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This & That No. 11

June 4, 2021~ Everyday Living, Faith, Family, This & That

Hello sweet readers. You don’t often find me posting a blog on Fridays, but here I am. I was hoping to post yesterday, but I just couldn’t find the time to finish. I haven’t posted a “this & that” since May of last year. I decided it was about time!

“The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.”
‭‭Lamentations‬ ‭3:22-23

I so enjoy sharing with you my readers, but the blog also serves as a personal journal. As we all know, from March 2020 until just a few weeks ago our lives were different from what we had ever known. A pandemic hit the world and our everyday living suddenly changed!

A dream of mine became a reality last summer and you came along on the journey. I had talked about a potting shed for several years and in late spring, I began putting my ideas on paper. After much consideration, I changed from thoughts of a potting shed to a small cottage that the girls and I could play in. From start to finish, it took seven weeks to complete. It certainly made staying at home much sweeter. We have made so many memories from tea parties to playtimes, and yes sleeping in the cottage. As a matter of fact, we are having a slumber party tonight. A blow up mattress is placed in the middle of the room and this (older) grandmother sleeps on the floor with EM. We haven’t had EK for a cottage slumber party, but she may join us tonight. I will report on how it goes.READ MORE

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This & That No. 10

May 7, 2020~ Everyday Living, Faith, Family, This & That

“When I am afraid, I put my trust in you.”
‭‭Psalm‬ ‭56:3‬ ‭‬

Happy Thursday dear readers. I realized it has been quite a while since I last did a “this and that” or a “musings” post. Since this has been the most unprecedented time in my life, I thought it would be interesting to document a few details. For the past fifty three (53) days we have been sheltering in our home. I have made one trip each to the grocery store, Lowe’s, a garden center, and a Chick-fil-A drive thru. Of course, I see my eighty-nine year old Dad almost daily to take him dinner and make sure he is doing well. That has been the extent of my leaving home.

So what has been happening on the home front for the past 53 days?

 

Lots of reading, gardening, listening to birdsong symphonies, and way too much eating.

 


Butch and I have greatly missed our church family for the past seven Sundays. We are so thankful for technology that allows us to sit in our kitchen and participate in worship as our son, Seth leads and our wonderful pastor delivers a Christ-centered message. For Easter Sunday, Seth digitally mixed our praise team and musicians. Each member videoed themselves in their home and Seth put it all together. When I heard it on Easter Sunday, I became teary-eyed. I can’t remember if I have told you that I play keyboard and Butch plays acoustic guitar for our church. It is a big blessing to play with our son leading. You probably don’t know that I began playing in church when I was only twelve years old and have played almost continuously since. I began as church organist and in the late 80’s switched to keyboard. My love of music was passed down from my sweet Daddy, Butch’s mom passed on the gift to him. Seth grew up in our home where music was a constant. He taught himself to play guitar with a little help from Butch, and he has an incredible voice that sounds so much like Butch.

 

 

Our girls have been over several times to stay with us. They are so much fun, they sure make a day brighter. This was their egg hunt in the garden on the Saturday before Easter. Several readers have commented about their clothes. Ella Mae prefers to wear dresses for everyday, Emma doesn’t have an opinion as of yet. I receive so much pleasure in buying clothes for them. Ella Mae’s daisy dress was bought in Highlands when we were there in February to celebrate our anniversary. I bought Emma the cutest little strawberry outfit she will be sporting soon!

 

My daily wardrobe choice has been basically the same…sweat clothes! However, I must say I have not watched my church service in pajamas. I am not judging if you have (lol).READ MORE

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This & That No. 9

August 29, 2019~ Everyday Living, Faith, Family, Summer, This & That

“Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.”
‭‭John‬ ‭14:6‬ ‭

Happy Thursday dear readers! It has been a few months since I have shared a this and that post, you know those things that truly make up our everyday living.

These beautiful and precious ladies make up my small group that I lead at our church. We do life together and I love that we have a wide age range, with me being the oldest. Yikes, I can’t believe I just said that!

