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Simple + Southern Sunday No. 536

February 16, 2025~ Everyday Living, Outdoors, Simple + Southern Sunday

“Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer.”
‭‭Romans‬ ‭12‬:‭12‬ ‭ESV‬‬

My last visit here found Noccalula Falls high and dry, but this past week we were blessed with a few rainy days. I always prefer sunny days and felt somewhat cooped-up, but we definitely needed the rain. I failed to empty my rain gauge, and after the rain, we hit 20 degrees Friday night. You can easily surmise that I need a new rain gauge. At least it was my ancient plastic one and not the newer decorative garden feature!

The power of water is hard to measure I suppose, but it is said to be the most powerful force on the planet. Just a glimpse of this rushing stream from a safe spot gave me pause as I had thoughts of those unstoppable and unforgiving walls of water experienced by so many during Helene.
 

There’s something special about those plants that are  the “firsts” to give hints of the coming of spring. The firstborn and firstfruits are significant in Scripture and are important in many cultures today, as well as throughout history. These are our first daffodils. We have a very cold week ahead, with freezing nights, a couple around 15 degrees. Such unseasonal cold might slow things down a bit…us and the plants!

It takes a closer look in some cases to get an idea that hope for a new awakening has come at last. A month ago, this was a dead looking twig on a dead looking stem of a maple tree that I pass on the wildlife boardwalk.  These “firsts” look promising. They could get a shock with the coming cold but they will bounce back. 
 

I was totally surprised to find this green and growing so well. Not many days ago all was frozen and herons were walking nearby on ice. The water hyacinth is a beauty when it comes to blooms…

…but it will be mid-summer before I will find the same water’s edge looking like this. This is a throwback from July. Watching the transformation is truly amazing. The wonders of creation!
 

Appalachian Media captured this awesome nearby river scene as a freight train crossed the 100+ year old bridge. I’ve seen large framed prints of this photo in some local businesses. This was made over 8 years ago. Seeing this again, and knowing that an occasional train still crosses prompted me to have a look from a different perspective.
 

I did look both ways before venturing onto the tracks. There’s something about all the old wood and other well worn things that are visible that does make me wonder about passing on the highway below while a train crosses above. At last account, I understood that trains were extremely heavy!

I took on another perspective when I crossed the river and went underneath the wooden trusses where the tracks are overhead for a distance over land. Some of the old stubs of previous supports are still here. I really wonder how old those are? There is a lot of erosion too. There were no barricades or signs that warned me against being beneath the tracks, but I assure you I did not walk across the train bridge to get across the river. I cannot outrun a train!

Strolls through the woods this time of year can really be dull but at times something interesting is found along the path. I spotted this fungi from a distance and walked over to check it out. I didn’t notice the brown fungus until I walked much closer. Pam said the mushrooms are pretty. Maybe they aren’t technically “mushrooms”, but I agree, they have their own unique shapes and colors! These belong to a large and widespread species group of wood growing fungi.

Down the ridge at the bottom of a very steep place, the creek was shallow and not flowing. The weather had been dry for this time of year, but as you’ve already seen, that changed mid-week when a lot of rain moved in. This lush looking plant life caught my attention so I made my way closer. I told Pam I saw a plant that we used to call watercress when we would find it in creeks as boys. One of the boys said his granddaddy called it watercress, so we always called it that. I did a little research and I found out it was really known as…watercress! Don’t underestimate grandpa!

Thriving next to the watercress and just below the surface was a large area of a native aquatic plant called Marsh seedbox or Marsh purslane. Considered an invasive in Australia, but not in the U.S., some people plant it in their aquariums. I saw it listed as an herb in one source, but I have no idea of how the plant might be used as such.

This can serve as a little late Christmas cheer or perhaps very, very early greetings for 2025. Actually this holly has always caught my eye as it seems healthy and full of berries, just a pretty bush. I’ve passed it on walks for several years, but trees, bushes and vines always blocked my access and view. Winter, and some cleanup along the trail made it possible for a much better look. Sorry for the red and green but I simply thought it was a pretty sight!

Sometimes in the early morning or late afternoon I find myself gazing mainly in the sun’s direction, but in some instances it doesn’t hurt to do a 360. I immediately had a thought come to mind when I looked up…this is a soft, peaceful winter scene! It was calming and marked the closing of another blessed Valentine’s Day. We spent our Valentine evening with dinner at home and time reading old cards, enjoying old photos, and telling those stories that all started like this…”Do  you remember…..”!

