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Tablescape Tuesday: “Deer” Santa

December 6, 2016~ Christmas, Food & Entertaining, Holidays, Tablescape Tuesday

 “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life”
‭‭John‬ ‭3:16

Christmas is a time of joy, celebration, and for me, it is a time to pull out my many collections!  As I said yesterday, my Christmas style is comprised of years and years of buying pieces to add and sweet friends & family helping me along the way!  I treasure each and every one because they each remind me of a story of that special person or place connected to it!  And today, I am going to give you a little glimpse into two of those stories!  

The four Fitz and Floyd Santa Clauses that make up our centerpiece are gifts from my Sunday School classes from years past.  Many ladies have been a part of classes that I have taught through the years and each one is so very special to me!  Each year as I unpack the collection, I am reminded of the faces that came together each Sunday as we shared our hearts, our concerns, and our laughter.  The center Santa cookie jar, although not F&F, is still a very much treasured keepsake!  The deer place card holders are so special because our sweet chosen daughter, Katy gave those to me a couple of years ago.  They are ceramic ornaments that she found at Lowe’s and she embellished them by painting the antlers gold.  She has given so much of herself to our family and we are grateful that God placed her into our lives four years ago.  

Something about this season just sparks a wonder in me…a wonder that no other season quite can.  And I hope it does for you, too!  For me, it’s the collections and the memories attached to this most wonderful time of the year.  Maybe for you, it’s seeing it through the eyes of a child as they hear the Christmas story for the first time.  Or maybe it’s the memory of writing your letter to Santa, hoping it gets to the North Pole on time.  Pull up a seat at our table, there is room for you!  I hope you find yourself in wonder and awe this Christmas season!


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Three of the Fitz and Floyd Santas are pitchers…

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Christmas Home Tour: All Is Bright

December 5, 2016~ Christmas, Decorating, Holidays, Home Tours

“For to us a child is born, to us a son is given;
and the government shall be upon his shoulder,
    and his name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God,
    Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace”
Isaiah 9:6

Hello, and welcome to our Everyday Living!  Whether it’s your first time or if you’re a daily visitor, you are always welcome here with us!  You will find a little bit of everything on our blog…travel, recipes, and of course decorating!  I hope you are enjoying the Blog Hop and will visit all of the talented bloggers who are participating…they are all listed at the bottom of the post!  A special thank you to Chloe at Celebrate & Decorate for being an amazing hostess!

You can also see more of my mantel as featured on Wayfair here.

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Christmas is the one season that takes me to a place of nostalgia.  The smells, the sights, and even the sounds of the season take me to a place of joy and happiness!  As I unpack our decorations each year, my mind is flooded with memories that are attached to each one.  I love things that tell a story and evoke a memory…which is why my Christmas style is one of collections and sentiment!  As I unwrap my collection of colorful Radko ornaments, I remember the first two that my Mother gave to me that began my beloved collection many years ago.  And above all, the true meaning for our Christmas season is awakened in me as I carefully place my nativities throughout our home….

In addition to my many collections that fill our home during this time of year, you will notice one more thing…I love color!  In a sea of white (which I love!) I am still a girl who loves living in color!  Years of collections bring years of color…color that reminds me that Christmas is here, and in our home, All Is Bright!

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The Post Of Christmas Past

December 2, 2016~ Christmas, Holidays

“In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.”
‭‭John‬ ‭1:1‬ ‭

It’s been said that today is tomorrow’s yesterday.  Certainly a statement that uniquely reminds me of how fleeting life is and how important every moment of this day should be.  Isn’t every moment part of the making of a memory? I’m always in a hurry and that’s not necessarily a good thing.

Let’s face it, a large part of our conversation as well as our thoughts are about the past.  Memories are so precious and one of our greatest possessions.  Memories can be sad and are often heartbreaking.  And we are all aware of the fact that our ability to remember fades with age and even fails those who are young sometimes.  This is a hard reality that affects many of our families.  I will not overlook this fact, but instead simply choose not to dwell there.

Memories come in all shapes and sizes but the best ones are usually the simple, the small, the personal, and even a silly thing or two (or maybe 200).  An occasion, a holiday, a funny, a friend, a story (possibly embellished over time), food, a photo, a hair-do, a song, a special item or memorabilia, and on and on we could go….! Maybe it was the time someone smiled when you needed a smile or someone called wanting nothing more than to say “I love you”.