My Renaissance Man works extremely hard keeping up the garden and maintaining 31 acres. He does not know how to sit still and rest, it isn’t in his DNA!READ MORE

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A big southern welcome, y’all!  We are Butch & Pam and we are so glad you landed here at Everyday Living. If you stay around here long enough, you’ll learn that we are into a lot of different hobbies. You may find Pam putting together a tablescape, our travels, pullin’ weeds in the garden, and a variety of other things…just sharing our everyday living with you.  We both love reading and trying our hand at photography, but best of all…and our favorite – We are “Da”and“PJ” to 4 precious grandchildren! Butch (sometimes referred to as Renaissance Man, or RM) does our Sunday posts. Thank you for stopping by!

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Happy December…it truly is the happiest time of th Happy December…it truly is the happiest time of the year! I am sharing this merry table that was inspired by @april.cornell Victorian Christmas tablecloth! As an April Cornell brand ambassador I received the beautiful tablecloth and lovely Essential blue napkins. The red and white checkered top lends itself to classic casual elegance. The lovely snowy village on the border of the cloth came to life with a couple of snowy wood slice chargers that are topped with tiny little village shops that my beloved Mother gave me many years ago. They hold a special place in my heart. The salad plates depict Christmas Village scenes and complement the cloth. An easy centerpiece of fresh fruit is nestled atop fresh greens and placed in a Natale bowl by @arteitalicacrownlinen I have joined 17 table stylists for a Christmas Tablescape Blog Hop. Click the link in bio to see all of the ideas and inspiration!

#aprilcornellbrandambassador #aprilcornell #arteitalica #christmastable #itsthemostwonderfultimeoftheyear #christmascenterpiece #southernladymag #victoriamagazine
Happy September and meteorological fall! “Breaking Happy September and meteorological fall! “Breaking free from the grips of a lingering summer, and gaining freedom to embrace an anxious autumn, requires a September.” ~Butch Richardson

Autumn is my favorite season and my favorite time to set tables in my garden! I am sharing two tablescapes using the same @aprilcornell ‘Meridian’ tablecloth (one of my favorites) and faux leather chargers, but changing the other elements on the table! It is so easy to change a few things and have a different look! 

Table 1 photos 1-5 Meridian tablecloth, Spode ‘woodland’ dishware, quilted floral placemats, MacKenzie-Childs Flower Market vase with dahlias, chaste tree blooms, plus autumn fire sedum, and acrylic tortoise flatware. 

Table 2 - photos 6-9 Meridian tablecloth and napkins, hammered copper vase filled with dahlias and surrounded by apples, Fostoria Jamestown stemware, vintage ‘Harvest Time’ dishware by Johnson Brothers, and copper flatware! 

Click the link in my bio to read the blog post!

#aprilcornell #falltablescape #spode #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam 
#southernladymag #victoriamagazine
Welcome to the July edition of Tea on Tuesdays! It Welcome to the July edition of Tea on Tuesdays! It is so hot with a triple digit heat index that iced tea was definitely in order. We have a bumper crop of blueberries 🫐🫐🫐 so  blueberry tea and blueberry treats were perfect for teatime in our garden!  Zinnias are blooming and were begging to be featured on the table They are also in bloom on the @aprilcornell tablecloth! 

Sweet friends Shannon @bellebleuinteriors  and Mary homeiswheretheboatis.net have joined me. By clicking the link in my bio, you can see all three tea tables.

“A big glass of sweet iced tea will not solve the world’s problems, but it does make me forget they exist until the glass is empty!”
~Butch Richardson

#mygarden 
#zinnias 
#blueberries 
#teatime 
#teatimemagazine
#thecottagejournal 
#aprilcornell
#aprilcornellbrandambassador
#victoriamagazine 
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Happy Tuesday! I am a day late sharing Monday Morn Happy Tuesday! I am a day late sharing Monday Morning Blooms. The theme for the July edition is Summer Living! Living in the country, our summer days are filled with outdoor chores, one of which is gardening! My ‘Little Lamb’ panicled hydrangeas are in full bloom and are the star of my simple table setting! The basket holding the hydrangeas is very sentimental. It belonged to my beloved Mother who kept her journals and devotional books in the basket. I often picked up the books and journals to read while visiting my sweet Daddy. Since my Daddy passed away in March, my brother and I are cleaning out our parents home. I just knew the basket was coming home with me! My precious Mother would have loved seeing it filled with flowers! A vintage tablecloth, @april.cornell ‘Eden’ napkins, Portmeirion ‘Botanic Garden’ dinner plates and stemware from Tuesday Morning (many years ago) complete the table!