You may notice a few less photos today. It has been a busy week. We celebrated our 55th Valentine’s Day together on Friday and also our first Valentine’s Day with Daniel, who was one day old! EM, EK, and WL have a little brother and we have another precious grandson! Everyone is so excited. Love is in the air! 

Have a peaceful winter week! 

“The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you; the Lord lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace.”
‭‭Numbers‬ ‭6‬:‭24‬-‭26‬ ‭(ESV‬‬)

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  1. Rita C at Panoply says

    February 16, 2025 at 7:41 AM

    Beautiful baby boy, Daniel James! Congratulations to your family!💙 Butch, thank you for the reminder of the rain gauge. I must bring mine in later today, as we are about to be hit with another polar vortex and impending snow storm. There is a lot of flooding currently in our surrounding areas. We received 4″ in the last 24 hrs, but many of our southern coalfields were hit a lot harder. I love the opening verse from Romans. Have a blessed, new week, Richardsons.

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    • Rachel Hill says

      February 16, 2025 at 8:48 AM

      Congratulations on the birth of your newest grandson. Glad everyone is doing well.

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      • Pam @ Everyday Living says

        February 16, 2025 at 4:01 PM

        Thank you Rachel. Pam has the old crud so we haven’t been able to hold the little guy yet. Maybe soon. Have a great week!
        Butch and Pam

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 16, 2025 at 3:59 PM

      Thank you Rita. We saw the weather you were having and expecting. No hints of spring in that. Stormy here last night and we lost power for a few hours but all is well, and cold. I decided to use a verse from Romans 12 each week for a few Sundays. Have a wonderful week!
      Butch and Pam

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  2. Nancy says

    February 16, 2025 at 8:50 AM

    Congratulations! What a nice Valentine’s Day gift!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 16, 2025 at 4:03 PM

      Thank you Nancy. He almost held out until Valentine but now we can celebrate two days in a row every February. Have a good week!
      Butch and Pam

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  3. Clara says

    February 16, 2025 at 9:28 AM

    Congratulations on 55 years together! Daniel James is truly a blessing! He’s adorable! Glad everyone is doing well. The falls are beautiful. Enjoyed all the pics. Have a wonderful week! Clara ❤️

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 16, 2025 at 4:06 PM

      Thank you Clara. We are truly blessed. We’ve had 55 Valentines together and if the Lord allows us to get to next Sunday we will be married 52 years. Hope you have a wonderful week!
      Butch and Pam

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  4. Dianne Sharpe says

    February 16, 2025 at 9:35 AM

    Congratulations on your new grandson James. I can attest to the power of water as we watched our beautiful Biltmore Village and the Arts district flooded with buildings totally destroyed. The other side of nature is beautiful and calming. Your photos are beautiful. Enjoy your new grandson. Much love to you both.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 16, 2025 at 4:12 PM

      Thank you Dianne. We think about NC and the other places that were so devastated every time we see water raging. Water, essential to life yet so powerful in ways that take life. Nature’s two sides for sure. Have a wonderful week!
      Butch and Pam

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  5. Ruth Miller says

    February 16, 2025 at 9:39 AM

    Congratulations and God bless little Daniel. Well not so little-9 pounds!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 16, 2025 at 4:16 PM

      Thank you Ruth. 9 pounds looks little to us because we’ve not had a tiny one in almost 4 years, but I guess as newborns go he isn’t so little. Have a pleasant week!
      Butch and Pam

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  6. Della says

    February 16, 2025 at 10:37 AM

    Congratulations to your family. I’m sure the girls and Will are excited to welcome Daniel. You two of course, isn’t being a grandparent so much fun?

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 16, 2025 at 4:19 PM

      Thank you Della. Grand parenting is fun and tiring. Yes,sisters and now big brother are all very excited. WL thought Daniel would be big enough to play immediately. Have a great week!
      Butch and Pam

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  7. Heritage Hall says

    February 16, 2025 at 10:53 AM

    How thrilled you all must be to finally welcome Daniel James into your loving fold…especially WL who
    will now have a tractor playmate with whom to cavort. Each of your pictures is thought-provoking…
    especially that bridge and its aging prospects. The rushing falls just resonate their power, especially
    considering that dry surface not too long ago… Your time celebrating St. Valentine’s Day sounds ideal…
    so much gratitude to be expressed. Thank you for these continued insights and inspirations not readily
    found elsewhere. Your Sunday strolls are very special. Blessed Sabbath and Happy Anniversary.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 16, 2025 at 4:28 PM