We are sharing a few Christmas memories of our family that we cherish with you today.  At the same time I am hoping to be more mindful of the fact that I am making memories as a part of my everyday living.  We cannot control a lot of things, but as much as possible within me may I choose to make fond memories today and every day.  Part of a lyric I remember says “all too soon the future becomes the past”.
-Butch
 
One of our favorite little get-aways was December 2011, when we made last minute plans to visit the Biltmore at Christmas.  We stayed at the beautiful Inn on Biltmore Estate which was perfect.  We booked the candlelight tour of the mansion and it was magical, and of course, we had to get a photo.


Every year as I unpack the ornaments, memories of family, friends, travel, and special times flood my mind.

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A big southern welcome, y’all!  We are Butch & Pam and we are so glad you landed here at Everyday Living. If you stay around here long enough, you’ll learn that we are into a lot of different hobbies. You may find Pam putting together a tablescape, our travels, pullin’ weeds in the garden, and a variety of other things…just sharing our everyday living with you.  We both love reading and trying our hand at photography, but best of all…and our favorite – We are “Da”and“PJ” to 4 precious grandchildren! Butch (sometimes referred to as Renaissance Man, or RM) does our Sunday posts. Thank you for stopping by!

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Happy December…it truly is the happiest time of th Happy December…it truly is the happiest time of the year! I am sharing this merry table that was inspired by @april.cornell Victorian Christmas tablecloth! As an April Cornell brand ambassador I received the beautiful tablecloth and lovely Essential blue napkins. The red and white checkered top lends itself to classic casual elegance. The lovely snowy village on the border of the cloth came to life with a couple of snowy wood slice chargers that are topped with tiny little village shops that my beloved Mother gave me many years ago. They hold a special place in my heart. The salad plates depict Christmas Village scenes and complement the cloth. An easy centerpiece of fresh fruit is nestled atop fresh greens and placed in a Natale bowl by @arteitalicacrownlinen I have joined 17 table stylists for a Christmas Tablescape Blog Hop. Click the link in bio to see all of the ideas and inspiration!

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Happy September and meteorological fall! “Breaking Happy September and meteorological fall! “Breaking free from the grips of a lingering summer, and gaining freedom to embrace an anxious autumn, requires a September.” ~Butch Richardson

Autumn is my favorite season and my favorite time to set tables in my garden! I am sharing two tablescapes using the same @aprilcornell ‘Meridian’ tablecloth (one of my favorites) and faux leather chargers, but changing the other elements on the table! It is so easy to change a few things and have a different look! 

Table 1 photos 1-5 Meridian tablecloth, Spode ‘woodland’ dishware, quilted floral placemats, MacKenzie-Childs Flower Market vase with dahlias, chaste tree blooms, plus autumn fire sedum, and acrylic tortoise flatware. 

Table 2 - photos 6-9 Meridian tablecloth and napkins, hammered copper vase filled with dahlias and surrounded by apples, Fostoria Jamestown stemware, vintage ‘Harvest Time’ dishware by Johnson Brothers, and copper flatware! 

Click the link in my bio to read the blog post!

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#southernladymag #victoriamagazine
Welcome to the July edition of Tea on Tuesdays! It Welcome to the July edition of Tea on Tuesdays! It is so hot with a triple digit heat index that iced tea was definitely in order. We have a bumper crop of blueberries 🫐🫐🫐 so  blueberry tea and blueberry treats were perfect for teatime in our garden!  Zinnias are blooming and were begging to be featured on the table They are also in bloom on the @aprilcornell tablecloth! 

Sweet friends Shannon @bellebleuinteriors  and Mary homeiswheretheboatis.net have joined me. By clicking the link in my bio, you can see all three tea tables.