I joined Sarah @sjpa48 and Mary homeiswheretheboatis.net for Monday Morning Blooms. To read all three blogs on Summer Living, click the link in my bio.

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#southernladymagazine
#countryliving 
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#grandmillennialstyle
Happy July! 2025 is half over, and where did it go Happy July! 2025 is half over, and where did it go? I am celebrating the red, white, and blue with a table set in the garden with a couple of treats and sweet iced tea for this hot summer day. Precious memories are attached to the checked tablecloth. My beloved Mother prepared Sunday lunch every week until she passed away. Each Sunday was a feast comparable to Thanksgiving. During the summer months,  she often used this checked cloth. More delicious meals than I could count have been served on this cloth! 

Happy 4th of July❤️🤍💙

#everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #4thofjuly #redwhiteandblue #summertablescape #patriotictablescape #southernliving
Happy Sunday, join me for a walk in our June Garde Happy Sunday, join me for a walk in our June Garden! 

@southernlivingmag @southernladymag @victoriamagazine @thecottagejournal 

#my garden #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #southernlivingmag #southernladymag #thecottagejournal
Happy Wednesday! My favorite place to set a summer Happy Wednesday! My favorite place to set a summer table is in my garden. I decided the table should be simple to allow the hydrangeas to be the star! I always love sharing a ‘special something’ on a table setting that is sentimental and has wonderful memories attached like the majolica pitcher that belonged to my beloved Mother. A beautiful blue and white tablecloth by @april.cornell for @victoriamagazine was a surprise from my sweet husband and also included the ‘blue roses’ tea set which was a part of the limited edition when it was first introduced a few years ago. The Sur La Table floral-patterned earthenware was inspired by London’s Chelsea Flower Show in collaboration with artist, April Cornell. Vintage hobnail milk glass stemware was purchased at the Longest Yard Sale. Sometimes I just enjoy a simple table! 

I joined 16 table stylists for a summer tablescape blog hop. Click the link in the bio to see all of the summer tables!

Wishing you a joy-filled day!

#victoriamagazine #aprilcornell #aprilcornellbrandambassador #southernladymag #summertable #hydrangeas #thecottagejournal #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #mygarden #gardening
Happy Tuesday! I am late posting Monday Morning Bl Happy Tuesday! I am late posting Monday Morning Blooms. I love setting a table in the garden where God’s creation is on full display! A lovely muted April Cornell tablecloth mimics the colors of the Macrophylla and Arborescens hydrangeas. Beautiful hand-painted Crown Ducal salad plates feature different flowers including hydrangeas. 

I joined fell garden enthusiasts, Lidy @frenchgardenhouse Mary #homeiswheretheboatis  Click the link in my bio to see all four tables and floral arrangements!

@april.cornell @nancysdailydish 

#southernlady #victoriamagazine #aprilcornellbrandambassador #summertable #mygarden #southernliving #mygarden #summertablescape #aprilcornell #alfrescotable #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #hydrangeas #flowerarrangements
Happy Thursday! It has rained for days and the sun Happy Thursday! It has rained for days and the sun has rarely been seen! But the rain has certainly been great for the weeds in the garden. Looking back on 16 summer tables from my blog. Link in bio!

#aprilcornell #aprilcornellbrandambassador #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #summertable #alfrescotable #tablesettings #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #southernliving #mygarden
Happy Tuesday, I invite you to join me for Tea on Happy Tuesday, I invite you to join me for Tea on Tuesdays! A 🍓strawberry🍓 themed tea was set under the arbor where the Lady Banks roses have climbed up and over. The roses bloomed in early spring and they were gorgeous, but now they provide a green canopy of shade, perfect for afternoon tea! A delicious strawberry and vanilla green tea is served along with strawberry trifles in vintage ice cream sundae glasses. Precious memories are always shared with my tables! 

I am joining Jennifer @jen_carroll_martin and Mary @homeiswheretheboatis.net for tea. Click the link in my profile to view all 3 blogs!