      Thank you Mary. Next Sunday is our actual wedding anniversary (52) and I wrote a quote about the qualifications to become a modern day saint but I’m yet to convince Pam that I should use it in next Sunday’s post . WL thought he would have an instant tractor playmate but has realized quickly that there will be a time of waiting. Have a blessed week!
      Butch and Pam

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  8. The French Hutch says

    February 16, 2025 at 11:16 AM

    Congratulations and congratulations, on your anniversary and grandson! Love the name James, our son’s name as well. Beautiful scripture and amazing photos from your walks. Daffodils are my favorite, maybe because they are the first soft new hope. Wishing you and Pam a beautiful and blessed week ahead..,,

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 16, 2025 at 4:43 PM

      Thank you Emily. As long as God allows we will have busy February’s. Grands birthday, Valentine’s and then anniversary on the 23rd. We’ll be busy with our own card making. You are correct about those daffodils, they bring promise. Have a wonderful week!
      Butch and Pam

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  9. Alice Genzlinger says

    February 16, 2025 at 11:34 AM

    Welcome Daniel James. This is no little baby! 9 lbs of a baby boy. Whew! Watch out WL. You are going to have competition with that John Deere. What a wonderful gift for Valentines Day straight from Heaven. We have an abundance of purslane here. It’s fun to eat. Straight from where God planted it. Watercress there may not be watercress here. Edible? I don’t know but I can safely say there is neither under all the snow we have here. Have a blessed week with all the love you hay surrounds you.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 16, 2025 at 4:34 PM

      Thank you Alice. I believe the watercress is the same and it is edible and supposed to be very healthy and good. WL did think Daniel would arrive ready to play tractors but now realizes it will be a while. Have a blessed week!
      Butch and Pam

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  10. Jenna says

    February 16, 2025 at 11:41 AM

    Oh goodness!!!What a beautiful baby!! Welcome Daniel James!! You are truly blessed, congratulations!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 16, 2025 at 4:49 PM

      Thank you Jenna. We are blessed and excited about Daniel. We can’t keep up with 3 so we best be adopting a workout program. Have a great week!
      Butch and Pam

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  11. Sue says

    February 16, 2025 at 1:06 PM

    Such a wonderful scripture to carry us into a new week, an interesting stroll showcasing the wonders of creation, and the blessing of Daniel James’s arrival! So very happy for you all!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 16, 2025 at 4:51 PM

      Thank you Sue. Daniel is another blessing among many. Creation is wonderful and truly a wonder. Have a pleasant week!
      Butch and Pam

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  12. Judy Gilliland says

    February 16, 2025 at 1:55 PM

    Oh, how wonderful!! Congratulations to all of you on the blessed birth of Daniel. I know your cup overflows and I’m so happy for you. Much love and hugs, Judy

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 16, 2025 at 4:52 PM

      Thank you Judy. We are excited and truly blessed. Hope you are doing well. Have a blessed week!
      Butch and Pam

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  13. Leslie Anne Tarabella says

    February 16, 2025 at 3:22 PM

    What a sweet blessing to receive on the eve of a sweet day! – And one more thing, that train photo dead-eye on the tracks makes me nervous! Whew! Get down from there! Congratulations on such a dear little boy.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 16, 2025 at 4:58 PM

      Thank you Leslie Anne. February will even be a busier month of celebration for us now. I will stay off the tracks and hope I’ll be around next February for all the occasions. Have a wonderful week!
      Butch and Pam

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  14. jeanie says

    February 16, 2025 at 4:31 PM

    You’re seeing some remarkable early spring bits. There’s so much to love but those tree fungi have my vote for coolest ever!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 16, 2025 at 5:02 PM

      Thank you Jeanie. It is amazing that a fungus can have such unique design and color. So many varieties of the stuff. Hope you have a great week!
      Butch and Pam

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  15. Kim says

    February 16, 2025 at 6:35 PM

    Oh, what a beautiful baby boy! Welcome Daniel James and you all must be so excited. Butch, those railway tracks make me very nervous I have to admit lol and I certainly wouldn’t want to be on the highway underneath either when a train was passing. Yikes. The fungi have very interesting shapes for sure and the waterfalls are gorgeous. Seeing the daffodils instills hope that spring is on the way – at least somewhere. Congratulations on your 55th Valentine’s Day spent together and I wish you both a wonderful week ahead. Stay warm.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 16, 2025 at 6:42 PM