“A big glass of sweet iced tea will not solve the world’s problems, but it does make me forget they exist until the glass is empty!”
~Butch Richardson

#mygarden 
#zinnias 
#blueberries 
#teatime 
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#thecottagejournal 
#aprilcornell
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#victoriamagazine 
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Happy Tuesday! I am a day late sharing Monday Morn Happy Tuesday! I am a day late sharing Monday Morning Blooms. The theme for the July edition is Summer Living! Living in the country, our summer days are filled with outdoor chores, one of which is gardening! My ‘Little Lamb’ panicled hydrangeas are in full bloom and are the star of my simple table setting! The basket holding the hydrangeas is very sentimental. It belonged to my beloved Mother who kept her journals and devotional books in the basket. I often picked up the books and journals to read while visiting my sweet Daddy. Since my Daddy passed away in March, my brother and I are cleaning out our parents home. I just knew the basket was coming home with me! My precious Mother would have loved seeing it filled with flowers! A vintage tablecloth, @april.cornell ‘Eden’ napkins, Portmeirion ‘Botanic Garden’ dinner plates and stemware from Tuesday Morning (many years ago) complete the table!

I joined Sarah @sjpa48 and Mary homeiswheretheboatis.net for Monday Morning Blooms. To read all three blogs on Summer Living, click the link in my bio.

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Happy July! 2025 is half over, and where did it go Happy July! 2025 is half over, and where did it go? I am celebrating the red, white, and blue with a table set in the garden with a couple of treats and sweet iced tea for this hot summer day. Precious memories are attached to the checked tablecloth. My beloved Mother prepared Sunday lunch every week until she passed away. Each Sunday was a feast comparable to Thanksgiving. During the summer months,  she often used this checked cloth. More delicious meals than I could count have been served on this cloth! 

Happy 4th of July❤️🤍💙

#everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #4thofjuly #redwhiteandblue #summertablescape #patriotictablescape #southernliving
Happy Sunday, join me for a walk in our June Garde Happy Sunday, join me for a walk in our June Garden! 

@southernlivingmag @southernladymag @victoriamagazine @thecottagejournal 

#my garden #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #southernlivingmag #southernladymag #thecottagejournal
Happy Wednesday! My favorite place to set a summer Happy Wednesday! My favorite place to set a summer table is in my garden. I decided the table should be simple to allow the hydrangeas to be the star! I always love sharing a ‘special something’ on a table setting that is sentimental and has wonderful memories attached like the majolica pitcher that belonged to my beloved Mother. A beautiful blue and white tablecloth by @april.cornell for @victoriamagazine was a surprise from my sweet husband and also included the ‘blue roses’ tea set which was a part of the limited edition when it was first introduced a few years ago. The Sur La Table floral-patterned earthenware was inspired by London’s Chelsea Flower Show in collaboration with artist, April Cornell. Vintage hobnail milk glass stemware was purchased at the Longest Yard Sale. Sometimes I just enjoy a simple table! 

I joined 16 table stylists for a summer tablescape blog hop. Click the link in the bio to see all of the summer tables!

Wishing you a joy-filled day!

#victoriamagazine #aprilcornell #aprilcornellbrandambassador #southernladymag #summertable #hydrangeas #thecottagejournal #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #mygarden #gardening
Happy Tuesday! I am late posting Monday Morning Bl Happy Tuesday! I am late posting Monday Morning Blooms. I love setting a table in the garden where God’s creation is on full display! A lovely muted April Cornell tablecloth mimics the colors of the Macrophylla and Arborescens hydrangeas. Beautiful hand-painted Crown Ducal salad plates feature different flowers including hydrangeas. 

I joined fell garden enthusiasts, Lidy @frenchgardenhouse Mary #homeiswheretheboatis  Click the link in my bio to see all four tables and floral arrangements!

@april.cornell @nancysdailydish 

#southernlady #victoriamagazine #aprilcornellbrandambassador #summertable #mygarden #southernliving #mygarden #summertablescape #aprilcornell #alfrescotable #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #hydrangeas #flowerarrangements
Happy Thursday! It has rained for days and the sun Happy Thursday! It has rained for days and the sun has rarely been seen! But the rain has certainly been great for the weeds in the garden. Looking back on 16 summer tables from my blog. Link in bio!