#teaontuesdays #teatime #strawberry #teatable #teatimemagazine #teaparty #teatimepoetry_ #teapot #victoriamagazine #southernladymag #teatimemagazine #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy Monday! We have had a lot of rain which shor Happy Monday! We have had a lot of rain which shortened our peony season! Peony Karl Rosenfield was absolutely stunning this year. Sarah Bernhardt was relocated last year and gave us some gorgeous blooms in spite of being moved. Several Spirea are in bloom as well as Clematis Jackmanii! What is blooming in your garden?

#mygarden #peonies #karlrosenfieldpeony #sarahbernhardtpeony #gardenflowers #springgarden #gardening #gardener #gardensofinstagram #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #southernlivingmag
Happy Wednesday! I set a table next to our woodlan Happy Wednesday! I set a table next to our woodlands in memory of my beautiful Mother who was a lovely example of a Proverbs 31 woman. Mother had the gift of hospitality and shared it with everyone. Karl Rosenfield peonies from my garden fill a treasured keepsake pitcher handed down from my grandmother! A beautiful floral April Cornell ‘Lillianna’ tablecloth and Famille Rose salad plates elevate the status of the old picnic table next to our woodlands. I have collected bejeweled enamel trinket boxes for many years and shared a few on the table for whimsy and fun. For memories of my Mother, click the link in my profile. 

“Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” Proverbs 31:30

#aprilcornell #aprilcornellbrandambassador  #peonies #mothersday #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #famillerose #alfrescotable #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Happy Thursday! I am behind in posting spring flow Happy Thursday! I am behind in posting spring flowers from my garden. Lady Banks Rose in bloom on the arbor 1-3 Snowball Viburnum with its showy blooms 4-5 Gorgeous Kwanzan Cherry blossoms 6-7 Old-fashioned Bridal Wreath Spirea 8-9 10 Lady Banks Rose 

Click link in bio to visit the blog post.

Wishing you a joy-filled day 🌼🤍🌺🤍

#mygarden #gardening #gardener #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #southernlivingmag #cottagegarden #gardeninglife #gardendesignmag #ladybanksrose #snowballviburnum #bridalwreathspirea #kwanzancherry #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
With glorious weather, the table next to our woodl With glorious weather, the table next to our woodlands was perfect for teatime! It is Tea on Tuesdays with blogging friends Mary and Kitty. The table is enhanced by views toward the mountain, woodlands, and the large Snowball Viburnum. The verdant rye grass appears as a green carpet that has been spread for Easter! Vintage Fitz and Floyd ‘Herb Garden’ teapots, sugar and creamer, and oval tray are suited for springtime with their embossed bows, vegetables, and words. A bouquet of Kwanzan Cherry blossoms add more spring color to the setting. 

I am serving a simple teatime with Earl Grey tea, savory egg salad filled phyllo cups, and sweet vanilla cupcakes with cream cheese icing, and macarons! A favorite cottage rose tablecloth and Essential napkins are by April Cornell.

We are most blessed to celebrate the resurrection of Christ, being the source of new life, yet new life that is eternal. The beauty of this spring will again give way to another autumn in a few months, but the significance of His empty tomb will never change! Wishing you a blessed Holy Week ✝️ Click the link in my bio to view the blog!

#eastertable #aprilcornellbrandambassador  #aprilcornell #fitzandfloyd #teatime #teatimemagazine #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #teaontuesdays #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #alfresco
Happy Thursday! I love setting a table next to our Happy Thursday! I love setting a table next to our woodlands and this is the first one of the season, an Easter/Spring table! I love all the sweet bunny decorations, but Easter is so much more. We celebrate Easter because of the resurrection of Jesus Christ.  His bodily resurrection enables all those who choose to follow Him to have assured victory over our greatest enemy…death!

 I look forward each year when some of my favorite blooms display their amazing beauty in our garden. Snowball viburnum in its full glory with large creamy white blooms. Climbing Lady Banks Rose is covered in hundreds of miniature yellow blooms cascading to the ground. An old-fashioned Bridal Wreath Spirea with its branches arching to the ground in a fountain-like growth habit is loaded with showy double white flowers in clusters of three to six that resemble a bride’s wreath. I still claim the Kwanzan Cherry tree even though it is now on our son’s property. Its ruffled pink double pink blossoms are some of my favorite blooms. All four of these blooms make up an arrangement with a few tulips from the grocery store. 