      Thank you Kim. We know you are probably very ready for spring but it’s still a ways off. The daffodils are tough winter warriors. We are actually having some very cold ( for us) weather this week and even a mention of snow Wednesday. We are excited about Daniel for sure. Hope you have a great week!
      Butch and Pam

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  16. Roxanne Bernard says

    February 16, 2025 at 8:09 PM

    Welcome to the world, Daniel! May God always bless you. I can already see the family resemblance!! Butch, the same thing happened to my glass rain gauge even though I had made a mental note to bring it inside before the freeze. Woke up this morning before 6 AM to all sorts of tornado messages going off and massive lightning/thunder/rain which I saw came up from your direction. By church time it was all gone, skies are blue, and we may have snow again on Wednesday!! Congratulations on the expansion of your beautiful family.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 16, 2025 at 8:20 PM

      Thank you Roxanne. We had some wind and lost power for a while but nothing major here. A lot of damage around the area though. All clouds here today and we too are hearing about possible snow on Wednesday. We are very excited about another little boy. All evened out. Have a great week!
      Butch and Pam

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  17. Kari Rogers-Miller says

    February 16, 2025 at 10:37 PM

    Thank you for your lovely trip visiting beautiful and interesting sights. I love to look at all the beautiful clouds, sunrises and sunsets. The skies are so beautiful. Congratulations on the new baby….one more little grand to love and spoil. I hope Pam gets over her crud…I always call it the creeping crud because it just creeps around touching so many of us. LOL Have a Blessed day and beginning of a new week. God is so good and amazing isn’t He?

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 16, 2025 at 10:44 PM

      Thank you Kari. We will continue spoiling I’m almost certain. God is truly indescribable. Pam wants rid of the creeping crud (we like your definition) because she’s ready to hold that little boy. Have a blessed week!
      Butch and Pam

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  18. Linda Stoll says

    February 17, 2025 at 9:49 AM

    Oh that little Daniel is a beauty! What a heaven sent Valentine’s Day gift to you all. I am so delighted, Pam …
    xo

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 17, 2025 at 10:25 AM

      Thank you Linda. We do indeed all have heavenly blessings to celebrate. We hope you have a delightful week!
      Butch and Pam

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  19. Karla Hale says

    February 17, 2025 at 9:49 AM

    Dear Butch and Pam,
    Congratulations on another grandboy! How darling!!! I’m sure the siblings are “over the moon”, too! Of course his was my favorite photo! 🙂
    I couldn’t wait to get to my PC this morning to comment. I enjoyed this article, the amazing photos and memories. From the early signs of spring to the watercress (we used to pick it to eat as Mom loves it)–from the train (partial since my son works for BNSF now!) to he peaceful winter scene (Do I see a large nest in that tree?).
    I’m so sorry for the “crud”. It’s awful.
    Are you all safe from the weather devastation in Alabama? Was it close to you? I was praying as soon as I heard about it.
    Yesterday my twin, B.I.L. and I spent the day with my parents. We are expecting up to a foot of snow tomorrow.
    After recovering from the “crud” and continuing bone pain, I’m feeling good to have support from palliative care (even a nurse to check in every 4-6 weeks). I’m praying the weather doesn’t impact my return to the NCI March 2-5th.
    God is good through it all. That peace you write about can only be found in HIM and our Creator’s beautiful nature. And to look upon little Daniel’s face. How can one not believe in our Almighty God?
    God bless you all. My prayers and love never cease!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 17, 2025 at 10:31 AM

      Thank you Karla. Most of the storm damage was some miles away, nothing major near us, just some trees down mostly. The grands are very excited about baby brother. That lone nest looking sight in the tree is actually mistletoe. We saw you would be getting snow. Might even be a little here on Wednesday. We are much ready for spring to arrive. Have a blessed week!
      Butch and Pam

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  20. Mary says

    February 17, 2025 at 2:25 PM

    Congratulations on the sweet addition to your family and beautiful grandson Daniel! He’s a keeper at 9 lbs! I know everyone must be thrilled to have a baby brother. Hope your daughter-in-love and mom is do well. Best wishes to their household. ♥

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 17, 2025 at 6:00 PM

      Thank you, Mary. The girls are smitten with Daniel and everyone is doing well!