#aprilcornell #aprilcornellbrandambassador #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #summertable #alfrescotable #tablesettings #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #southernliving #mygarden
Happy Tuesday, I invite you to join me for Tea on Happy Tuesday, I invite you to join me for Tea on Tuesdays! A 🍓strawberry🍓 themed tea was set under the arbor where the Lady Banks roses have climbed up and over. The roses bloomed in early spring and they were gorgeous, but now they provide a green canopy of shade, perfect for afternoon tea! A delicious strawberry and vanilla green tea is served along with strawberry trifles in vintage ice cream sundae glasses. Precious memories are always shared with my tables! 

I am joining Jennifer @jen_carroll_martin and Mary @homeiswheretheboatis.net for tea. Click the link in my profile to view all 3 blogs!

#teaontuesdays #teatime #strawberry #teatable #teatimemagazine #teaparty #teatimepoetry_ #teapot #victoriamagazine #southernladymag #teatimemagazine #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy Monday! We have had a lot of rain which shor Happy Monday! We have had a lot of rain which shortened our peony season! Peony Karl Rosenfield was absolutely stunning this year. Sarah Bernhardt was relocated last year and gave us some gorgeous blooms in spite of being moved. Several Spirea are in bloom as well as Clematis Jackmanii! What is blooming in your garden?

#mygarden #peonies #karlrosenfieldpeony #sarahbernhardtpeony #gardenflowers #springgarden #gardening #gardener #gardensofinstagram #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #southernlivingmag
Happy Wednesday! I set a table next to our woodlan Happy Wednesday! I set a table next to our woodlands in memory of my beautiful Mother who was a lovely example of a Proverbs 31 woman. Mother had the gift of hospitality and shared it with everyone. Karl Rosenfield peonies from my garden fill a treasured keepsake pitcher handed down from my grandmother! A beautiful floral April Cornell ‘Lillianna’ tablecloth and Famille Rose salad plates elevate the status of the old picnic table next to our woodlands. I have collected bejeweled enamel trinket boxes for many years and shared a few on the table for whimsy and fun. For memories of my Mother, click the link in my profile. 

“Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” Proverbs 31:30

#aprilcornell #aprilcornellbrandambassador  #peonies #mothersday #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #famillerose #alfrescotable #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy Thursday! I am behind in posting spring flow Happy Thursday! I am behind in posting spring flowers from my garden. Lady Banks Rose in bloom on the arbor 1-3 Snowball Viburnum with its showy blooms 4-5 Gorgeous Kwanzan Cherry blossoms 6-7 Old-fashioned Bridal Wreath Spirea 8-9 10 Lady Banks Rose 

Click link in bio to visit the blog post.

Wishing you a joy-filled day 🌼🤍🌺🤍

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With glorious weather, the table next to our woodl With glorious weather, the table next to our woodlands was perfect for teatime! It is Tea on Tuesdays with blogging friends Mary and Kitty. The table is enhanced by views toward the mountain, woodlands, and the large Snowball Viburnum. The verdant rye grass appears as a green carpet that has been spread for Easter! Vintage Fitz and Floyd ‘Herb Garden’ teapots, sugar and creamer, and oval tray are suited for springtime with their embossed bows, vegetables, and words. A bouquet of Kwanzan Cherry blossoms add more spring color to the setting. 

I am serving a simple teatime with Earl Grey tea, savory egg salad filled phyllo cups, and sweet vanilla cupcakes with cream cheese icing, and macarons! A favorite cottage rose tablecloth and Essential napkins are by April Cornell.

We are most blessed to celebrate the resurrection of Christ, being the source of new life, yet new life that is eternal. The beauty of this spring will again give way to another autumn in a few months, but the significance of His empty tomb will never change! Wishing you a blessed Holy Week ✝️ Click the link in my bio to view the blog!

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Happy Thursday! I love setting a table next to our Happy Thursday! I love setting a table next to our woodlands and this is the first one of the season, an Easter/Spring table! I love all the sweet bunny decorations, but Easter is so much more. We celebrate Easter because of the resurrection of Jesus Christ.  His bodily resurrection enables all those who choose to follow Him to have assured victory over our greatest enemy…death!

 I look forward each year when some of my favorite blooms display their amazing beauty in our garden. Snowball viburnum in its full glory with large creamy white blooms. Climbing Lady Banks Rose is covered in hundreds of miniature yellow blooms cascading to the ground. An old-fashioned Bridal Wreath Spirea with its branches arching to the ground in a fountain-like growth habit is loaded with showy double white flowers in clusters of three to six that resemble a bride’s wreath. I still claim the Kwanzan Cherry tree even though it is now on our son’s property. Its ruffled pink double pink blossoms are some of my favorite blooms. All four of these blooms make up an arrangement with a few tulips from the grocery store. 