A fluffle of moss bunnies hopped up to the picnic table. A ‘Charming’ tablecloth with  Mary Lake-Thompson napkins and Williams Sonoma enchanting ‘Famille Rose’ bunny plates!

#eastertablescape #springtablescape #alfresco #springtime #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #aprilcornell #aprilcornellbrandambassador #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #williamssonoma
I often shared my sweet Daddy and his stories on m I often shared my sweet Daddy and his stories on my blog. My precious Daddy passed away peacefully on March 26th at the age of 94, surrounded by his beloved family! He was born during the depths of the Great Depression. That may have been part of the reason he was always content and loved the simple things. 

“A good name is to be chosen rather than great riches, and favor is better than silver or gold.” Proverbs 22:1

After high school graduation he signed to play professional baseball with the Cleveland Indians Organization. His baseball career was cut short when he was drafted in the army. He was seriously wounded in the Korean War and was awarded a Purple Heart and two bronze stars. Upon returning home, he married my beautiful Mother and they shared 54 wonderful years together before she passed away suddenly. 

My brother and I grew up in a Christian home, bathed in love, calm, security, and contentment, under the care of the two finest parents anyone could have. Daddy was known as Pawpaw to his three grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren. 

My heart is broken, he was the best Daddy a girl could have. I know he is present with the Lord and I rejoice in that promise, knowing too, that my Mother is also in the eternal presence of our Heavenly Father. 

For more of my Daddy’s story, click the link in my bio.
Happy first day of Spring! One of my favorite bloo Happy first day of Spring! One of my favorite blooming trees of springtime is the Kwanzan Cherry! I love pairing them with my Snowball Viburnum blooms to make a lovely flower arrangement!

Wishing you a most beautiful day!

#cherryblossom #springtime #springinthesouth #kwanzancherry #mygarden #southerngarden #victoriamagazine #southernladymag #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
Welcome to Sunshine Cottage and the March edition Welcome to Sunshine Cottage and the March edition of Tea on Tuesdays. My inspiration for teatime is the beautiful linens from @april.cornell With the celebration of their 50th anniversary, many Heritage Prints from the archives have returned. Eden is one of the beautiful patterns that has returned. It is a soft purple paradise where butterflies float, roses bloom, and soft sage leaves levitate. As an April Cornell Brand Ambassador, I was gifted these gorgeous linens! I have been a collector of @april.cornell linens for many years…the floral patterns resonate with my love of English Country. 

I am serving my favorite, Earl Gray tea, from an Eileen’s Reserve teapot. Teacups by Grace Teaware and vintage Rose Chintz salad plates by Johnson Brothers add more floral patterns to the mix. Japanese Magnolia blooms were cut from my garden and placed in a lilypad teapot!

Mary @ homeiswheretheboatis.net and I welcome Nancy @nance_endless_summer as our special guest! LINK in bio for the blog posts. Have a wonderful day!

#teaontuesdays #teatime #aprilcornell #southernladymagazine #teatimemagazine #teatimepoetry_ #homeiswheretheboatis #victoriamagazine #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #englishcountrystyle #aprilcornellbrandambassador
Happy St. Patrick’s Day ☘️ A few photos from our v Happy St. Patrick’s Day ☘️ A few photos from our visit to ☘️ Ireland, The Emerald Isle and a tablescape in our Appalachian Foothills ☘️

“May the raindrops fall lightly on your brow.
 May the soft winds freshen your spirit.
 May the sunshine brighten your heart.
 May the burdens of the day rest lightly 
 upon you.
 And may God enfold you in His love.”

#everydaylivingwithbutchandpam #stpatricksday
It felt like spring today with a high in the upper It felt like spring today with a high in the upper 70’s. Do you ever forget what you have? I do, so I compiled a partial catalog of my teapots. I have included some here and more on my blog. Click the LINK in my profile to see more! 

#teapot #teapotcollector #teapots #teaontuesdays #teatime #teatimemagazine #teatimepoetry_ #southernladymag #victoriamagazine #everydaylivingwithbutchandpam
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