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  21. Cheryl King says

    February 17, 2025 at 3:42 PM

    Daniel James is my son’s name, I believe I will watch yours with special eagerness! Congrats to the proud parents, siblings, and grands. You are truly blessed.

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 17, 2025 at 5:03 PM

      Thank you Cheryl and thanks for sharing about the name. We are blessed and hope you have a blessed week!
      Butch and Pam

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  22. Nancy Ruegg says

    February 17, 2025 at 5:38 PM

    Love these musings on the sights you encounter on your walks. Those bowed daffodils reminded me of those in our area a few years back when a cold snap seemed to do them in. But when the weather warmed up, they perked up! A lesson in revitalization–don’t give up and turn toward to Sun/Son! / Congratulations on the new grandson! Such fun to come!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 17, 2025 at 6:37 PM

      Thank you Nancy. Our daffodils will get to take on some cold nights ahead but we love what you said about looking to the Son. The ultimate and only redemption. And the daffodils will be ok too. Have a wonderful week!
      Butch and Pam

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  23. Awakening Wonders says

    February 17, 2025 at 6:33 PM

    Congratulations on the arrival of sweet Daniel! Watching him grow will be an adventure of a lifetime! Every little moment spent with him will be a picture-perfect snapshot I hope you will share with me!
    It appears nature is your sanctuary and happy place – keep enjoying and capturing the special moments!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 17, 2025 at 6:40 PM

      Thank you Mary. Outdoors is definitely my go-to place. We are thinking the grands will be nature lovers but one never knows. It won’t be because they aren’t being exposed. Well, not yet for Daniel, but soon. Have a great week!
      Butch and Pam

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  24. Nancy says

    February 17, 2025 at 10:25 PM

    Congratulations on another precious grandson! Daniel is a welcomed addition to your wonderful family! I bet the little ones are so excited!
    What a wonderful week you have had!
    Let the fun begin!
    Happy New Week to you!

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  25. Nancy says

    February 17, 2025 at 10:25 PM

    Congratulations on another precious grandson! Daniel is a welcomed addition to your wonderful family! I bet the little ones are so excited!
    What a wonderful week you have had!
    Let the fun begin!
    Happy New Week to you!

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 17, 2025 at 10:49 PM

      Thank you Nancy. We and the little ones are very excited. The sisters are old enough to think they are little mothers and WL thought Daniel would arrive ready to play. It was a wonderful week and we hope this is a great week for you!
      Butch and Pam

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  26. Edith ( Penny) says

    February 18, 2025 at 2:14 AM

    What a February this has turned out to be for y’all!! Congratulations on your newest grandson & a fabulous addition to the family too!!
    Also, congrats on your 52nd Anniversary, As well as celebrating 55 Valetine’s Day’s ‼️

    We welcome Spring here in Florida, although we have had lots more chilly days than ever before. But we welcome sunshine as well as the needed rain too! Thanks for always keeping us updated in your lives & your nature walks. We do miss Alabama so much & have fond memories of it❤️

    Prayers for your sweet bride, Pam for a thorough recovery. I am sure you are spoiling her & making her rest😍✝️🙏❤️

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 18, 2025 at 9:38 AM

      Thank you Penny. We are also ready for spring, another cold week this week making us all the more ready. Pam is better and hopefully will be spending time with the grands today. Thanks for your prayers. Have a great week!
      Butch and Pam

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  27. kitty says

    February 18, 2025 at 9:04 PM

    Congratulations on the blessing of Daniel James! What a beautiful baby boy to welcome into your family. 💙

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 18, 2025 at 10:16 PM

      Thank you Kitty. We are excited about another boy. Even’s it out at 2 & 2. Hope you have a wonderful week!
      Butch and Pam

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  28. Barbara says

    February 20, 2025 at 10:43 AM

    Dear Butch & Pam,
    Congratulations on your grandson!!! He’s a keeper. 🙂 That’s exciting that he is an almost Valentine’s baby! A good time to have a birthday party each year. Also, congratulations on 52 blissful years together!!!!! It is amazing how time flies. <3

    Warm hugs to you both and I hope the rain doesn’t wash SC away. Charles told me last night that there were historic snows in the mountains the past day or so (Feb 19/20th). I hope the folks recovering from the floods are doing alright. I follow a few YouTubers from up there now. <3

    Barb 🙂

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 20, 2025 at 10:25 PM

      Thank you Barbara. February has turned into occasion and party month for us. Excuses to eat cake. We had a few snow flurries this morning but mostly just very cold now for February. We did see where there was major snow and floods to our north. Have a good Friday and weekend!
      Butch and Pam

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  29. Tea With Jennifer says

    February 21, 2025 at 7:10 PM

    Awww, congratulations on the arrival of No. 4 grandchild, Daniel! How very exciting & around Valentine’s day too! He’s very cute indeed!
    A lovely post Pam & Butch.
    Blessings, Jennifer

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      February 22, 2025 at 7:25 AM

      Thank you, Jennifer. He is a blessing!