A fluffle of moss bunnies hopped up to the picnic table. A ‘Charming’ tablecloth with  Mary Lake-Thompson napkins and Williams Sonoma enchanting ‘Famille Rose’ bunny plates!

#eastertablescape #springtablescape #alfresco #springtime #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #aprilcornell #aprilcornellbrandambassador #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #williamssonoma
I often shared my sweet Daddy and his stories on m I often shared my sweet Daddy and his stories on my blog. My precious Daddy passed away peacefully on March 26th at the age of 94, surrounded by his beloved family! He was born during the depths of the Great Depression. That may have been part of the reason he was always content and loved the simple things. 

“A good name is to be chosen rather than great riches, and favor is better than silver or gold.” Proverbs 22:1

After high school graduation he signed to play professional baseball with the Cleveland Indians Organization. His baseball career was cut short when he was drafted in the army. He was seriously wounded in the Korean War and was awarded a Purple Heart and two bronze stars. Upon returning home, he married my beautiful Mother and they shared 54 wonderful years together before she passed away suddenly. 

My brother and I grew up in a Christian home, bathed in love, calm, security, and contentment, under the care of the two finest parents anyone could have. Daddy was known as Pawpaw to his three grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren. 

My heart is broken, he was the best Daddy a girl could have. I know he is present with the Lord and I rejoice in that promise, knowing too, that my Mother is also in the eternal presence of our Heavenly Father. 

For more of my Daddy’s story, click the link in my bio.
Happy first day of Spring! One of my favorite bloo Happy first day of Spring! One of my favorite blooming trees of springtime is the Kwanzan Cherry! I love pairing them with my Snowball Viburnum blooms to make a lovely flower arrangement!

Wishing you a most beautiful day!

#cherryblossom #springtime #springinthesouth #kwanzancherry #mygarden #southerngarden #victoriamagazine #southernladymag #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Welcome to Sunshine Cottage and the March edition Welcome to Sunshine Cottage and the March edition of Tea on Tuesdays. My inspiration for teatime is the beautiful linens from @april.cornell With the celebration of their 50th anniversary, many Heritage Prints from the archives have returned. Eden is one of the beautiful patterns that has returned. It is a soft purple paradise where butterflies float, roses bloom, and soft sage leaves levitate. As an April Cornell Brand Ambassador, I was gifted these gorgeous linens! I have been a collector of @april.cornell linens for many years…the floral patterns resonate with my love of English Country. 

I am serving my favorite, Earl Gray tea, from an Eileen’s Reserve teapot. Teacups by Grace Teaware and vintage Rose Chintz salad plates by Johnson Brothers add more floral patterns to the mix. Japanese Magnolia blooms were cut from my garden and placed in a lilypad teapot!

Mary @ homeiswheretheboatis.net and I welcome Nancy @nance_endless_summer as our special guest! LINK in bio for the blog posts. Have a wonderful day!

#teaontuesdays #teatime #aprilcornell #southernladymagazine #teatimemagazine #teatimepoetry_ #homeiswheretheboatis #victoriamagazine #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #englishcountrystyle #aprilcornellbrandambassador
Happy St. Patrick’s Day ☘️ A few photos from our v Happy St. Patrick’s Day ☘️ A few photos from our visit to ☘️ Ireland, The Emerald Isle and a tablescape in our Appalachian Foothills ☘️

“May the raindrops fall lightly on your brow.
 May the soft winds freshen your spirit.
 May the sunshine brighten your heart.
 May the burdens of the day rest lightly 
 upon you.
 And may God enfold you in His love.”

#everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #stpatricksday
It felt like spring today with a high in the upper It felt like spring today with a high in the upper 70’s. Do you ever forget what you have? I do, so I compiled a partial catalog of my teapots. I have included some here and more on my blog. Click the LINK in my profile to see more! 

#teapot #teapotcollector #teapots #teaontuesdays #teatime #teatimemagazine #teatimepoetry_ #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
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