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Lessons From A Vineyard

January 8, 2015~ Faith

“I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing”
John‬ ‭15‬:‭5‬

Last Sunday, I was blessed to be both engaged and challenged by very solid teaching/discussion centered around the words of Jesus as found in scripture in John 15. The vineyard, the fruit, the vine, the vinedresser, and “abiding”.  While I certainly encourage you to check out this chapter, that is not my main purpose for mentioning it.

The time spent in this chapter triggered my memory of an encounter that Pam and I had a few months back while visiting a vineyard.  I suppose the proper term would be winery.  It was in Texas, but had the look and feel of Tuscany.  We had to stop for a visit.

We browsed through the large display area and store where there were a lot of interesting items for sale, as well as wine tasting, tours, and of course wine to purchase.  A young woman (young to me at least) that was a store clerk asked if she could help with anything.  We shared that we were just looking around and commented on the grounds and vineyards.  Pam, our question asker extraordinaire, needed info on the place, of course.  It so happened that we were the only customers inside at the time and the three of us began talking.  It is to the young lady’s story that my memory drifted as I sat under this teaching on Sunday and that I will make a feeble effort to relate.  It’s a story worth repeating.  I wish her exact words were recorded but even then the heartfelt manner in which she spoke and her countenance cannot be duplicated on the written page.  Not by me anyway!

But here goes-in short form.  We first asked one of those common conversation openers-“did you grow up here in Texas?”  The reply was “no”. But apparently, sensing like mindedness and a kindred spirit, she elaborated.  She and her husband had moved from another state and had not been in Texas that long.  He had served in ministry at their previous location.  It was evident that they had experienced some difficult times.  We wanted no details, only tried to encourage.  However, what she shared next took the “encouragement ball” out of our court and placed it in hers.

She needed to work when they moved to Texas.  She had not worked at a winery but was appreciative of the opportunity to work in the shop and learn about the business.  Unusual weather conditions prompted the winery to call her and all available employees and ask them to be at work very early to pick grapes.

Admittedly, this was disturbing as she had not been hired to pick grapes and knew nothing about this tedious task.

Struggling with that attitude, she found herself in the vineyard anyway. What took place in her heart that day-out there with all those grapes-reveals how God wants to speak to us during our everyday living-if we will pay attention.  She said it something like this; I discovered that the grapes that were woven tightly and found closest to the vine were the hardest to pull away.  Those that wrapped themselves around the vine, clinging in an abiding fashion were not easily dislodged.  These were also the sweetest and best.  And in that moment, standing in a beautiful vineyard, those words in the Bible that I had heard and read many times really came alive for the first time!

Her words were much better and our conversation was much longer.  It was one of those special times that comes along when we need it most.  God works that way. With an OK from her co-workers, she invited Pam and me to come outside and walk with her through the nearby vineyard where she pointed out and demonstrated to us exactly what she had told us inside.  We looked closely at grapes abiding in the vine-good fruit!  The picture was so clear as we stood there.  Her attitude and heart were changed that day while picking grapes.  She seemed to be “abiding” now.  She could not sidestep and circle around life’s troubles but now had grace to go through them.  Her heart was changed one day in that vineyard, and so was ours.

” As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you.  Abide in my love”
John 15:9

“I am the true vine, and my Father is the vinedresser”
John‬ ‭15‬:‭1‬

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  1. Brenda Brown Gunnells says

    January 8, 2015 at 6:54 AM

    Loved reading this…..great way to start my day!!!! Thanks Butch!! You and Pam are great at lifting our spirits are we read your blog. Have a happy and Blessed day…..and STAY WARM!!!

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    • Pam Richardson says

      January 8, 2015 at 9:03 AM

      Thank you, Brenda! Hope your day is joy-filled and you all stay warm! We appreciate your encouraging words! Blessings, Pam and Butch!

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  2. Phyllis Walsh says

    January 8, 2015 at 10:03 AM

    How encouraging! Thanks for blessing my day. He is the vine and we are the branches. It will sweeten my thoughts and have me keep my mind on higher ground. God bless us all!

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    • Pam Richardson says

      August 4, 2015 at 11:44 AM

      Phyllis,thank you so much for your encouraging words! Blessings, Butch and Pam

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  3. AnnMarie says

    January 11, 2015 at 3:01 PM

    I had the awesome opportunity to tie up grape vines one year in the summer before the grapes started to grow. It was so peaceful out there and I will never forget the experience. Your story puts new light on it now! I also live in the Finger Lakes of Upstate NY, known for the world glass grapes and wine produced here, and so I get to enjoy driving by vineyards, smelling their pungent aroma in the Fall and seeing up close how beautiful the grapes are on the vine. I just love the part of how the clusters closest to the vine are harder to pull away! Great post!

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  4. Pam Richardson says

    January 11, 2015 at 10:18 PM

    AnnMarie, thank you so much for your wonderful comments! I have heard about the beauty of the Finger Lakes area of New York and the world class grapes that are grown there! Thank you for sharing your experience with us! Blessings for 2015!! Butch and Pam

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  5. Sherry says

    January 13, 2015 at 11:59 AM

    What a greats story! Love it! Thanks for joining HSH!

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    • Pam Richardson says

      January 14, 2015 at 9:44 PM

      Sherry, thank you so much and for the lovely party! Blessings, Pam

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  6. Jann Olson says

    January 14, 2015 at 1:03 AM

    Beautiful post! I have never worked in a vineyard, but hubby and i toured the vineyards in Napa last July. I too felt as though we were in Italy. Simply a breathtaking sight! Thanks for sharing with SYC.
    Jann

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    • Pam Richardson says

      January 14, 2015 at 9:45 PM

      Jann, thank you. Hope the rest of your week is wonder-filled! Pam

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  7. Jill Roberts says

    January 14, 2015 at 3:52 PM

    So beautiful.. I’m just finding this post! I’ve always felt the wine process depicts our relationship with the Father so beautiful! And then there’s the fermenting/waiting and even the crushing so we too can be poured out! I needed the reminder today. We’ve visited the vineyards and wine tours in Napa Valley.. and even a little ma and pa vineyard in Half Moon Bay in San Francisco.. HMB winds around the coast, it’s a beautiful drive you guys would love!

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  8. Cindy says

    January 14, 2015 at 8:31 PM

    Beautiful! I especially love the last part of the verse, “apart from me you can do nothing.” God is so good and with Him all things are possible, for this I am so thankful!

    Thanks so much for sharing at AMAZE ME MONDAY.
    Blessings,
    Cindy

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    • Pam Richardson says

      January 14, 2015 at 9:47 PM

      Jill, your gracious words always make me smile. Butch and I have been to Napa a couple of times and to half Moon Bay. We love that area! Hugs!

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    • Pam Richardson says

      January 14, 2015 at 9:49 PM

      Cindy, thank you for your encouraging words. Yes, He is good!! Blessings, Pam

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  9. Pam Richardson says

    January 14, 2015 at 9:50 PM

    Cindy, thank you for your encouraging words. Yes, He is good! Blessings, Pam

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