      Butch and Pam

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  30. Cheryl Smith says

    March 2, 2025 at 12:08 PM

    Oh, how precious! Congratulations to all of you on the birth of little Daniel! Two girls and two boys! Such a perfect family! May God continue to bless all of you!🙏❤🤗

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    • Pam @ Everyday Living says

      March 2, 2025 at 6:55 PM

      Thank you Cheryl. Yes, little Daniel evens things out for us in the girl, boy department. We are excited. Hope you have a great week!
      Butch and Pam

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With glorious weather, the table next to our woodl With glorious weather, the table next to our woodlands was perfect for teatime! It is Tea on Tuesdays with blogging friends Mary and Kitty. The table is enhanced by views toward the mountain, woodlands, and the large Snowball Viburnum. The verdant rye grass appears as a green carpet that has been spread for Easter! Vintage Fitz and Floyd ‘Herb Garden’ teapots, sugar and creamer, and oval tray are suited for springtime with their embossed bows, vegetables, and words. A bouquet of Kwanzan Cherry blossoms add more spring color to the setting. 

I am serving a simple teatime with Earl Grey tea, savory egg salad filled phyllo cups, and sweet vanilla cupcakes with cream cheese icing, and macarons! A favorite cottage rose tablecloth and Essential napkins are by April Cornell.

We are most blessed to celebrate the resurrection of Christ, being the source of new life, yet new life that is eternal. The beauty of this spring will again give way to another autumn in a few months, but the significance of His empty tomb will never change! Wishing you a blessed Holy Week ✝️ Click the link in my bio to view the blog!

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Happy Thursday! I love setting a table next to our Happy Thursday! I love setting a table next to our woodlands and this is the first one of the season, an Easter/Spring table! I love all the sweet bunny decorations, but Easter is so much more. We celebrate Easter because of the resurrection of Jesus Christ.  His bodily resurrection enables all those who choose to follow Him to have assured victory over our greatest enemy…death!

 I look forward each year when some of my favorite blooms display their amazing beauty in our garden. Snowball viburnum in its full glory with large creamy white blooms. Climbing Lady Banks Rose is covered in hundreds of miniature yellow blooms cascading to the ground. An old-fashioned Bridal Wreath Spirea with its branches arching to the ground in a fountain-like growth habit is loaded with showy double white flowers in clusters of three to six that resemble a bride’s wreath. I still claim the Kwanzan Cherry tree even though it is now on our son’s property. Its ruffled pink double pink blossoms are some of my favorite blooms. All four of these blooms make up an arrangement with a few tulips from the grocery store. 

A fluffle of moss bunnies hopped up to the picnic table. A ‘Charming’ tablecloth with  Mary Lake-Thompson napkins and Williams Sonoma enchanting ‘Famille Rose’ bunny plates!

#eastertablescape #springtablescape #alfresco #springtime #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #aprilcornell #aprilcornellbrandambassador #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #williamssonoma
I often shared my sweet Daddy and his stories on m I often shared my sweet Daddy and his stories on my blog. My precious Daddy passed away peacefully on March 26th at the age of 94, surrounded by his beloved family! He was born during the depths of the Great Depression. That may have been part of the reason he was always content and loved the simple things. 

“A good name is to be chosen rather than great riches, and favor is better than silver or gold.” Proverbs 22:1

After high school graduation he signed to play professional baseball with the Cleveland Indians Organization. His baseball career was cut short when he was drafted in the army. He was seriously wounded in the Korean War and was awarded a Purple Heart and two bronze stars. Upon returning home, he married my beautiful Mother and they shared 54 wonderful years together before she passed away suddenly. 

My brother and I grew up in a Christian home, bathed in love, calm, security, and contentment, under the care of the two finest parents anyone could have. Daddy was known as Pawpaw to his three grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren. 

