resonate with my love of English Country. 

I am serving my favorite, Earl Gray tea, from an Eileen’s Reserve teapot. Teacups by Grace Teaware and vintage Rose Chintz salad plates by Johnson Brothers add more floral patterns to the mix. Japanese Magnolia blooms were cut from my garden and placed in a lilypad teapot!

Mary @ homeiswheretheboatis.net and I welcome Nancy @nance_endless_summer as our special guest! LINK in bio for the blog posts. Have a wonderful day!

#teaontuesdays #teatime #aprilcornell #southernladymagazine #teatimemagazine #teatimepoetry_ #homeiswheretheboatis #victoriamagazine #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #englishcountrystyle #aprilcornellbrandambassador
Happy St. Patrick’s Day ☘️ A few photos from Happy St. Patrick’s Day ☘️ A few photos from our visit to ☘️ Ireland, The Emerald Isle and a tablescape in our Appalachian Foothills ☘️

“May the raindrops fall lightly on your brow.
 May the soft winds freshen your spirit.
 May the sunshine brighten your heart.
 May the burdens of the day rest lightly 
 upon you.
 And may God enfold you in His love.”

#everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #stpatricksday
It felt like spring today with a high in the upper It felt like spring today with a high in the upper 70’s. Do you ever forget what you have? I do, so I compiled a partial catalog of my teapots. I have included some here and more on my blog. Click the LINK in my profile to see more! 

#teapot #teapotcollector #teapots #teaontuesdays #teatime #teatimemagazine #teatimepoetry_ #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy Monday! With March bringing the promise of s Happy Monday! With March bringing the promise of spring and looking forward to our garden awakening, I planted a blooming bulb garden in my Sunshine Cottage! The butcher block countertop under a window, was a perfect place for a mini garden. Muscari, hyacinths, tulips, and daffodils danced in the sunlight and filled the cottage with an amazing fragrance! 

It is Monday Morning Blooms with friends Lidy @frenchgardenhouse Shannon @bellebleuinteriors and Mary homeiswheretheboatis.net

LINK in bio to view blog posts

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Hello friends, I don’t know about you, but I am Hello friends, I don’t know about you, but I am ready for spring. Meteorological Spring begins this Saturday, March 1 and I am going with it. I have pulled spring flower arrangements from my blog archives. I hope you enjoy the flower therapy! You can see all of them by clicking on the  LINK in bio.

#springflowers #springflowerarrangement #springtime #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #flowermagazine #aprilcornell #gardener #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy Tuesday! Welcome to the Sunshine Cottage whe Happy Tuesday! Welcome to the Sunshine Cottage where it is warm and cozy on this cold February day. It is Tea on Tuesdays and I have set a tea table with the “Blue Roses” collection that was a collaboration between @victoriamagazine and @april.cornell The exclusive porcelain pattern and matching linens have been used many times and I still enjoy their blue and white beauty. Instead of fresh flowers, porcelain ones require no arranging. Sweet treats pair perfectly with a traditional English Breakfast tea. I am joining friends Sarah @sjpa48 and Mary homeiswheretheboatis.net

#teaontuesdays #teatime #victoriamagazine #aprilcornell #southernladymag #teatimemagazine #thecottagejournal #teatimepoetry #porcelainflowers #pjssunshinecottage #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy Thursday and Valentine’s Eve! In celebrati Happy Thursday and Valentine’s Eve! In celebration of the day, I pulled images from my blog archives for inspiration❤️💗❤️

Wishing everyone a lovely Valentine’s Day ❤️

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Happy first Monday of February! After so many cold Happy first Monday of February! After so many cold days, we are experiencing a tease of spring with a 73 degree day that is forecast. After the gray and cloudy days, I needed a dose of color and decided to set a colorful citrus themed brunch! Using a bird gold and pewter stand, I mixed a citrus medley of lemons, oranges, and limes with pink and white carnations as the centerpiece. The table is highlighted with blue and white dishware. Fresh squeezed orange juice, French-pressed coffee and sweet treats of lemon poppyseed muffins, lemon cake with lemon icing, and lemon pastries are perfect for a small brunch. A faux lemon topiary belonged to my beloved Mother and seemed a perfect addition to a citrus-themed table! You are invited to join me and my Monday Morning Blooms friends, Lidy @frenchgardenhouse Sarah @sjpa48 and Mary homeiswheretheboatsis.net by clicking the LINK in my bio!

#mondaymorningblooms🌻 #citrus #floraldesign #brunch #southernladymagazine #victoriamagazine #thecottagejournal #grandmillennial #traditionaldecor #lemons #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Welcome to Sunshine Cottage where I have been fluf Welcome to Sunshine Cottage where I have been fluffing for Valentine’s Day! For many years my Sweetheart and I have celebrated February 14th at home where it is quiet, no reservations are required, and we always have a table by the window! 

I love the traditional colors of red and pink! Frilly carnations fill a vintage Staffordshire, ‘Charlotte’ pitcher which rests on an antique Limoges plate with a velvet gold-crowned heart. The plate stack consists of a Royal Stafford ‘Asiatic pheasant’ dinner plate, American Atelier ‘Baroque’ luncheon/salad plate, Johnson Brothers, ‘Winchester’ salad plate, and a vintage pierced Bavarian rose plate! I am a huge fan of mixing colors, patterns, and textures for a collected look. 

I have joined 17 table stylists for a Valentine’s Day Blog Hop. Click the LINK in my bio to see all of the Valentine inspiration!

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Happy Tuesday! On this very cold winter’s day, I Happy Tuesday! On this very cold winter’s day, I am serving my favorite tea, Earl Grey, in the Sunshine Cottage where it is warm and cozy! The magic of dancing sunlight enhances the table that is dressed with a warm tartan plaid throw repurposed as a tablecloth! ‘Winter Fauna’ bird salad plates from Pottery Barn (many years ago and now discontinued) remind me of the birds I watch from my kitchen window during the winter season. The Grace Teaware set adds more blue and white to the Spode ‘Blue Room’ dinner plates. Sweet treats were placed on a stack of Bordallo Pinheiro plates! A darling Hummel ‘Icy Adventure’ depicts a scene of an outdoor frozen pond with a pair of sweet ice skaters, a rosy cheeked boy and girl who have fallen down on the ice. I am sharing Tea on Tuesdays with Shannon @bellebleuinteriors and Mary homeiswheretheboatis.net Link in my Bio will take you to my blog post! Stay warm and safe!

#teaontuesdays #teatime #teatimemagazine #teatimepoetry #victoriamagazine #southernladymag #pjssunshinecottage #tea #graceteaware #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy Thursday! Mid January with cold weather and Happy Thursday! Mid January with cold weather and I am thinking about my spring and summer garden! I have ordered seeds that are to arrive tomorrow…zinnias, sunflowers, and giant marigolds! On today’s blog post (LINK IN BIO) I am sharing my photo journal from 2024’s garden! Grab a cup of coffee, tea, or hot chocolate and join me.

#mygarden #gardening #cottagegarden #gardendesignmag #gardengatemagazine #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #gardener #gardeninglife #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
My precious family enjoying a rare snowfall in Ala My precious family enjoying a rare snowfall in Alabama!
Rare scenes in our Northeast Alabama Foothills! # Rare scenes in our Northeast Alabama Foothills!

#snowday #winterwonderland #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
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