My heart is broken, he was the best Daddy a girl could have. I know he is present with the Lord and I rejoice in that promise, knowing too, that my Mother is also in the eternal presence of our Heavenly Father. 

For more of my Daddy’s story, click the link in my bio.
Happy first day of Spring! One of my favorite bloo Happy first day of Spring! One of my favorite blooming trees of springtime is the Kwanzan Cherry! I love pairing them with my Snowball Viburnum blooms to make a lovely flower arrangement!

Wishing you a most beautiful day!

#cherryblossom #springtime #springinthesouth #kwanzancherry #mygarden #southerngarden #victoriamagazine #southernladymag #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Welcome to Sunshine Cottage and the March edition Welcome to Sunshine Cottage and the March edition of Tea on Tuesdays. My inspiration for teatime is the beautiful linens from @april.cornell With the celebration of their 50th anniversary, many Heritage Prints from the archives have returned. Eden is one of the beautiful patterns that has returned. It is a soft purple paradise where butterflies float, roses bloom, and soft sage leaves levitate. As an April Cornell Brand Ambassador, I was gifted these gorgeous linens! I have been a collector of @april.cornell linens for many years…the floral patterns resonate with my love of English Country. 

I am serving my favorite, Earl Gray tea, from an Eileen’s Reserve teapot. Teacups by Grace Teaware and vintage Rose Chintz salad plates by Johnson Brothers add more floral patterns to the mix. Japanese Magnolia blooms were cut from my garden and placed in a lilypad teapot!

Mary @ homeiswheretheboatis.net and I welcome Nancy @nance_endless_summer as our special guest! LINK in bio for the blog posts. Have a wonderful day!

#teaontuesdays #teatime #aprilcornell #southernladymagazine #teatimemagazine #teatimepoetry_ #homeiswheretheboatis #victoriamagazine #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #englishcountrystyle #aprilcornellbrandambassador
Happy St. Patrick’s Day ☘️ A few photos from Happy St. Patrick’s Day ☘️ A few photos from our visit to ☘️ Ireland, The Emerald Isle and a tablescape in our Appalachian Foothills ☘️

“May the raindrops fall lightly on your brow.
 May the soft winds freshen your spirit.
 May the sunshine brighten your heart.
 May the burdens of the day rest lightly 
 upon you.
 And may God enfold you in His love.”

#everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #stpatricksday
It felt like spring today with a high in the upper It felt like spring today with a high in the upper 70’s. Do you ever forget what you have? I do, so I compiled a partial catalog of my teapots. I have included some here and more on my blog. Click the LINK in my profile to see more! 

#teapot #teapotcollector #teapots #teaontuesdays #teatime #teatimemagazine #teatimepoetry_ #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy Monday! With March bringing the promise of s Happy Monday! With March bringing the promise of spring and looking forward to our garden awakening, I planted a blooming bulb garden in my Sunshine Cottage! The butcher block countertop under a window, was a perfect place for a mini garden. Muscari, hyacinths, tulips, and daffodils danced in the sunlight and filled the cottage with an amazing fragrance! 

It is Monday Morning Blooms with friends Lidy @frenchgardenhouse Shannon @bellebleuinteriors and Mary homeiswheretheboatis.net

LINK in bio to view blog posts

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Hello friends, I don’t know about you, but I am Hello friends, I don’t know about you, but I am ready for spring. Meteorological Spring begins this Saturday, March 1 and I am going with it. I have pulled spring flower arrangements from my blog archives. I hope you enjoy the flower therapy! You can see all of them by clicking on the  LINK in bio.

#springflowers #springflowerarrangement #springtime #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #flowermagazine #aprilcornell #gardener #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy Tuesday! Welcome to the Sunshine Cottage whe Happy Tuesday! Welcome to the Sunshine Cottage where it is warm and cozy on this cold February day. It is Tea on Tuesdays and I have set a tea table with the “Blue Roses” collection that was a collaboration between @victoriamagazine and @april.cornell The exclusive porcelain pattern and matching linens have been used many times and I still enjoy their blue and white beauty. Instead of fresh flowers, porcelain ones require no arranging. Sweet treats pair perfectly with a traditional English Breakfast tea. I am joining friends Sarah @sjpa48 and Mary homeiswheretheboatis.net

#teaontuesdays #teatime #victoriamagazine #aprilcornell #southernladymag #teatimemagazine #thecottagejournal #teatimepoetry #porcelainflowers #pjssunshinecottage #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy Thursday and Valentine’s Eve! In celebrati Happy Thursday and Valentine’s Eve! In celebration of the day, I pulled images from my blog archives for inspiration❤️💗❤️

Wishing everyone a lovely Valentine’s Day ❤️

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Happy first Monday of February! After so many cold Happy first Monday of February! After so many cold days, we are experiencing a tease of spring with a 73 degree day that is forecast. After the gray and cloudy days, I needed a dose of color and decided to set a colorful citrus themed brunch! Using a bird gold and pewter stand, I mixed a citrus medley of lemons, oranges, and limes with pink and white carnations as the centerpiece. The table is highlighted with blue and white dishware. Fresh squeezed orange juice, French-pressed coffee and sweet treats of lemon poppyseed muffins, lemon cake with lemon icing, and lemon pastries are perfect for a small brunch. A faux lemon topiary belonged to my beloved Mother and seemed a perfect addition to a citrus-themed table! You are invited to join me and my Monday Morning Blooms friends, Lidy @frenchgardenhouse Sarah @sjpa48 and Mary homeiswheretheboatsis.net by clicking the LINK in my bio!

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Welcome to Sunshine Cottage where I have been fluf Welcome to Sunshine Cottage where I have been fluffing for Valentine’s Day! For many years my Sweetheart and I have celebrated February 14th at home where it is quiet, no reservations are required, and we always have a table by the window! 

I love the traditional colors of red and pink! Frilly carnations fill a vintage Staffordshire, ‘Charlotte’ pitcher which rests on an antique Limoges plate with a velvet gold-crowned heart. The plate stack consists of a Royal Stafford ‘Asiatic pheasant’ dinner plate, American Atelier ‘Baroque’ luncheon/salad plate, Johnson Brothers, ‘Winchester’ salad plate, and a vintage pierced Bavarian rose plate! I am a huge fan of mixing colors, patterns, and textures for a collected look. 

I have joined 17 table stylists for a Valentine’s Day Blog Hop. Click the LINK in my bio to see all of the Valentine inspiration!

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Happy Tuesday! On this very cold winter’s day, I Happy Tuesday! On this very cold winter’s day, I am serving my favorite tea, Earl Grey, in the Sunshine Cottage where it is warm and cozy! The magic of dancing sunlight enhances the table that is dressed with a warm tartan plaid throw repurposed as a tablecloth! ‘Winter Fauna’ bird salad plates from Pottery Barn (many years ago and now discontinued) remind me of the birds I watch from my kitchen window during the winter season. The Grace Teaware set adds more blue and white to the Spode ‘Blue Room’ dinner plates. Sweet treats were placed on a stack of Bordallo Pinheiro plates! A darling Hummel ‘Icy Adventure’ depicts a scene of an outdoor frozen pond with a pair of sweet ice skaters, a rosy cheeked boy and girl who have fallen down on the ice. I am sharing Tea on Tuesdays with Shannon @bellebleuinteriors and Mary homeiswheretheboatis.net Link in my Bio will take you to my blog post! Stay warm and safe!

#teaontuesdays #teatime #teatimemagazine #teatimepoetry #victoriamagazine #southernladymag #pjssunshinecottage #tea #graceteaware #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy Thursday! Mid January with cold weather and Happy Thursday! Mid January with cold weather and I am thinking about my spring and summer garden! I have ordered seeds that are to arrive tomorrow…zinnias, sunflowers, and giant marigolds! On today’s blog post (LINK IN BIO) I am sharing my photo journal from 2024’s garden! Grab a cup of coffee, tea, or hot chocolate and join me.

#mygarden #gardening #cottagegarden #gardendesignmag #gardengatemagazine #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #gardener #gardeninglife #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
My precious family enjoying a rare snowfall in Ala My precious family enjoying a rare snowfall in Alabama!
Rare scenes in our Northeast Alabama Foothills! # Rare scenes in our Northeast Alabama Foothills!

#snowday #winterwonderland #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
On this cold, gray, and wintry day I am sharing fl On this cold, gray, and wintry day I am sharing flower therapy to hopefully brighten your day! On the blog today is a review of my 2024 Monday Morning Blooms! Joining me are my friends, Lidy @frenchgardenhouse and Mary homeiswheretheboatis.net 

CLICK LINK IN BIO for blog post! I hope everyone stays safe and warm!

#mondaymorningblooms🌻 #floralarrangement #flowerarrangement #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #flowertherapy #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #tablesetting #tablescapes
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